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Old Nov 27th, 2015, 04:32 AM   1
lemely
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TTC #2 Less Than 12 Months After #1


Hi Ladies is anyone else TTC#2 very soon after #1. Just started this month as LO is 9 weeks. It took us over 4 years to conceive him so trying to take full advantage of the increased fertility after birth. I know its going to be tough but I really want him to have a sibling that is a similar age looking for buddies going on a similar journey because I know its going to be tough and people are going to judge



 
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Old Dec 1st, 2015, 01:46 AM   2
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Hi lemely
We are starting this month too. My son is 8mos and I would love to have a sibling for him plus I'm turning 35 so I feel like clock ticking. It took me year to conceive.
I m cd5 of my first period since my son. Ll start ttc from this weekend. I won't be using opks etc just gona go with flow



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Old Dec 8th, 2015, 22:00 PM   3
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I completely understand my DS just turned 10 months, and we're really hoping to give him a sibling that he can be close in age with. He is our only child as of now, and we tried for over 2 years before we were finally blessed with him. I completely understand the fertility struggles, and I only wish you the best.



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Old Dec 10th, 2015, 00:40 AM   4
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Goodluck nessa..
Are you trying for baby#2?
I am just waiting for o..it can happen anyway since I just stopped breastfeeding and had 1 cycle..not too sure wat to expect...



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Old Dec 26th, 2015, 10:21 AM   5
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Hi jannah and nessa, sorry late reply didnt get any notification that i had responses im breastfeeding but my lb has silent reflux so i have to give him special formula and gaviscon as well so cut down my feeds to twice a day, hoping it will help. Ive just O'd today so fingers crossed. Last month was dissapointin was soo hard to find myself poas again and that rubbish feeling when it was a BFN.



 
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Old Dec 26th, 2015, 22:35 PM   6
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Hi lemely
Good luck
I am 1 week from af...I dunt temp.or opk so hoping I oed when I thought I did
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Old Dec 27th, 2015, 07:06 AM   7
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Ooh fingers crossed, i use opks but ive o'd really late this time, on cd 27 and my cycle is usual only 28 days so im hoping my lp isnt going to be too short. When are you going to test? Xx



 
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Old Dec 27th, 2015, 07:17 AM   8
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Hi lemely
I just tested bfn...my skin has been breaking out since o pain...I used to have such beautiful skin before that...that made me test ...I think I m 4 days from af but I stopped bf last mth so anythinf xan happen...I don't think I oed when I thought I did...we haven't had a chance to bd since after the assumed fertile window...I trained my first one to sleep in nursery but usually my oh or i.end up bringing him to bed...plus oh likes to sleep late n doesn't sleep.much whereas I need my 8hrs...I dread dtd phase as timing stresses oh out n me too coz I have to work ard him and his mood...I know there are some men who ll dtd daily but my oh isn't into it...I think it has to do with my weight gain so I m working out hoping to get in shape...we have been married 5yrs and dtd can become a chore when trying for baby ...it is hardly coz we are in a mood...my oh has diabetes too...I also think men have their own wiring...they say they want a baby but are lazy to put efforts and the pressure falls on woman...I m.turning 35 in august and really would like to conceieve before than...



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Old Dec 27th, 2015, 07:37 AM   9
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I know what you mean jannah ive been married 5 years too and whilst i was pregnant my oh wasnt intertested in dtd at all, its been difficult to encourage him at the right times and with the lo I have to slot it between his naps ive been getting into a routine of getting Lo back to sleep at 7am so i have an half hour slot before oh goes to work but its difficult.



 
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Old Dec 28th, 2015, 00:24 AM   10
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..my oh is tired at night or cuddling with our son. ..in the morning, he is either trying to sleep or say he has work...after work usually laptop n tv...I have yet to find the secret to turn him on...some pPl say not to tell then it's fertile time aND just get them in mood...I have tried that...doesn't work...I even tell him few days before that fertile window is coming to dtd atleast 2 times during that. ..that becomes very stressful too...I m thinking instead of pushing him, let my next few cycles give me a pattern so I can work ard it and make sure my son is in crib and I keep oh happy n pampered...rt now it is just hit or miss...
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