I had the best PMA boost last night and have woken up this morning feeling great!
So you know my DH is away in Majorca on a 4 day bender. It's the first time we have spent the night apart since we got married in May and the longest time apart since we've been together (over 5 years). Well, much as I hate to admit it but I have been dreading him going as he was going with 24 other lads (of which I only know 5) and have been feeling anxious about the sort of activities which normally go hand in hand with any stag do. My own poor self-esteem going into overdrive!
Anyway, DH phoned me late last night, a little bit worse for wear, to say goodnight to me. All of the other lads had gone off to a nightclub and he and another guy had stayed behind because he isn't interested in 'that kind of thing' anymore because he's got me now. He said to that even though he knew he was a bit tipsy he wanted me to know that he was missing me terribly and that he loves me more than ever and that I needed to know that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him
Then he said 'I really want us to have a baby!!'. This came as a bit of a surprise as my DH is the in typical male camp of 'we've got loads of time' etc as he doesn't really understand the ins and outs of TTC. He said 'If we haven't got pregnant by Christmas I'll do anything, tests, whatever it takes' Aww bless him.
So I've woken up today feeling very positive about TTC and feel that he may finally be engaged 100% in it (like I am). I walked up the road to my office with a spring in my step and a smile on my face, feeling truly blessed because I have a husband who loves me very much
Hi ZB, I know exactly how you feel. And it's bloody great!
For the past 3 cycles (following m/cing accidental pregnancy in June) I have been ttc but he hasn't been that keen.
Or rather, he's not avoiding but doesn't want to talk about and last month got a bit narky about BDing around O because he guessed what I was up to
Anyway, last night after a couple of cheeky vodkas (bad Halle) I asked him if we could start making babies and he said he thought we already were I told him there was a good chance this month and he seemed happy so I am I suspected this though because one time this week I was on top when he came (tmi, sorry) and before pulling out he flipped me over and then stayed there for a few minutes. I have never talked about it being better with me underneath but I guess it is common sense and that is what he was trying to do... I'm now 2dpo and we bd'd for 4 days prior.... Feeling lots of pma!
This morning he left on a stag do to Barcelona which I was worried about for the same reasons as you and I'm going to miss him loads as we have not been apart either. I got into work this morning (he left at 3am) to find the most lovely email sent from ther airport and now I feel reassured about the rest of the weekend and I can enjoy mine. I have lots of nice things planned and I'm so happy it should fly by. He has made me feel
I know, this weekend would have really dragged otherwise. And I would have wound myself up really badly about stag do behaviour..... Now I can enjoy myself and look forward to seeing him on Sunday which will be 4 DPO and just over a week until I can test.
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