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Old Feb 4th, 2011, 17:44 PM   51
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absolutely nothing is impossible!!!

That's a shame about your biological mum but then you wouldn't have the family you have today! And that is great! I think that's a really story to be able to tell your grandchildren about their great grandparents! Not that long ago I wanted to go into fostering but then we decided to go all out with ttc and then got the letter about having to move house and we thought it wasn't such a great time!! Maybe one day, but I think that people who adopt and foster are really really special people!

That's really cute what your brother said!

You wouldn't want to be here in the winter!!!!!! Right now its really windy!!!! It's really noisey and blowing things over outside!!! I'm so happy i'm inside, nice and warm!

FF seems to think I ov'd on the 25th jan so that would been I'm 10dpo and due my period in 4 days! but I though I was due AF on thursday which would be 6 days away! Now I'm confused!! hmmm



 
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Old Feb 4th, 2011, 18:27 PM   52
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i have thought about the fostering thing too, but now with one 24/7 and the other halftime, i dont think we can really afford it. a friend of mine from high school has done it though and is now in the process of trying to adopt the little girl. her mum was into drugs and got sent to jail, and my friend and her husband have had the little girl pretty much full time since she was born about 4 years ago. i agree that the people who want to adopt and foster are very special. some people dont even love their biological kids properly, so it is really something to love unconditionally a child who doesnt share your genetics at all

my brother hated me for awhile because he was very into the tv show where the main character had a trans am car. my parents had been on the list for another baby for 8 years and were literally two weekends away from their appointment to take their name off the list. at that time it was hard to adopt more than one child and they thought it wasnt going to happen after all that time. they were going to take their name off and buy a trans am. then they got the call about me. needless to say, with a new infant, they couldnt afford the trans am. my mom asked my brother "what do you want most in the world?" and he said "you got a trans am!?" and she said "okay...second most?" and he said "you got me a puppy!!!?" and then she finally just told him they were bringing him a sister home. he was less than enthused. then he saw me, with my no eyebrows and my transparent skin, and he wanted to send me back right away! lol.

i dont envy you at all! i grew up in wyoming and the winters there are horrible with lots of snow and wind. and its cold from about early october to about april. i dont miss the cold. sometimes i do miss having a fireplace to snuggle up around though. when we move it will most likely to be to someplace quite a bit colder than here. gonna have to buy a whole new wardrobe...i dont even have a winter jacket anymore! lol

i have heard that FF can be somewhat inaccurate in the beginning and the longer you chart the more it gets to understand your cycle. maybe thats why the numbers seem a little off from what youre expecting? since this is your first month charting... im not sure though. are you going to test earlier than you had originally planned then?



 
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Old Feb 5th, 2011, 04:49 AM   53
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Look at that dip!!
I'm getting some really weird feelings in my left nipple today!!! And some mean ass cramps. Along with lower back ache again!!

That is a really sweet story about your brother! Bless him!! Did he ever get the trans am? You have some amazing memories to share!

It's so windy here today (i was yesterday too) It's so bad, when the wind blows it feels like its going to blow the window/back door down!! It's howling through our single glazed windows!!!! I am very glad I am inside and don't have to go out anywhere today!

I AM going to get some packing done today!! I feel a bit under pressure now that I havent done any for ages and we have 6 days left to pack the rest of the house!! A lot of packing!

I am still going to wait it out I think, I really dont want a BFN! I might (if it comes to it) get a cheap test from the shop during the week and test quietly (shhh) Hubby doesn't want me to waste tests, so I have agreed with him that the last pg test I have waiting for me, I'm not going to use until AF is late! I think I will wait until thursday to see what my temp does and if it goes down I'll wait, if it stays up then I might be tempted. I am still feeling hopeful.

I still worry about the move and not knowing if I'm preg or not, so this is why I'd prob go and test earlier than agreed with hubby! But only if I was still hopeful as I would hate to be lifting boxes and putting myself at risk! Just being cautious!

I think there should be something that triggers in your brain that tells you that your pregnant as soon as implantation happens! If only...

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ahhh...sorry i was completely mia for the weekend. things always get busy around here on the weekeneds and it seems like we go non-stop from friday night to sunday night every week. any more symptoms over the weekend? it seems like you are really getting a lot! i definitely agree about sneaking a test in a little early just to be sure before the big move. like you said, you dont want to be doing a lot of strenuous work if you are pregnant. like you said, since youre temping you can get a pretty good idea of whether or not you need to test by if it dips or not. even if you test and dont get a BFP though, you should probably take the moving a bit easy just because sometimes it takes a bit for the test to read positive. with audrey i tested at 5 days late and it barely was enough to produce a positive result. everyone creates the hormone at different levels/rates.

so were you able to get any packing done!? hopefully...the day is drawing near!

my tummy was really tender this weekend and so i kept thinking "maybe, just maybe..." then DH was holding audrey and i was laying on the floor doing situps and he came and plunked her down on my tummy. he did it harder than he meant to and i was like "oooofff...audrey you just jumped on your baby brother or sister!" DH about fell over! he was like "really? are you?!" and i was like "no...i dunno" but you could see in his eyes he got really excited for a minute there. he wont admit it, but i think he wants another just as badly as me. he more says we are NTNP for me, but i know the truth

i think youre right...there should just be some concrete symbol or pregnancy. none of these strange symptoms that could or couldnt be...and keep us guessing all month. we need something like a little light on out tummys that go green when pregnant and red when not

oh...and my brother finally got himself a trans am when he was like 28 or 29. but it only lasted a couple years...those sports cars and cold, rough wyoming winters dont mix very well. speaking of winters...hope you are keeping youself warm in that wind and cold!



 
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Old Feb 7th, 2011, 14:52 PM   55
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Hi, I know how it is with being busy over the weekend, especially with little ones. We had a really busy weekend packing, I was just beginning to get withdrawal symptoms so had to keep coming back for a sneak!! I dont know how im going to manage next week when we have no internet!!! aagggghhh!!

Aww that's really sweet about your DH!! My hubby keeps asking me... "do you feel pregnant yet?" I don't like to say "yeah, actually i do". Even though I don't know what that feels like, I'm just worried it might be me feeling a little too hopeful! I do feel 'different', something I can't describe!

Last night I was super super restless, took me ages to get to sleep and just couldnt get comfy!! Even now, writing this message, I'm getting restless. Don't know what it is, but feel uncomfortable all the time. I also had pains in my uterus last night in bed and today. Had some dull cramps today. To be honest it felt like AF was coming. My boobs are very tender tonight, never had pain like it in my boobs!!

Also I have a cold coming on.... now i know this could be just a cold, plain old cold!! nothing more, nothing less!!
But I can't help but think about all those times when I've seen women comment about runny noses and like a full blown cold coming on and then getting their BFP's!
Trying not to get my hopes up!! we shall see!!

Keeping warm!! moving friday!!!!!!!!!!! eeeeek!! I will definitely be taking care on friday even if I do get a bfo and no af! don't want to risk anything

When are you testing?? I'm excited for you!!
p.s. glad your brother got his trans am!!!



 
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Old Feb 7th, 2011, 14:52 PM   56
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Hi, I know how it is with being busy over the weekend, especially with little ones. We had a really busy weekend packing, I was just beginning to get withdrawal symptoms so had to keep coming back for a sneak!! I dont know how im going to manage next week when we have no internet!!! aagggghhh!!

Aww that's really sweet about your DH!! My hubby keeps asking me... "do you feel pregnant yet?" I don't like to say "yeah, actually i do". Even though I don't know what that feels like, I'm just worried it might be me feeling a little too hopeful! I do feel 'different', something I can't describe!

Last night I was super super restless, took me ages to get to sleep and just couldnt get comfy!! Even now, writing this message, I'm getting restless. Don't know what it is, but feel uncomfortable all the time. I also had pains in my uterus last night in bed and today. Had some dull cramps today. To be honest it felt like AF was coming. My boobs are very tender tonight, never had pain like it in my boobs!!

Also I have a cold coming on.... now i know this could be just a cold, plain old cold!! nothing more, nothing less!!
But I can't help but think about all those times when I've seen women comment about runny noses and like a full blown cold coming on and then getting their BFP's!
Trying not to get my hopes up!! we shall see!!

Keeping warm!! moving friday!!!!!!!!!!! eeeeek!! I will definitely be taking care on friday even if I do get a bfo and no af! don't want to risk anything

When are you testing?? I'm excited for you!!
p.s. glad your brother got his trans am!!!



 
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Old Feb 7th, 2011, 19:03 PM   57
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oh my gosh...i dont know what i would do with no internet! are you just without it until you can get someone to come hook it up? i feel like i am so dependent on the internet these days...i have forgotten how to do things the old fashioned way. litterally last week i couldnt find the phone number of a place online and had to use the phone book...it took me forever and i was getting frustrated because i had forgotten how it was organized and such. lol

aww. i really hope that your "different" feeling is a little bean growing in there! what a great housewarming present that would be! its cute that your DH is all excited too, asking how you feel and such. i bet he is excited for testing day too

i got sharp pains in my uterus for the first trimester with audrey. i dont really know what it was...growing pains or something. it was painful though and it would come on, last maybe 3 or 4 minutes and then pass. that would happen a few times a day. i was so sure that something was wrong and that i was misscarrying. i guess i didnt realized how much your uterus grows in pregnancy...and how it can hurt!

ive never heard the cold thing. i got a cold right before audrey was due, but other than that i was like super immune woman my whole pregnancy. dylan and DH kept getting sick and i was so scared id get it each time, but i never did...not until the very end at least. but i hope that your cold is a good sign and not just a plain, ordinary cold. cause those are no fun!

i think i will test next monday if nothing is going on as far as AF. its hard to tell because, if im back on my regular schedule, AF would be due this thursday. but, i really dont know if i am or not. i think ill test then to see. and then if its a BFN and still no AF, ill just test every two weeks until she shows again. i always want to test because i want to know, but at the same time...those tests are so expensive! lol

youll have to let me know if you decide to sneak a test a little early!



 
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We are due the same day! Hopefully she stays away for us both, I sure dont want to see her again for a LONG time!! I will test on friday if no show and then if she still hasnt turned up by monday I will test again on monday!

I did test this morning again but only cos I had this weird dream that I can't remember anything about exept being on a bus and feeling a massive pressure in my uterus!! I have no idea if this was real or not but it sure did feel as though I felt it! Was the weirdest thing! Can't describe it! And when I woke up I just had this 'feeling'!! I hope I'm right!!

That would be the most amazing house warming gift if I was growing a little one right now!! hubby would be over the moon!!! And so would I, I really do feel like there couldn't be any reason for a negative test and this is the month but I could be completely wrong!! Something inside is saying that I'm out!

As far as the internet goes, it's being reconnected at our new house on the 18th so we will be without internet for 6/7 days!!!!!!! and tv!!!! I get internet at work tho so I'm hoping i'll be able to get on there! Going to get withdrawal symptoms!!



 
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Old Feb 8th, 2011, 12:28 PM   59
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i agree! i would LOVE it if she doesnt show her face for, oh say...another 10 months! but i am a little crampy this morning and sort of thinking she might show up...booo. if she does, i cant say ill be surprised. we didnt get the chance to DTD as much as i had hoped this month because of DHs triathalon training. he is dead tired most of the time and so we arent getting as much baby making done! lol

i had the strangest dreams when i was pregnant. i never remember my dreams and for the longest time was convinced i didnt dream, but when i was pregnant i remembered them all and they were so real and vibrant...it was strange for me. and since ive had audrey its gone back to not being able to remember them. so maybe your weird dream is a good sign!

hopefully nothing happens by thursday and you get to test friday! so excited for you. and then, if nothing has happened for either of us by monday...woot woot for POAS! though...i hope you have youre BFP by friday and dont have to wait the weekend. then you can "supervise" the moving while your DH fawns over his expecting wife

whoa! thats a long time without internet! the tv thing shouldnt be so bad, but maybe thats because we dont have tv at our house. we watch some shows on the internet, but for the most part we just dont watch tv. the kids use the tv to watch movies more than we do. lol. but at least youll be able to fuel your B&B addiction a little bit at work!



 
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Every cycle around this time (2ww) I always seem to have really vivid dreams about babies and breastfeeding etc I always seem to remember then when i wake up feeling really disappointed that is wasnt true!! This cycle in the 2ww, I have had NO dreams what so ever. Well I say no dreams i've probably had them but cant remember having them. That's something I find a bit weird!!

I can't help but feel all these symptoms that I've never had before, They HAVE to mean something!! dont they!!!! I'm dreading them being down to my body playing tricks.

That sounds quite promising though that the symptoms that i have been having, some of them, you have had too!! I really hope that's a good thing.

Ive had cramps and a bad back all this evening, but the cramps are sending pains around my hips, i just feel uncomfortable. The cramps are quite sharp, not dull like the AF cramps.

How's the cycling going?



 
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