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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 16:21 PM   571
noodles13
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Hiya sorry you've gone through some hard times
Life throws shit at us and we battle out way through it
We are fighters
I had a diabolical year 2017 was literally the worst year i think I have ever had to get through my youngest cousin who I have been brought up with Like a brother passed away in April he was only 23 it completely devastated our family and my poor auntie it was just the most painful thing to witness and go through at the same time
Me being the eldest of us 6 cousins organised everything I could possibly handle all funeral arrangements his flat the coroner's the police the funeral home it exhausted me but here I am in a new year and me and OH decided life is too short to worry what other people my think and how they want you to live your life to coincide with their dos and donts I can't live like it anymore
So we want another child and we are gonna go for it
We will get nasty comments we will more than likely fall out with people over it but we raise out kids on our own no help
So..... 3dpo here
And i actually felt really painful ov pains for the first time ever?! Why lol
Where is everyone else?
Abii how exciting!



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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 20:29 PM   572
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Hiya sorry you've gone through some hard times
Life throws shit at us and we battle out way through it
We are fighters
I had a diabolical year 2017 was literally the worst year i think I have ever had to get through my youngest cousin who I have been brought up with Like a brother passed away in April he was only 23 it completely devastated our family and my poor auntie it was just the most painful thing to witness and go through at the same time
Me being the eldest of us 6 cousins organised everything I could possibly handle all funeral arrangements his flat the coroner's the police the funeral home it exhausted me but here I am in a new year and me and OH decided life is too short to worry what other people my think and how they want you to live your life to coincide with their dos and donts I can't live like it anymore
So we want another child and we are gonna go for it
We will get nasty comments we will more than likely fall out with people over it but we raise out kids on our own no help
So..... 3dpo here
And i actually felt really painful ov pains for the first time ever?! Why lol
Where is everyone else?
Abii how exciting!
Oh hun, I am so sorry for your loss that definitely sounds exhausting, but it was sweet of you to take over so your aunt didn't have anymore on her plate and good deeds will generate good results, even if it was hard and testing. I am sure she appreciates the hard work you have put in it is true that life is too short to worry about anything other then being happy, good luck with ttc fx'd you catch it right away
I am being cautiously optimistic, I don't want to go through another mc and I know it's possible that I might so that is dampening the mood, I am also trying not to get my hopes up in case of another chemical or if the tests are false positive. Why does the first few weeks have to be so stressful lol. Good luck again, looking forward to your next update



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 04:54 AM   573
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Yes these two weeks are so so stressful arent they
I can imagine that going through a MC is absolutely dreadful I hope that whatever the outcome you will be happy and carry on being the strong lady that you are xx



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Aw thank you so much, I hope the same for you fx'd you get a nice sticky this month



 
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