yup...here is my post from Jan 23...same girl...got pregnant easily both times

leia37 · Apr 6th, 2012, 14:22 PM

Oh nats, big

hon. try and enjoy your weekend x

Linz - good on you. 17th isnt long

so exciting.

Giraffes - how lovely, shopping for baby stuff. not sure i will get to do much this time. have some lovely bits left over just need a few basic things and if i can borrow off friends, i will do. we never got around to nurserys for any of the kids, as babies they were always in our room and only had the one extra room for the older one. everytime we moved and got a larger house, the youngest moved up and another baby came along. thought we were going to have spare room this move but we're filling it again

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giraffes · Apr 7th, 2012, 03:29 AM

Huge hugs Nats, nothing can make this moment better but I know you will get there at some point. Hope you can enjoy your weekend.

Linz - yes a pram/pushchair is our UK word for the stroller.

Leia - you must have moved a lot! That's great if you can borrow though, it'll make it much cheaper.

nats77 · Apr 9th, 2012, 04:07 AM

ok ladies wondering What ur thoughts on this are? I've been spotting a little since sat, mostly brown with a little red blood sometimes. Still feel the same as i did so did a test and it came up What i thought was negative after about 2 mins. I put it in the drawer and accepted it was not positive. This morning i woke feeling very sick again had another look at the test from yesterday and it's reading positive??? It's quite a faint line but it's Definately there. Is this just because i left it overnite? I'm going 2 buy another test 2day and c What happens but What do u guy's think? I've never had spotting before in any of my other pregnancy's x x

leia37 · Apr 9th, 2012, 04:56 AM

Nats - I would say that the test cant be trusted and assume void and test again. As for the spotting, you know all pregnancies are different. I've only spotted quite heavily with one of my pregnancies resulting in a worrying few months and a number of scans but all was well. I'm sure you are driving yourself crazy with 'am I/aren't I' so big hugs and will be waiting to hear results of new tests, good luck hon x

nats77 · Apr 9th, 2012, 08:00 AM

Well tested again and got a very white negative, so can only assume that its obviously negative, i'm so sad and so confused obviously wasn't my month at all, just feel like its not meant to be now and its never going to happen. Thanks for bearing with me all these months, good luck to all those still ttc and wishing the rest of our preggos a very happy and healthy pregnancy xxxxxx

leia37 · Apr 9th, 2012, 08:25 AM

oh nats, huge hugs honey. I know you must feel really crap at the moment. firstly new test wasnt fmu so it could still be up in the air and just because this isnt your month doesnt mean its never going to be. see how you feel in a few days. you dont have to go anywhere. hope you're getting big hugs off your hubby xx

wishnhoping · Apr 9th, 2012, 08:53 AM

Nats- Im so sorry hun. I know exactly how you feel. The longer it takes to get pregnant the more dishartened you become. I totally understand and sympathize with your mentality of "its never going to happen". You start questioning whats wrong with you whas wrong with your partner..etc. I have nearly lost my sanity while on this journey but I have had to really dig into my faith for this one. I know God has a plan and he works in mysterious ways. I know when he feels it is time he will give me that miracle. Until then I am just trying to wait patiently and understand his plan for me

I hoe you can find peace in that

big hugs

wishnhoping · Apr 9th, 2012, 10:34 AM

My sister just got married in Mexico and I was talking to her sister in law (she already has a 15 month old) about when they would be planning on having another. She told me she was going to get off the pill the week before Mexico (we had this convo at my sister's bach party in January). Well lo and behold..shes pregnant. She was off the pill less than a month. I swear ...its like a knife to the heart

I told her during this same conversation that Ihad been trying for 5 months (at that point) and I remember typing to you guys how she had said something ignoratn so looking back on my posts to see what it was lol

wishnhoping · Apr 9th, 2012, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by wishnhoping

I wanted to share something that happened this weekend that I know only you girls will sympathize with...

So this weekend was my sisters bridal shower and bachelorette party. Her sister in law to be and I were the only ones in a group of girls (ages 26-28) that have a child. I was talking to her future SIL about the kids and then somehow the topic changed to when we would be TTC #2 and I shared with her that it had taken 9 months to conceive #1 and that we are currently on 10 months trying to conceive #2....you know what her answer was?

Really?! I got pregnant sooooo easily! I stopped taking BC the day before my wedding and told my doctor I'd see him next month because Id be pregnant...and sure enough the following month I was pregnant and having my first visit..

OMG I WANTED TO BITCH SLAP HER! How freaking insensitive of her to say something like that to someone who just told her what a hard time they were having TTC and the heartache behind it....ugh some people are so ignorant

Oh and then she later mentions that in spite of Doctor's orders to not work out as hard dring her pregnancy she did keep working out hard and the baby was 8 born premature..and shes like laughing about it like its some big joke that she felt working out was more important than her childs health. There is adiffernece between being healthy and being compulsive with working out...yea she crossed that line.

Seriously wanted to kill this girl

Haleytivet · Apr 9th, 2012, 11:29 AM

Oh Nats!!! So sorry but it's not over yet!! The witch hasn't shown her face yet right?? You still could be early!!!

Wishin - So sorry! I know your pain! My sis-in-law just found out she was pregnant 2 weeks after she got married and stopped the pill last month!!! So disheartening to see people around you get pregnant so easy!!

AFM, I got my + OPK this morning on 2 different brands. So as of tomorrow I'll be in my tww!!! I hope this goes really fast! I just hope this round of medicines worked the first time!!

Hope everyone had a great Easter!!!

xoxo

Apr 6th, 2012, 14:22 PM	#1101
leia37 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 303	Oh nats, big hon. try and enjoy your weekend x Linz - good on you. 17th isnt long so exciting. Giraffes - how lovely, shopping for baby stuff. not sure i will get to do much this time. have some lovely bits left over just need a few basic things and if i can borrow off friends, i will do. we never got around to nurserys for any of the kids, as babies they were always in our room and only had the one extra room for the older one. everytime we moved and got a larger house, the youngest moved up and another baby came along. thought we were going to have spare room this move but we're filling it again .

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giraffes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 527	Huge hugs Nats, nothing can make this moment better but I know you will get there at some point. Hope you can enjoy your weekend. Linz - yes a pram/pushchair is our UK word for the stroller. Leia - you must have moved a lot! That's great if you can borrow though, it'll make it much cheaper.

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nats77 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: South East Posts: 1,520	ok ladies wondering What ur thoughts on this are? I've been spotting a little since sat, mostly brown with a little red blood sometimes. Still feel the same as i did so did a test and it came up What i thought was negative after about 2 mins. I put it in the drawer and accepted it was not positive. This morning i woke feeling very sick again had another look at the test from yesterday and it's reading positive??? It's quite a faint line but it's Definately there. Is this just because i left it overnite? I'm going 2 buy another test 2day and c What happens but What do u guy's think? I've never had spotting before in any of my other pregnancy's x x

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Apr 9th, 2012, 04:56 AM	#1104
leia37 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 303	Nats - I would say that the test cant be trusted and assume void and test again. As for the spotting, you know all pregnancies are different. I've only spotted quite heavily with one of my pregnancies resulting in a worrying few months and a number of scans but all was well. I'm sure you are driving yourself crazy with 'am I/aren't I' so big hugs and will be waiting to hear results of new tests, good luck hon x

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nats77 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: South East Posts: 1,520	Well tested again and got a very white negative, so can only assume that its obviously negative, i'm so sad and so confused obviously wasn't my month at all, just feel like its not meant to be now and its never going to happen. Thanks for bearing with me all these months, good luck to all those still ttc and wishing the rest of our preggos a very happy and healthy pregnancy xxxxxx

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Apr 9th, 2012, 08:25 AM	#1106
leia37 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 303	oh nats, huge hugs honey. I know you must feel really crap at the moment. firstly new test wasnt fmu so it could still be up in the air and just because this isnt your month doesnt mean its never going to be. see how you feel in a few days. you dont have to go anywhere. hope you're getting big hugs off your hubby xx

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Apr 9th, 2012, 08:53 AM	#1107
wishnhoping Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Maryland Posts: 1,319	Nats- Im so sorry hun. I know exactly how you feel. The longer it takes to get pregnant the more dishartened you become. I totally understand and sympathize with your mentality of "its never going to happen". You start questioning whats wrong with you whas wrong with your partner..etc. I have nearly lost my sanity while on this journey but I have had to really dig into my faith for this one. I know God has a plan and he works in mysterious ways. I know when he feels it is time he will give me that miracle. Until then I am just trying to wait patiently and understand his plan for me I hoe you can find peace in that big hugs

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Apr 9th, 2012, 10:34 AM	#1108
wishnhoping Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Maryland Posts: 1,319	My sister just got married in Mexico and I was talking to her sister in law (she already has a 15 month old) about when they would be planning on having another. She told me she was going to get off the pill the week before Mexico (we had this convo at my sister's bach party in January). Well lo and behold..shes pregnant. She was off the pill less than a month. I swear ...its like a knife to the heart I told her during this same conversation that Ihad been trying for 5 months (at that point) and I remember typing to you guys how she had said something ignoratn so looking back on my posts to see what it was lol

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Apr 9th, 2012, 11:29 AM	#1110
Haleytivet Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Louisiana Posts: 474	Oh Nats!!! So sorry but it's not over yet!! The witch hasn't shown her face yet right?? You still could be early!!! Wishin - So sorry! I know your pain! My sis-in-law just found out she was pregnant 2 weeks after she got married and stopped the pill last month!!! So disheartening to see people around you get pregnant so easy!! AFM, I got my + OPK this morning on 2 different brands. So as of tomorrow I'll be in my tww!!! I hope this goes really fast! I just hope this round of medicines worked the first time!! Hope everyone had a great Easter!!! xoxo

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