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peachy905 · Dec 3rd, 2011, 10:08 AM

I am 13 dpo and got a BFN... still hopeful... but if not let AF arrive already so I can get trying again! Baby dust to all : )

linz143 · Dec 3rd, 2011, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by DooDah

I guess it would be but I haven't told her, she's against having children at a young age (she was a single mum at 22) but oh and I are in a lucky situation that we are able to support a baby and have been together for almost five years. It's sound terrible but now we can't try I'm kinda hoping she doesn't get pregnant yet! I think I need a little break from all of this for a while so hopefully she won't be a constant source of 'I wish that was me.'

Five years is a long time to be together and as long as you are both on the same page and ready for it, I don't see a negative! The negative comes when it's an oops moment and then OH isn't up for it and takes off. A loving stable relationship no matter what the age is what's best for children.

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Originally Posted by nats77

Yes me!! I had three miscarriages before i had Henry, then i started taking pregnacare pre-conception, and i got my sticky bean which became my little miracle Henry

I dont know if this was down to the pregnacare but i'm sure it helped, just said to my oh yesterday that i must get them again this time round, once u get pregnant u can change on to pregnacare plus which is what i did, i swear by them and look at it this way, they can't do u any harm can they?? good luck, everyone go get the pregnacare!! lol xx

Nats, WOW! Now that's what I was looking to hear! Can't wait to receive mine in the mail! Now I just wish they sold them in the states so I didn't have to basically import them to have access!

linz143 · Dec 3rd, 2011, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by peachy905

I am 13 dpo and got a BFN... still hopeful... but if not let AF arrive already so I can get trying again! Baby dust to all : )

GL Peachy! Fx'd for you!

giraffes · Dec 3rd, 2011, 13:51 PM

Evening everyone, Doodah - you're definitely sensible enough to be TTC again when the time is right, and you're in a stabel relationship so age is really no barrier.

We had friends round today with their new baby and I was sooooo clucky (I always am but still) and of course on came the inevitable so when are you two going to have one question. Bearing in mind these friends had a honeymoon baby I figured she wasn't really up for me announcing that we'd been trying for ages and would LOVE one! So I came out with the usual non-commital answer. What do you guys say when people quiz you? We've told no-one we're TTC as we don't want the pressure and if we do end up needing IVF I'd rather that we got to make the decision as to whether to go public or not.

linz143 · Dec 3rd, 2011, 19:27 PM

When we first got married in May, we told our close friends in family that basically I was going off bcp after the wedding and would be ttc immediately. It was met with some resistance from my brother and sister in law and my own mom tried to get me to wait. However, we know we're ready and I'm not getting any younger. It's the right time for us.

However, now that it's taking longer than expected, when people I haven't talked to about it quiz me (especially at work) I say, "Oh no! Not anytime soon! I need some time before we even think about kids!" That way if I don't get pregnant for awhile, no one will know it's taking some time, and if it happens right away, I can just act happily surprised.

lillio · Dec 3rd, 2011, 19:40 PM

Hey girls, just catching up on the thread! I need some help... was due AF Wednesday... it's now Sunday! Last witch visit was on 31 October! POAS on Wed, FMU, used FRER... BFN!! haven't tested since cos it feels like AF is ready to show up any moment!! I cried so much on Wed when I got the BFN I just don't wanna take another test and see BFN again?!? Anyone been here before?!? xx

giraffes · Dec 4th, 2011, 06:32 AM

Hi Lillio,

Unfortunately yes and it's a horrible wait! Are you sure when you ovulated? I tested so much and in the end even had a blood test because I was so late, but eventually AF arrived. There are plenty of people on the internet that don't get their positives until really late though so there's always hope.

Good luck xxx

peachy905 · Dec 4th, 2011, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by lillio

Hey girls, just catching up on the thread! I need some help... was due AF Wednesday... it's now Sunday! Last witch visit was on 31 October! POAS on Wed, FMU, used FRER... BFN!! haven't tested since cos it feels like AF is ready to show up any moment!! I cried so much on Wed when I got the BFN I just don't wanna take another test and see BFN again?!? Anyone been here before?!? xx

Sorry to heard : ( Try not to test again and I think that until AF shows up it isnt really over. I know how you feel though. I tested -ve at 13 drpo yesterday and was cranky the whole day. I am going to make it a point of not testing until I am late. This emotional rollercoaster is too much... Good luck hun.

DooDah · Dec 4th, 2011, 15:31 PM

Hey girlies. Sooooooo, err I'm 4dpp (that's days past pill)! Or it would be had I only taken it once. So I'm officially all contraceptived up. Grr.

Hope you're all hanging in there, did you have good weekends? Xxx

peachy905 · Dec 4th, 2011, 15:44 PM

Crappy weekend as AF showed up today. At least it is here though so I can prepare for next cycle. I hate the two week wait most. Think I might cheer myself up with a glass of wine and a bubble bath.

Dec 3rd, 2011, 10:08 AM	#81
peachy905 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 233	I am 13 dpo and got a BFN... still hopeful... but if not let AF arrive already so I can get trying again! Baby dust to all : )

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Dec 3rd, 2011, 13:51 PM	#84
giraffes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 527	Evening everyone, Doodah - you're definitely sensible enough to be TTC again when the time is right, and you're in a stabel relationship so age is really no barrier. We had friends round today with their new baby and I was sooooo clucky (I always am but still) and of course on came the inevitable so when are you two going to have one question. Bearing in mind these friends had a honeymoon baby I figured she wasn't really up for me announcing that we'd been trying for ages and would LOVE one! So I came out with the usual non-commital answer. What do you guys say when people quiz you? We've told no-one we're TTC as we don't want the pressure and if we do end up needing IVF I'd rather that we got to make the decision as to whether to go public or not.

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Dec 3rd, 2011, 19:27 PM	#85
linz143 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: CA, USA Posts: 1,327	When we first got married in May, we told our close friends in family that basically I was going off bcp after the wedding and would be ttc immediately. It was met with some resistance from my brother and sister in law and my own mom tried to get me to wait. However, we know we're ready and I'm not getting any younger. It's the right time for us. However, now that it's taking longer than expected, when people I haven't talked to about it quiz me (especially at work) I say, "Oh no! Not anytime soon! I need some time before we even think about kids!" That way if I don't get pregnant for awhile, no one will know it's taking some time, and if it happens right away, I can just act happily surprised.

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Dec 3rd, 2011, 19:40 PM	#86
lillio Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 365	Hey girls, just catching up on the thread! I need some help... was due AF Wednesday... it's now Sunday! Last witch visit was on 31 October! POAS on Wed, FMU, used FRER... BFN!! haven't tested since cos it feels like AF is ready to show up any moment!! I cried so much on Wed when I got the BFN I just don't wanna take another test and see BFN again?!? Anyone been here before?!? xx

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Dec 4th, 2011, 06:32 AM	#87
giraffes Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 527	Hi Lillio, Unfortunately yes and it's a horrible wait! Are you sure when you ovulated? I tested so much and in the end even had a blood test because I was so late, but eventually AF arrived. There are plenty of people on the internet that don't get their positives until really late though so there's always hope. Good luck xxx

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Dec 4th, 2011, 15:31 PM	#89
DooDah Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: On the moon. Posts: 756	Hey girlies. Sooooooo, err I'm 4dpp (that's days past pill)! Or it would be had I only taken it once. So I'm officially all contraceptived up. Grr. Hope you're all hanging in there, did you have good weekends? Xxx

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Dec 4th, 2011, 15:44 PM	#90
peachy905 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 233	Crappy weekend as AF showed up today. At least it is here though so I can prepare for next cycle. I hate the two week wait most. Think I might cheer myself up with a glass of wine and a bubble bath.

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