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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:49 PM   #1001
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thanks sarah - i know yourthere for me and i message you about 400 times a day but its still not the same

i get so upset when i hear pple moaning about them only bd'ing 20 times over fertile period

i havent seen my OH for a week n a half

i just want to curl up in bed for a snuggle and cry until i fall asleep in his arms - but thats not gonna happen is it

thats why im thinking me not geting peggy is fate and karma
Its nothing to do with that. Its all been down to getting your body back in sync. I believe youve proved yourself wrong on the getting preggy point after what happened last year.

I know its not the same I wish I could help a lot more, I feel a right useless lump sometimes when i see you get down and I just want to give you massive hugs and tell you about how things will get better. I kind of fail as a friend with the distance barrier.


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:50 PM   #1002
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I've considered doing a class, maybe once we've got the house, I keep saying I'll do more when I'm on maternity leave lol
You should! It would be awesome distraction to be honest. Look at it this way...you can use maternity leave to launch the new business!
That's my aim :-)
And since youre not that far away from me...Id be at your shop/using your expertise all the time!


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:50 PM   #1003
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I think it very well could be stress, not much I can do about that tho
stress is hard hun, ive suffered from depression for years and cant take anti-depressants so have to deal with things

after a 2 minute paddy, i then just calm down and think "what can i do about it"

if theres nothing i can do - then i put it out of my mind, if i cant change it, why worry about it

if there is something i can do - then i work out what to do

its not always easy and i have cried my eyes out to sarah on many occassion but it does get easier to deal with

you have to think of the positive things

a) buying your new home
b) being a family - you, simon, doggy (think shes called bella???)
c) making a baby
d) not being under your parents feet
e)getting two orders for catapillar cake on the first try of making it - maybe this is the start of a new home business

always a brighter side to things - just depends how we look at it
She knows her stuff does our Pinky.

I suffer from quite bad depression and anxiety issues and Charlottes help and advice have been helping me move past a lot of my boundaries.

I think she makes a good point with all the bullet points! The doc said stress was the only thing keeping me from being a mom because its impacting my body...we need to destress ourselves!
i havent helped hun, ive listened thats all

im a hard woman who takes no bullshit
Youve done more than listen, and yes youve helped a lot :P /slap
dont slap me - im niggled you didnt go out tonight - you promised me

daily - remember?
I did say twice tomorrow tho!


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:51 PM   #1004
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Thanks for all your help and avice tday girls, I hope the mood lightens a bit tommorow u all seem very sad were all going to get there one day and im so happy that I can come here for support and advice coz I think that day might just come quicker for us with eachothers support.

Baby dust to u all and I hope to hear good news tommorow!
I agree hun! We all have each others back and thats important!

Ask anytime..if we can help we sure as hell will try!

xx


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:52 PM   #1005
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thanks sarah - i know yourthere for me and i message you about 400 times a day but its still not the same

i get so upset when i hear pple moaning about them only bd'ing 20 times over fertile period

i havent seen my OH for a week n a half

i just want to curl up in bed for a snuggle and cry until i fall asleep in his arms - but thats not gonna happen is it

thats why im thinking me not geting peggy is fate and karma
Its nothing to do with that. Its all been down to getting your body back in sync. I believe youve proved yourself wrong on the getting preggy point after what happened last year.

I know its not the same I wish I could help a lot more, I feel a right useless lump sometimes when i see you get down and I just want to give you massive hugs and tell you about how things will get better. I kind of fail as a friend with the distance barrier.
WTF thats sooooo bollox - dont you dare ever say that to me again!!

i dont know what i would have done without you



 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:53 PM   #1006
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She does it every bedtime! Then goes and barks to go for a wee
Awwww!!!!

Mine does it in the morning...at ******oclock. She climbs up onto matts body.walks up his entire chest and sits down...bends her head down so her nose is only a fraction separated from him and stares him out till he wakes up and cuddles her. Cute as hell! Tho when hes snoring she literally just plonks down on his head like shes trying to soundproof him with her ass.


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:54 PM   #1007
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i decided a few years ago that i wanted a career change - so i trained and went to college to be a tutor for adults

you know when you have been unemployed for a long time the jobcentre send you on a course - well i was one of the tutors on that course

most of my students were 18-21 year old or the over 55's

i was more like a bloody councellor - trying to solve all their personal family, mental, financial etc problems

just thought id say that - no reason
To be honest...I think youd make a fantastic social worker.


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:54 PM   #1008
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I've considered doing a class, maybe once we've got the house, I keep saying I'll do more when I'm on maternity leave lol
You should! It would be awesome distraction to be honest. Look at it this way...you can use maternity leave to launch the new business!
That's my aim :-)
And since youre not that far away from me...Id be at your shop/using your expertise all the time!
Aww that's a lovely thing to say chick :-) I'm thinking of postponing quilt making till we get the house too then I can do it the right colours


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:55 PM   #1009
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I think it very well could be stress, not much I can do about that tho
stress is hard hun, ive suffered from depression for years and cant take anti-depressants so have to deal with things

after a 2 minute paddy, i then just calm down and think "what can i do about it"

if theres nothing i can do - then i put it out of my mind, if i cant change it, why worry about it

if there is something i can do - then i work out what to do

its not always easy and i have cried my eyes out to sarah on many occassion but it does get easier to deal with

you have to think of the positive things

a) buying your new home
b) being a family - you, simon, doggy (think shes called bella???)
c) making a baby
d) not being under your parents feet
e)getting two orders for catapillar cake on the first try of making it - maybe this is the start of a new home business

always a brighter side to things - just depends how we look at it
She knows her stuff does our Pinky.

I suffer from quite bad depression and anxiety issues and Charlottes help and advice have been helping me move past a lot of my boundaries.

I think she makes a good point with all the bullet points! The doc said stress was the only thing keeping me from being a mom because its impacting my body...we need to destress ourselves!
i havent helped hun, ive listened thats all

im a hard woman who takes no bullshit
Youve done more than listen, and yes youve helped a lot :P /slap
dont slap me - im niggled you didnt go out tonight - you promised me

daily - remember?
I did say twice tomorrow tho!
excuses!

no matter what happens, you have to do it

its like being on a diet and saying ive been good today so i can have double treat tomorrow

it doesnt work like that

small steps - once a day


 
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Old Feb 11th, 2012, 16:55 PM   #1010
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Haah you gotta love um! She's just done a great impression of a frog!!


 
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