I'm 10dpo today, was feeling so hopeful but woke up during the night with af cramps my body does this every month a few days before she hits, I'm absolutely gutted.
That's 6 failed cycles now, and I'm genuinely worried there's something wrong with me or DH. We're both young, healthy and fit, I temp and use opks, we've been using conceive plus and soft cups - why isn't it happening?
Would love a bit of support, just feeling so helpless like I'm fighting a losing battle
Don't give up yet RAFwife. We all go through the up and down periods. I am both positive and negative every day about TTC. And with my longer cycles, I feel I get less chances to concieve than those with shorter cycles. Funny when I was younger I thought have longer cycles was great, less AF than others! Now I just want shorter cycles LOL
You still dont know that AF is definitely coming, FX for you!
Big hugs RAFwife If it helps, I was very crampy the cycle I got my bfp and so many ladies have their normal af symptoms too. I conceived this lil one on my 7th cycle and I was worried too as my son was conceived first cycle and I had scared myself by reading about secondary infertility. You're not out yet, don't give up hope xx
Thanks girls, I appreciate the support.
Just spoken to a close friend, she's just announced that she's 12 weeks pregnant - not even trying with her 'on again off again boyfriend' - it just doesn't make sense lol, it seems the more you plan for a baby the harder it is to conceive Away for another cry...
RAFwife I understand how you're feeling completely. We have done 12 months NTNP followed by 6 cycles of BDing on the right days (I temp) and still no luck I get hopeful every cycle knowing we done it at the right time then when AF approaches I really struggle lately. We're both 26 and both fit and healthy, slim etc. I am currently seeing a fertility specialist now though . I know 6 months feels like such a long time but it really isn't, just keep your chin up and try to remain positive... good things come to those who wait :-)
Still no af, but been cramping so badly for the past few days and feeling very moody and emotional. Due tomorrow but don't think she'll hold out that long! My husband is still so positive, he insists it will happen for us because he just 'feels it' ...I wish I could feel it too! He's supporting me in wanting to see a doctor though - any advice? SazraD it sounds like we're in pretty similar situations, I'm so sorry things haven't happened for you yet. What was your first step in getting medical advice? Fxd x
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