Mini How are you. Thank you for the congratulations, I understand how hard it is to be so sad that it isn't your announcement but be happy for people at the same time. When do you think you will be ready to try again?
I'm doing ok thank you! I'm so happy to hear BFP's from you lovely ladies!! Just gives me the strength to know that hopefully I'll be there again with you one day! I would love to try again ASAP but my OH wants me to fully recover (physically & mentally) before we even think about trying again. The worst thing for me at the moment is a friend of ours and his gf keep going on about trying for a baby in the next few months which ordinarily I wld be fine with but they argue all the time and all our friends think its the worst situation to bring a baby in to. I just know if they get their bfp it'll crush me. (I know I'm being very selfish but they truly believe a baby will make their relationship better)
I've been keeping myself busy by looking at possible venues for our wedding which we're looking at doing in 2015. Incase I do fall again and it stays with me this time it'll give us time to save, plan, me to loose baby weight so I can fit in a wedding dress etc!!
Oh mini, special big hugs for you XXX I do understand that dread that a couple you know that shouldn't really be having children at this time are talking about it and you just know they are going to be one of the lucky couples that just fall without even trying. It will happen for you again, there is no reason to think not. All I can advise you is get yourself ready for their announcement I always found it harder when I was unprepared and people caught me off guard.
Good luck with your wedding plans, what sort of wedding are you planning? Please tell I love a wedding, I'm a big romantic. I have always wanted to own a wedding dress shop LOL.
I feeling fine, just a stuffy nose, the odd wave of sickness but nothing much hopefully it stays like this. Thank you for asking and you take care of yourself XXX
Glad you're feeling fine CC! Yeah I'm prepared but I know I'm not going to be happy for them, (so awful to say but I'm going to be so bitter!). Hopefully Mother Nature will realise its not the right time for them and hold off for a while.
We've just looked at 2 venues so far both of them beautiful old buildings! Ones a mansion and the other one looks like a castle!!! We're not sure whether to get married in our local church or have a civil ceremony at the venue. I really want to theme our wedding around the Maldives as that's where we got engaged!! Designing our own cocktails, shells in glass bowls as centre pieces!! I would also like the colour scheme to be cadbury purple!! Can't wait to get a venue booked as then I know although it'll be 2015 its definitley happening!!!!
Mini - I feel for you awaiting that announcement, I really do. Brace yourself, you'll get over it and just remind yourself that when your time comes you will make much better parents
CC - how are you feeling? Ahh I'm just so happy for you
Kismet - hope you feel much better soon!
Good luck and best wishes to our bunch of ladies who are now due next month!! I'm so jealous. The last two and a half months has been the hardest of my life in lots of ways but I'd go back and do it all again in a heartbeat. I'm working on a new list of tips more about baby than birth so best crack on else you'll have all popped before I've written it down
AFM - doing really well, Felix is so big now and I can't believe how much he's changed. I've just put a box in his bedroom for clothes he's grown out of as I'm having to sort through everything practically daily. Here's a picture of him dressed in his bear snowsuit!
Those of you who have added me on Facebook (link in my journal if you haven't and would like to) will have already seen it but it's so cute I want to share it everywhere
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