Aww mommylov I hope you get a nice surprise but it can be a good thing to not have your hopes too high. Glad you are able to feel calm right now xx

Thanks hun. I dont know if this is a side effect from the Clomid but Ill go with it for now! lol

sorry i went for a 3.5 hr nap maybe bub isnt the only sleepy one when he grows , ha ha
i dont use doppler any more and havent since ive been gettin regular movement.
the last time i used it was few weeks ago and bub went balistic , like really crazy kicking.
ive read they dont like it. i was using it sparingly when i was worried.
in one way they r great for those really nervous few weeks before bub is kicking.
i was happy with mine cos it was free and a really good one. do u know anyone u could borrow one off of? im not sure htey r worth buying cos u prob will only use it for a few weeks now. but having said that , i loved it when i was worried like when i had kidney infection and whne i had some mucus, (sorry gross ).
first time i used it, i think i wa around 15 weeks but i wouldnt swear to that could have been earlier porb was actually, god how have i forgotten already
it took me ages to find bub, like over half an hour . second time i couldnt find him at all. but it turns out batteries were too low
it can take time to get the hang off and some days u amy not find bub. u have to keep in mind htat this can happen and all still fine bub can just hide
so long as u get numbers up over 200, it means all good . cos thats u and bub together
sorry really long. but just wanted to say they r good and bad
if u do get one, get a good one that counts hb on screen for u too.
i had hibebe, its not mad expensive and is good. if u get a cheape one sometimes they can worry u more .

amy glad ur relaxed hon, well done on ur attitude, xxxxxxxxxxxx
u know u and docs have done all u can, so its up to d man upstairs now.
we r all asking on ur behalf too sweetie, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx hugs and fx xxxxxxxxxxx

Thanks girls! So now Im starting to think about everything that has happened this past week so far..... went in for folli scan on cd14 when the dr said the folli looked irregular like I ovulated or was in the process. I took a few O tests over the weekend and the surge ended sometime on sat or sun. We bd fri, sat, and sun. Im hoping that the timing was right. Im so scared that we were too late. I didnt get a + o test until fri afternoon which is strange given what happened at the dr's office on fri morning. I thought a surge is detected BEFORE ovulation. Maybe it was happening that day and I didnt detect it that morning with FMU. Dr said that we were fine to bd that night and said that was plenty of time. Oye.. I wish we had a microscope that looked into our tubes and uterus so that we can see whats going on. I was scared that it was a cyst and so I text the dr to ask and she said that she didnt think so and even if it was that she wasnt worried about it due to the size so I guess I wont worry either. Still relaxed but again I think its more so because I dont think this is going to be our month so I dont have much hope.

i have hope for u, im hoping u get a lovely surprise xxxxxxxhugs xxxxxx
timing seems perfext hon, dont worry about that, its just down to egg and :sperm: to do their job now xxxx

Hi Ladies..

Well the AF showed her ugly face 2day afternoon..
She was due on 4th Feb,,n i m very regular like clockwork - 28days..
so even though i got BFN on 4th, i thought may be the amount of HCG is not sufficiant to be detected on HPT.. So i was little hopeful..I took a HPT today as i was already @ days late..but it turned out BFN.. & d AF showed up this afternoon....


i just want this baby so badly.... i was really thinking we had made it this time..especially wid creamy CM through-out & weird bitter taste in the mouth etc..i kept thinking all these were symptoms..

I have also read on some other websites that some women got bleeding on their scheduled AF days even when they were one or two months in their pregnancy..the bleeding was shorter / lighter than regular..but they got it..they said it is basically remainings from the previous cycles or something.. I have been thinking mine is comparatively lighter than usual..but it has just started..so cant draw any conclusion..

I think i should stop thinking about unnecessary symptom spotting & move on & start preparing to TTC for d coming cycle....

Hope everyone else is fine..I really wish all d best & baby dust to all those who are TTC.. & hugs n best wishes to all d mommies to be....

mommylov it is very possible you missed the LH surge on Friday if you used FMU, it's recommended you don't use FMU for OPKs so that could be why you didn't pick up on it. Going by the OPKs I reckon you ov'd Sun or Mon so with your BDing you would have timed it well. But add the scan in then I don't know...maybe you hadn't ovulated yet and the follicle was just getting ready and that's what you saw. I have no idea how long it takes for the egg to actually pop out. I am keeping everything crossed for you but still think is wise to not get your hopes up, have done that so many times myself and it is hard xxx

withlovemom I'm so sorry Maybe you ovulated a couple of days later than you thought, are you doing OPKs or anything? But I totally know how you feel. I can't count the amoutn of times I swore I was pg and wasn't. It totally sucks xxxx I'm sorry to say it but yeah if you're getting BFNs and bleeding then don't hope for too much. I know ti can happen, but I did the exact same thing a few times - carried on testing even after AF started and tried to convince myself I was one of those women who has periods despite being pregnant. You just need a few days to let yourself feel sad for that cycle and hopefully in a few days you will feel strong enough for the next cycle xxx

Thanks lilesmom that is really helpful info You've helped me to decide not to try. I can see how they can be comforting but if even having low batteries causes them to not work properly then I'd rather not risk it. I'm such a worrier and a panicker I'd be trying to find the HB every hour probably! I don't know anyone who's got one so if you can only use them for a few weeks then I agree it's prob not worth the money.

We had our 12 week scan this morning and thankfully everything is looking fine I can't stop looking at the photos! The difference between now and 10 weeks is amazing. Just started to tell the family too, is so nice to be able to start sharing xxx

I know, it def threw me for a loop too! DH seems to think that everything is fine but I dont know if thats just him having PMA. I asked him and he said "No I really think you missunderstood what the dr said and that we are fine". Who knows. Im begining to think Clomid is an evil drug in that it makes you feel like you are having early prgnancy symptoms. I have been having some cramping last night and this morning and Im only 4-5dpo. Its stopped now but I would think its too early for implantation or anything so I dont know. Im really trying not to read into anything since I am taking Clomid and just trying to tell myself that the symptoms are from the meds.

Smiler, Im so glad your scan went well! I would be staring and kissing and hugging that pic too! heheh Sp happy for you and glad to hear that everything is progresing well.

FX to you all. Last day of Femara this cycle. Ultrasound i a few days to see how foli's are doing.