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Old Jul 10th, 2012, 17:15 PM   41
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thanks girls ye r right, its better they find it and fix so i dont have problems when i do concieve, im ok again, it just peed me off today for a while
im obviously meant to wait a bit, lets hope its a small thing and be fast to fix.

u cant keep a good girl down hee hee

smiler it could mean any number of things but i do have hypothyroid and allergies so could relate to them r could be flukey thing . id nearly prefer if they found something and fixed it cos then i be better off but not something serious obvs
ive lived 31 yrs without a baby , i can survive some more time im glad it happened now while im stronger and not when i was in the middle of bad sadness


lets hope it doesnt set me back too much time



 
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Old Jul 11th, 2012, 06:04 AM   42
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Well it's good to know it's nothing serious But I totally understand why you would be peed off at the news you need to wait. How long til you get tests and treatment? Hope you don't have to wait around too long. You might find the wait does you some good - just speaking from my own experience since it's been 18 months since my last miscarriage, tho waiting this long is getting really frustrating, I think last year at least it gave me the space to sort my head out and I'm actually grateful for that time now, I feel stronger for it



 
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Old Jul 11th, 2012, 12:47 PM   43
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Soooooo tired of waiting now so I get why a set back would knock you sideways.

Children grow up too quickly, the later in the year we have our babies the smaller they will be for longer



 
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i got a date for consultant of sep 27th , if not for this new crap, we start ttc start of august, im so upset, its ages away . ive already waited 2 months .
otherwise i go private and it could cost loads .



 
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Old Jul 13th, 2012, 08:21 AM   45
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Oh lilesmom I'm so sorry. It's rubbish it takes that long to get an appointment. Have you investigated private fees?

I know you must be feeling pretty down about it. let's try and get some PMA going here...what kind of stuff do you like doing? Write a list maybe and see what is feasible/affordable for the next couple of months. When we started our break, I joined a book club, a writing group and took up photography after my FIL donated his camera to me I went on a couple of overnight trips with a friend too, that was really good. If you can't TTC then think about YOU and just be selfish for a bit. When we do have our little ones, we won't have 5 minutes to ourselves xxx



 
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Old Jul 13th, 2012, 18:23 PM   46
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thanks babe , im prob starting achild care course in sep, i hope anyway so i can have something to occupy myself.
i rang today to try and see how fast private would be, if it was faster i would take that option, but consultant is on hol for 3 weeks and her secretary is off for july, they have some jobs there is someone taking messages in their office but only on mon and wed eve so il ring again mon and see, fx



 
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Old Jul 15th, 2012, 07:08 AM   47
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I hope you get it sorted hun and can start trying ASAP

I made the most of the end of limbo getting tipsy at an Ann summers party last night - now bring on aunt flo lol



 
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Old Jul 15th, 2012, 18:22 PM   48
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u get some toys for BD at ur party ha ha



 
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Old Jul 16th, 2012, 05:33 AM   49
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Haha hope the Ann Summers party was fun!! Always good to spice up the sex life so it's not all about TTC

lilesmom that's cool you're doing a course in September Is that to be a private childminder or to work in a nursery?

Did you ring the office again today? Hope you got some more info xx



 
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Old Jul 16th, 2012, 06:00 AM   50
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Hey, hope you're all well?

In need of PMA at the moment, not feeling too good about this cycle.
We only dtd 2 and 3 days BEFORE I Oed. I know there is a small chance of catching but very very small!!

And I was so hoping for an anniversary bfp!



 
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