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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 03:44 AM   901
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Hi ladies..

So my last AF had started on 8th Jan..
Now i dont really use OPK..but i use this online calender which gives ur approximate date of ov as per ur length of cycle etc.. Based on that
I was supposed to OV by 17th Jan.. so we started BD on 16th onwards without protection..but on 17th hubby got stuck in work & was out of town for the same hence we could not BD that day ( my poor hubby..he said sorry so many times for this..i love him to bits )..so we BD tonite ( 18th Jan)..

but does that mean v hv lost this month's chance???

I just needed some experienced opinions..

I know this is a PMA forum..but i got lil down coz things did nt go as i had planned & it has already been a really long wait for me..



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 04:28 AM   902
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mommylov how are you doing? Any news on AF or BFP? Personally for me, I always spotted before AF however I've read so many ppl on here saying that they had a light period at the time AF was due, but still turned out they were pregnant

babybemine I agree with lilesmom, keep going just in case

withlovemom don't worry about not feeling the PMA, that's why we're here to keep each other smiling Are you paying any attention to things like EWCM and ov cramps to help you pinpoint the date of ov? Online calendars are ok if you are totally clockwork, but they're only going on stats from past cycles and any cycle anything can happen! Sometimes O can be early or late, you just don't know. So I would say if you're not 100% sure if you ovulated then you should keep on BDing in case it happens in the next couple of days. But even if you did OV on the 17th, having sex on the 16th still puts you in with a chance



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 04:44 AM   903
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Thanx smiler

Well i do keep track of CM & i did have EWCM on d 17th..
What is getting me more worried is today ( 18th Jan) my cm is again thick & sticky & cream in color ( Sorry TMI) basically it is not like EWCM.. so i hope my "environment" down there is still sperm friendly..

Keeping my fingers crossed..



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 06:18 AM   904
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Hmm well to be honest your cm doesn't sound like it's fertile anymore But, as I say, you did make love on the 16th - did you have sex any other times before then? Even if you didn't, you are still in with a chance as they do say it's better to have sex before ov rather than the day of ov. Do you normally get a lot of ewcm or not really? I never really got much, so started using PreSeed.



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 10:50 AM   905
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Hi ladies..

So my last AF had started on 8th Jan..
Now i dont really use OPK..but i use this online calender which gives ur approximate date of ov as per ur length of cycle etc.. Based on that
I was supposed to OV by 17th Jan.. so we started BD on 16th onwards without protection..but on 17th hubby got stuck in work & was out of town for the same hence we could not BD that day ( my poor hubby..he said sorry so many times for this..i love him to bits )..so we BD tonite ( 18th Jan)..

but does that mean v hv lost this month's chance???

I just needed some experienced opinions..

I know this is a PMA forum..but i got lil down coz things did nt go as i had planned & it has already been a really long wait for me..
no way have u missed it sweetie xxxxx u be fine, its more important Bd the 2 days before Ov than after, but u cant know for sure what day u Ov, its only predicting and u Bd a good few times around the time u should Ov so u will have lots of :sperm: in with a chance of catching ur egg xxxxxx hugs hon.
u will be fine , u have it covered xxx
did u ever look up SMEP, the sperm meets egg plan ?
i did my own version of smep without the opks too.
i started Bd this time day 12, (cos we were waiting for liver test results, would normally start day10, skip day 11) , we Bd 3 days in a row and then went to every second day for a bit. it worked thank god
but dont worry bout skipping a day cos sperm can live up to 5 days in good conditions xxxxxxxxx



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 16:06 PM   906
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Smiler, af came this morning . Dr wants me to start clomid on monday (Ive never taken it before... never thought it would get to that point ) and wants me in for an ultrasound on the 29th. Im just numb at the moment. I love my husband to death but when I say Im numb.. I just feel like Im going through motions at this point i.e. work, store, home, clean, sleep, etc. BD is the last thing on my mind. Just so tired of the dissapointment.



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 18:05 PM   907
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hugs amy xxxxxx
please dont give up, i really think its gonna happen soon xxxxxxx
why clomid though when u have been able to get pregnant twice fast urself, i dont understand why doc thinks u have to take clomid hon, would u give it one more month with prog and folic ???? xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love and hugs hon, i hate to see u down when ur so sunny normally xxxxxxx



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 18:16 PM   908
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I'm not sure why, maybe they aren't telling me something or they think its a quick fix?



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 18:24 PM   909
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i donno hon, they have to tell u stuff about u dont they? i reckon the woudlnt be allowed hold back info on u , xx if they think it will help sure it cant do harm but i dont think u have problem Ov and i thought thats what clomid did, maybe i have a simplistic view of cloimd , it could do lots i dont know of xxxxxxxxxx hugs xxxxxxx



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2013, 22:10 PM   910
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Hey Mommylove,

Hugs to hon....

I know how it feels..But like they say..the night is d darkest just before the dawn....
We just have to keep going ahead..& whenever u feel down emotionally, this bnb group will b there to make u feel better..

Take care & stay hopefull dear..

Lord almighty has got something beautiful planned for us..

We just have to trust him

Will keep u n all d wonderful ladies here in my prayers..



 
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