Losing my mind - Page 5

Coolstar · Aug 15th, 2012, 15:19 PM

maybesoon: I think it is a good decision to go to a counselor. And i understand it must be very tough to deal with your DH kids.Sometime i think that if i have just one baby i will never ask for the second one. Some people complain that is taking them long time to conceive their 2 or 3 kid and i just think "You just don't know how lucky you guys are that at least you have a baby, just look at my situation" .

maybesoon · Aug 15th, 2012, 15:24 PM

Coolstar, I completely agree with you. I've got a cousin who has 4 already oldest 18 & youngest only 1yr old. The second she heard someone ask me when I was going to have a baby, she started making plans to have another. She is on the mirena implant & has been talking to my Aunt (her mom) about getting it removed... The whole family thinks she crazy. But it really just makes me mad cause she's like little miss fertile mertile & all I want is 1, just 1 baby of my own. One baby I can look at & see some of me in....

maybesoon · Aug 15th, 2012, 15:29 PM

bahahahaha.... Ok here's to losing one's mind.... I just realized that while everyone in my office was laughing at a really funny joke, I was trying not to laugh because I'm afraid the pressure will help AF start.... Seriously.... Yep, to counseling I go!!!!

Miaw · Aug 15th, 2012, 15:33 PM

Hi girls

Reading all your posts made me feel so much better, I didn't think I was alone in my situation but I never seen anyone really talk about it. And certainly not the people around me. I have no one to connect to really... none of my close friends or sisters are TTC or even NTNP, and will not be for a while.

I am just like you girls, I spend so much time online looking a these forums, or other website, reading articles and studies. Looking at baby items. I have not been trying for that long, but I want this so bad (and have been wanting it for years, way before I even met my fiance) it actually hurts.

I don,t have Facebook, thank god, the way you girls talk about it I don't think I could stand it. Seeing all those people you used to know and how many kids they have now. NO thanks.

Coolstar · Aug 15th, 2012, 15:34 PM

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Originally Posted by maybesoon

bahahahaha.... Ok here's to losing one's mind.... I just realized that while everyone in my office was laughing at a really funny joke, I was trying not to laugh because I'm afraid the pressure will help AF start.... Seriously.... Yep, to counseling I go!!!!

Lol.... i think we all have lost our mind.And AF is like a tyrant for us

.I told my DH that one yr back when i was not ttc i was so happy and now i have lost my mind.

Coolstar · Aug 15th, 2012, 15:42 PM

Miaw: You are lucky that you don't have FB account.I am actively ttc from last 9 cycle and believe me it becomes worse when you are actively trying ttc.We are all in the same boat losing our mind slowly.

s_love · Aug 15th, 2012, 15:58 PM

Ok since one person said it, Im angry too!! Just today 3 more people announced pregnancies! 3! Ugh.. so I went to do my OPK (yesterday was day 5 after Clomid so supposedly I should O sometime between yesterday and the 19th) but of course it was a big ol negative. I want to cry.

aknqtpie · Aug 15th, 2012, 16:00 PM

s_love... I have been taking them for about a week now, and still nada on my OPK.. I feel your pain. According to the "my days" app that I have on my phone.. If I am normal, I should O on Friday... Sooo.. hopefully I will get a positive OPK.. or atleast a darker one. I have BD'd the last two days, and plan on doing it every day this week.. just to be on the safe side.

maybesoon · Aug 15th, 2012, 16:21 PM

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Originally Posted by s_love

Ok since one person said it, Im angry too!! Just today 3 more people announced pregnancies! 3! Ugh.. so I went to do my OPK (yesterday was day 5 after Clomid so supposedly I should O sometime between yesterday and the 19th) but of course it was a big ol negative. I want to cry.

Thank you!!! I'm sorry you are angry too, but at the same time, it's kinda nice to know I'm not alone & someone else is having the same emotions as me....

Best of Luck! Hang in there... I know it's hard to stay positive, but we must try!!!

Coolstar · Aug 15th, 2012, 16:28 PM

I don't take Clomid but this cycle i never got a + opk and FF has given my ov day.

Aug 15th, 2012, 15:19 PM	#41
Coolstar Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: California Posts: 746	maybesoon: I think it is a good decision to go to a counselor. And i understand it must be very tough to deal with your DH kids.Sometime i think that if i have just one baby i will never ask for the second one. Some people complain that is taking them long time to conceive their 2 or 3 kid and i just think "You just don't know how lucky you guys are that at least you have a baby, just look at my situation" .

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maybesoon Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 1,383	Coolstar, I completely agree with you. I've got a cousin who has 4 already oldest 18 & youngest only 1yr old. The second she heard someone ask me when I was going to have a baby, she started making plans to have another. She is on the mirena implant & has been talking to my Aunt (her mom) about getting it removed... The whole family thinks she crazy. But it really just makes me mad cause she's like little miss fertile mertile & all I want is 1, just 1 baby of my own. One baby I can look at & see some of me in....

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Aug 15th, 2012, 15:29 PM	#43
maybesoon Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 1,383	bahahahaha.... Ok here's to losing one's mind.... I just realized that while everyone in my office was laughing at a really funny joke, I was trying not to laugh because I'm afraid the pressure will help AF start.... Seriously.... Yep, to counseling I go!!!!

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Aug 15th, 2012, 15:33 PM	#44
Miaw Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Silvermoon, Azeroth Posts: 340	Hi girls Reading all your posts made me feel so much better, I didn't think I was alone in my situation but I never seen anyone really talk about it. And certainly not the people around me. I have no one to connect to really... none of my close friends or sisters are TTC or even NTNP, and will not be for a while. I am just like you girls, I spend so much time online looking a these forums, or other website, reading articles and studies. Looking at baby items. I have not been trying for that long, but I want this so bad (and have been wanting it for years, way before I even met my fiance) it actually hurts. I don,t have Facebook, thank god, the way you girls talk about it I don't think I could stand it. Seeing all those people you used to know and how many kids they have now. NO thanks.

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Aug 15th, 2012, 15:42 PM	#46
Coolstar Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: California Posts: 746	Miaw: You are lucky that you don't have FB account.I am actively ttc from last 9 cycle and believe me it becomes worse when you are actively trying ttc.We are all in the same boat losing our mind slowly.

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Aug 15th, 2012, 15:58 PM	#47
s_love Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: California Posts: 1,121	Ok since one person said it, Im angry too!! Just today 3 more people announced pregnancies! 3! Ugh.. so I went to do my OPK (yesterday was day 5 after Clomid so supposedly I should O sometime between yesterday and the 19th) but of course it was a big ol negative. I want to cry.

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Aug 15th, 2012, 16:00 PM	#48
aknqtpie Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Alaska Posts: 6,275	s_love... I have been taking them for about a week now, and still nada on my OPK.. I feel your pain. According to the "my days" app that I have on my phone.. If I am normal, I should O on Friday... Sooo.. hopefully I will get a positive OPK.. or atleast a darker one. I have BD'd the last two days, and plan on doing it every day this week.. just to be on the safe side.

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Aug 15th, 2012, 16:28 PM	#50
Coolstar Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: California Posts: 746	I don't take Clomid but this cycle i never got a + opk and FF has given my ov day.

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