Im not sure Hannah but id get the scan to make sure that it wasnt a mistake.
Levels are good though... if it was eptopic wouldnt there be pain along with spotting?
My advice isnt much help as im not too sure on these things xxx

The consultant said that apparently there can be a sudo-sac in an ectopic pregnancy?! Which you would normal see in the womb. Xxx

Yeah that's correct hun I've sent you fb reply! Contact me if you need any advice xx

I wish i had some advice tizy i hope things turn around for the good. so sorry your having to go through this

Hello everyone,

ok so I go back today to have my bloods taken again, then hopefully they should be able to have more of an idea about whats going on.

I'm keeping my hopes up but also preparing for the worst. I've read so many stories like mine, empty sac, good hcg and then bam a week or sometimes more later a baby appears! I'm just praying that maybe the sonographer missed something or perhaps my little bean is just taking its time. I know by my ovulation date the sac is measuring slightly behind too. Could be the cruel twist of the blighted ovum that the hcg keeps increasing or I could find out later that my hcg is decreasing....I just don't know. I'm trying not to think about ectopic right now either.

I'm annoyed now after being so upset on Wednesday, I've (sort of) got my level head back on. The sonographer said, it was common not to see anything at 6 weeks (size of sac) me knowing I was a little further on thought the worst and then the MW came into the side room we'd been taken to and said we're sorry your baby didn't progress, you've had a missed miscarriage. Then the consultant later said its all inconclusive....

Anyway I'm waffling, I've put my tickers back on until i know for definate (I removed them on wednesday when I was upset) but it would be wrong to give up hope until I'm defo sure.

This website had helped but I don't know if its false hope:

http://www.misdiagnosedmiscarriage.com/

Thanks for listening xxx

Oh Tiz... I am praying for a positive result for you. If it happens to not be, I'm praying for peace in your heart. I've sat here for about 10 minutes debating to share my latest, knowing what you are going through... I realize the kind of person you are, you would want to continue to know what is going on with us. So here is my update...

Don't know if I'm fishing BUT... last night had some sharp pinch pains in my left side about 8:30pm that lasted about 30 seconds then I woke up about 3:00am with about 30 seconds more of those pains... then this morning when I wiped, had pink, watery discharge and that was it. When I checked my cervix an hour later, nothing... This is different then my normal AF. Usually I get a couple days of dark brown discharge before it starts...

Of course I do and would hate it for you girls not to share in your excitement.

Sounds like implantation Ciara, fingers crossed for you darlin and thanks for the kind words Xxx

Tizy, my thoughts and prayers are with you

Ciara, got my fingers crossed for you, hope your little bean is getting snuggly!

xx

Ah Tizy I can't imagine what it must be like for you to be in this horrible limbo - I really really hope it all has a good ending and you see your little bean on your next scan

Ciara - sounds positive!

AFM I saw the gynae-oncologist yesterday.... good news is there was no tumour return on my MRI, yay! He thinks the endo has come back but is keen to progress down the getting me knocked up route rather than concentrate on that! So being referred to the fertility clinic (which happens to be run by my old consultant who I was under for the endo before the cancer cells became an issue) to start the basic testing for me and DH - from my cycles he doesn't think I'm ovulating which I agree with really. He says as part of the fertility testing I'm likely to have another lap (he says with known endo they rather do a lap&dye than an HSG) so when they do the lap he would like to be present also so that one of them can check for fertility type issues and he can double check that I'm tumour clear and will get rid of any endo at the same time.

So we're on our way to getting this thing sorted hopefully! In the meantime I'm going to try and switch off a little and just enjoy myself - I have a great xmas with lots of coming up followed by a week's skiing in France so going to try and forget TTC and concentrate on other things.... if I can!! My ticker's coming off as I'm going to ignore my stupid cycles and though I'll check in on you all and update every so often, am going to try and not update unless I have some definite news...

Thought I'd find it really depressing to get the confirmation that we need help conceiving and we're not going to manage this on our own but actually I'm managing to take it quite positively that help is on its way! Wish me luck!

Hope your ok Hannah xox

Next scan date for me is 23rd Jan at 19+4.