Has anyone got or knows anyone that has had a bfn 2 days before af and still been pregnant? I know I know I am just trying to find something to hold on to lol.

I actually didnt notice anything different with CM, I got more when I drank grapefruit juice which I think I will do again this cycle.

im 2 days away from AF and im feeling like crying,my boobs hurt alot today,but i tested BFN at 11 dpo

I've heard of people who didn't get bfp until after af was due. It's not over til the witch shows!

Its CD6 for me today - I am one with long cycles and ovulate usually on CD20-21. Its been 2 months of BFN and 6 months NTNP. I really want that BFP!

Good Morning Everyone,

Hope All is Well...currently 20dpo af was due 9/21 no signs or symptoms...7 days til I test

COME ON BFP!!!

Im keeping my fongers crossed for October 28!!!! Let this be my BFP for my Halloween treat!

Morning all!

I have no idea what tithing this morning. I went to bed last night at 12dpo and spotting with cramps, pretty sure it just wasn't going to happen...and then I wake up this morning and put in my temperature (a little low, to be expected for me at this point) and now fertility friend says that I never ovulated after all. And that I'm a week late in getting my period. And that I'm somehow currently in my fertile time? So, if I spot for longer now before the witch comes, I mean...could I somehow miss this ovulation too? I'm so confused! I can't believe it changed its mind on me!

Tryingtofind, I plan to use grapefruit juice again (I forgot it last cycle!!) to thin my cm and give me more ewcm and then just bd on the eggwhite days I think. DH and I are getting discouraged again. We were doing OK but now it's like...ugh, should we bother putting in an effort this month or just wait to see what the OB says? Grrr! I'm frustrated!!!

Saint, my fertility book says that 18 high temps post O are a pretty good indicator of pregnancy, especially if your luteal phase normally never goes that long. It's time to POAS!!!

Smash is right Aiden, you're not out til AF shows! But I hear ya girl, and I say cry if you want to. You'll relieve some of that frustration and feel a little better if you do. I know it works that way for me

Divineparadis, I know how you feel! I don't typically o until day 20-22 either. It's frustrating having to wait a week longer than most people! I hope we both get bfps this month.

Duckieshoes, that sounds really confusing! Do you have a link to your chart? I wouldn't necessarily trust what ff says. My chart kept telling me it didn't know what was going on when I felt pretty confident about my o date. I ended up having to manually put the day in, even though I had a positive opk and a sharp temp rise.

Rcaf, how long do you drink grapefruit juice before your o date? Thinking about either trying that or preseed this month. You definitely should try to bd this month though. I heard that most people, even some who have fertility problems, will still get pregnant naturally even if it takes a couple years for that cycle when everything is going right... Of course, that isn't everyone, but you never know! What do you think might be going on?

Everyone: I ran across a really good YouTube video about infertility and being positive and stuff. It's a song called "I would die for that". It's pretty much guaranteed to make you cry, but still very very good. My phone seems reluctant to post the actual link but it's easy to find.