New kids on the block! all welcome!! 7 bfps so far!!

ready2Bmum · Dec 5th, 2012, 15:08 PM

Hey I was just wondering do people find that some threads are very hard to break into??? Im on a few different threads..some people are lovely and chat away..others only reply to each other and just ignore anyone else.

I wanted to check if this was common or if I am coming across wrong on threads!!

So this thread originally began with the above post, but through it a few of us have found new buddies!!

Feel free to say hi and to add your story.

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Claudinator-

HWPG-
Ltruns33-
Honeyangel831-

SMGP-

wantingchild-

Sahnie-
Michaelap-
Jonesmommy13-
Mitsy424-

Murmers0110-

HWPG · Dec 5th, 2012, 15:11 PM

hi! i'm sure it happens, probably unintentionally. some people have been on here a while and just "know" each other better... have you found a thread you like yet? if not, keep trying, every single one is different, you'll find a good fit. GL!

perfect plan · Dec 5th, 2012, 15:16 PM

You're not alone on that thought as i feel the same way on most of the threads i come across.

care327 · Dec 5th, 2012, 15:39 PM

i feel like no one responds to the threads i post lol maybe they are not interesting enough. idk but i am here because i want to interact with ppl goin thru the same thing. hope u find a better thread =)

Mrs B. · Dec 5th, 2012, 15:46 PM

I don't think it is intentional. Some people have been here a while and do know each other so are likely to respond to those they know. I find on the longer threads that it is just too hard to reply to everyone so you may find yourself missed out if you are quite new to the thread. Post a few more times and people will respond - no one is ignoring you intentionally. I also do find that there are some threads that I seem to 'fit' into and others where I don't. No idea why! Anyway, please keep posting, the ladies on here are lovely!

bubbles82 · Dec 5th, 2012, 17:44 PM

I find I get ignored a lot on threads where it's been going a while and I've tried to join in too far along, it's like they already know each other and don't want any new people joining later on! But not all threads are like that, some are great, and you can always start your own too.

Qwerty24 · Dec 5th, 2012, 20:57 PM

I feel the same way, and that my posts are mostly overlooked. I kinda took a bnb break for that reason! You aren't alone in feeling that way!

SMGP · Dec 5th, 2012, 21:53 PM

Well ladies, since we are all new on here we can all be ttc buddies! I don't think anyone does it on purpose, some of them have been on for a few months and have gotten to know each other! We are all on here for the same reason! But I am always looking for a ttc buddy! Especially since a lot of my friends have kids already!

Toni8 · Dec 5th, 2012, 21:55 PM

Yea, I know how you feel, my problem though is that I'm a thread stalker, but I don't respond too often. Then when i do respond no one responds back so it reinforces my stalker tendencies... Lol that doesn't sound good. But like others have said, I find a lot of these people who have been ttc for 1yr+ they have gotten to know each other. This is month 3 ttc for me, so I'm still pretty new, but I haven't had a lot of problems yet, so again I sit in the background waiting for my BFP or somewhere I can put in my two cents

LillyTame · Dec 5th, 2012, 22:09 PM

I feel over looked too! But I think it's like most of the ladies have already said...unintentional cliques just due to long history together. *whisper* I wasn't going to say anything until I officially started TTC or was looking for a bump buddy lol

Dec 5th, 2012, 15:08 PM	#1
ready2Bmum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Ireland Posts: 549	New kids on the block! all welcome!! 7 bfps so far!! Hey I was just wondering do people find that some threads are very hard to break into??? Im on a few different threads..some people are lovely and chat away..others only reply to each other and just ignore anyone else. I wanted to check if this was common or if I am coming across wrong on threads!! So this thread originally began with the above post, but through it a few of us have found new buddies!! Feel free to say hi and to add your story. -----------------Future ------------------- Ready2Bmum - Claudinator- HWPG- Ltruns33- Honeyangel831- SMGP- wantingchild- Sahnie- Michaelap- Jonesmommy13- Mitsy424- Murmers0110-

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Dec 5th, 2012, 15:11 PM	#2
HWPG Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 2,530	hi! i'm sure it happens, probably unintentionally. some people have been on here a while and just "know" each other better... have you found a thread you like yet? if not, keep trying, every single one is different, you'll find a good fit. GL!

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Dec 5th, 2012, 15:16 PM	#3
perfect plan Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 91	You're not alone on that thought as i feel the same way on most of the threads i come across.

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care327 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 19	i feel like no one responds to the threads i post lol maybe they are not interesting enough. idk but i am here because i want to interact with ppl goin thru the same thing. hope u find a better thread =)

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Dec 5th, 2012, 15:46 PM	#5
Mrs B. Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 905	I don't think it is intentional. Some people have been here a while and do know each other so are likely to respond to those they know. I find on the longer threads that it is just too hard to reply to everyone so you may find yourself missed out if you are quite new to the thread. Post a few more times and people will respond - no one is ignoring you intentionally. I also do find that there are some threads that I seem to 'fit' into and others where I don't. No idea why! Anyway, please keep posting, the ladies on here are lovely!

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Dec 5th, 2012, 17:44 PM	#6
bubbles82 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Yorkshire, UK Posts: 2,816	I find I get ignored a lot on threads where it's been going a while and I've tried to join in too far along, it's like they already know each other and don't want any new people joining later on! But not all threads are like that, some are great, and you can always start your own too.

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Dec 5th, 2012, 20:57 PM	#7
Qwerty24 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: NY Posts: 53	I feel the same way, and that my posts are mostly overlooked. I kinda took a bnb break for that reason! You aren't alone in feeling that way!

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Dec 5th, 2012, 21:53 PM	#8
SMGP Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: USA Posts: 1,027	Well ladies, since we are all new on here we can all be ttc buddies! I don't think anyone does it on purpose, some of them have been on for a few months and have gotten to know each other! We are all on here for the same reason! But I am always looking for a ttc buddy! Especially since a lot of my friends have kids already!

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Dec 5th, 2012, 21:55 PM	#9
Toni8 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 209	Yea, I know how you feel, my problem though is that I'm a thread stalker, but I don't respond too often. Then when i do respond no one responds back so it reinforces my stalker tendencies... Lol that doesn't sound good. But like others have said, I find a lot of these people who have been ttc for 1yr+ they have gotten to know each other. This is month 3 ttc for me, so I'm still pretty new, but I haven't had a lot of problems yet, so again I sit in the background waiting for my BFP or somewhere I can put in my two cents

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Dec 5th, 2012, 22:09 PM	#10
LillyTame Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Big Island, HI Posts: 2,214	I feel over looked too! But I think it's like most of the ladies have already said...unintentional cliques just due to long history together. whisper I wasn't going to say anything until I officially started TTC or was looking for a bump buddy lol

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