New kids on the block! all welcome!! 7 bfps so far!!
Hey I was just wondering do people find that some threads are very hard to break into??? Im on a few different threads..some people are lovely and chat away..others only reply to each other and just ignore anyone else.
I wanted to check if this was common or if I am coming across wrong on threads!!
So this thread originally began with the above post, but through it a few of us have found new buddies!! Feel free to say hi and to add your story.
hi! i'm sure it happens, probably unintentionally. some people have been on here a while and just "know" each other better... have you found a thread you like yet? if not, keep trying, every single one is different, you'll find a good fit. GL!
i feel like no one responds to the threads i post lol maybe they are not interesting enough. idk but i am here because i want to interact with ppl goin thru the same thing. hope u find a better thread =)
I don't think it is intentional. Some people have been here a while and do know each other so are likely to respond to those they know. I find on the longer threads that it is just too hard to reply to everyone so you may find yourself missed out if you are quite new to the thread. Post a few more times and people will respond - no one is ignoring you intentionally. I also do find that there are some threads that I seem to 'fit' into and others where I don't. No idea why! Anyway, please keep posting, the ladies on here are lovely!
I find I get ignored a lot on threads where it's been going a while and I've tried to join in too far along, it's like they already know each other and don't want any new people joining later on! But not all threads are like that, some are great, and you can always start your own too.
Well ladies, since we are all new on here we can all be ttc buddies! I don't think anyone does it on purpose, some of them have been on for a few months and have gotten to know each other! We are all on here for the same reason! But I am always looking for a ttc buddy! Especially since a lot of my friends have kids already!
Yea, I know how you feel, my problem though is that I'm a thread stalker, but I don't respond too often. Then when i do respond no one responds back so it reinforces my stalker tendencies... Lol that doesn't sound good. But like others have said, I find a lot of these people who have been ttc for 1yr+ they have gotten to know each other. This is month 3 ttc for me, so I'm still pretty new, but I haven't had a lot of problems yet, so again I sit in the background waiting for my BFP or somewhere I can put in my two cents
I feel over looked too! But I think it's like most of the ladies have already said...unintentional cliques just due to long history together. *whisper* I wasn't going to say anything until I officially started TTC or was looking for a bump buddy lol
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