View Poll Results: Have you SMEPed before?
This is my first time SMEPing! 40 78.43%
SMEPed before & got a BFP! 3 5.88%
SMEPed before, but got a BFNm but giving it another try! 8 15.69%
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 12:09 PM   51
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Hey guys do you mind if I join?? I have been thinking a out trying smep for a while now and always seem to have a trip or hubbie getting flu getting in the way of good pre -o bd'ing!! Well this month I am totally determined to get smep going - currently cd 1 so 7 days till action stations!!

Baby dust to you all sounds like you have good plans in place!! Talking about men and when they are in the mood.......hubbie and I bd'ed twice last night just because he felt like it.......why can that never happen during my fertile time!! I usually get a smiley opk the day that my hubbie has the worst day at work and its nearly impossible to get to bd!! Sod's law I guess!!

Nice to meet you all and baby dust to all. Xx
Welcome twinkletoe!

Does you DH know you are trying to follow the SMEP plan or do you just try to seem spontaneous?



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 15:34 PM   52
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Thanks for the welcome guys!! No i dont think i will tell hubbie we are trying smep he will obviously guess its eggy time but I am not going to talk too much to him about it I think he just prefers to think I can't resist his hotness!! :-) which of course I can't! ;-) what about you ladies have you shared "the plan" ? X



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 15:38 PM   53
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Thanks for the welcome guys!! No i dont think i will tell hubbie we are trying smep he will obviously guess its eggy time but I am not going to talk too much to him about it I think he just prefers to think I can't resist his hotness!! :-) which of course I can't! ;-) what about you ladies have you shared "the plan" ? X
I so agree! I too prefer that he just thinks I can't resist him... which like you, I really can't resist him. Pretty much ever, but it's even worse around Ov time! I didn't share the plan with him, but I did warn him that I was going to need him for the next few days (I had my first pos OPK yesterday, so we got a few days in a row here now according to SMEP). Though we already have an "agreement" to BD at least every other day regardless of the time in the cycle.
I am also trying SoftCups this cycle, and I did not even tell him that I bought them. I think they would just weird him out... a lot.... so I'm just going to keep that my little secret for now.



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 15:48 PM   54
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Totally agree some things just might slightly ruin the mood!! ;-)I bought preseed and I would use the wee applicators to put it "up there" quickly in the bathroom .....not the most attractive sight for foreplay ;-) x



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 16:00 PM   55
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Thanks for the welcome guys!! No i dont think i will tell hubbie we are trying smep he will obviously guess its eggy time but I am not going to talk too much to him about it I think he just prefers to think I can't resist his hotness!! :-) which of course I can't! ;-) what about you ladies have you shared "the plan" ? X
I've shared the plan...but I don't talk too much about everything else...just a snippet here and there, because he starts shaking his head at me lol...thinks I'm being obsessive But it's more obvious when the deed is done as I try to get my butt up onto a pillow! lmao



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 16:17 PM   56
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Hehe!! I know that one is hard to avoid but at least at that point we have finished!! :-) so he just laughs and says "time to incubate" some things we just can't hide! :-) x



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 19:26 PM   57
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CD8 - no go
CD10 - nope, OPK-
CD11 - , OPK-
CD12 - (back on track), OPK-
CD13 - OPK-
CD14 - waiting for OH to get off work , OPK-

I'm starting to worry that I wont OV or that the OPKs wont catch it
(remember I haven't had a "full" flow since stopping depo in Nov)

Sheesh...this wait is about as bad as the 2ww!



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 21:00 PM   58
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Hubby knows. We are pretty serious about trying to have a little one soon; so, he wants to be as involved as possible.

He thinks it is a great idea (and it hasn't been a "chore" these last few days of BD-ing every night...I think knowing what we are trying to do makes it more exciting for him).



 
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Old Jan 2nd, 2013, 21:33 PM   59
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ProfWife: That's great that he wants to be as involved as possible! I'm pretty sure that my DH wants to have a LO of his own too, but the pressure might just get to him. I'm not sure. If he wanted to know things, I'm sure that he would ask (he has on occasion for various things and I've answered as fully as he wants me to)

Well we BDed tonight, but I'm not sure that we're going to be able to do it tomorrow. It seemed like he was....shall we say... struggling a little bit. But this is day #3 in a row. We'll resume again on Friday as usual, but our SMEP has been modified a little bit I think. It may still happen, we'll just have to see what tomorrow brings. LOL



 
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Possible TMI Alert!


So today I noticed that FF says the next few days are my fertile days before OV...I checked CM and it's tacky/sticky, so I was going to go buy preseed. But I got vetoed! OH was like "that doesn't sound natural, can't we just try for a month first?" UGH! NO! I don't want to wait I want my baby now I want to increase my chances as much as possible EVERY cycle. *sigh* I will respect his wishes though and other than SMEPing, we will keep things "natural".

We are supposed to DTD tonight, but he is really tired from work and said his back hurts, so I don't think it's going to happen.



 
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