Hi girls can I join? I've just hit the one year mark. Had my first doctors app today and had cd21 bloods done. Got cd3 bloods booked and a smear and swab. DH is booking his sa too. I am trying very hard to relax about it all as I was getting very stressed. Kind of accepted it will take longer and we might need help but I'm only 25 so I'm confident ill get there in the end, I have to be optimistic as the thought of not having a family kills me!
The thing that gets me is when people tell me that I am young and that I should be enjoying the world and my husband. I have had my fun being out and stuff like that and I just want to move on to the next chapter of my life and so does my husband. I mean why is it so hard for people to understand that we just want what most of them already have. I was once told that getting a negative wasn't really that big of a deal, I had to walk away from that person because they don't have to be there when I'm crying my eyes out to my husband and asking him why do I have to be so messed up. If women with children really knew how precious their child was then there would be a lot less child abuse going on in the world today.
Girlies, I got a really funny story to tell. I got a text from my OH while at work today and he said "if you are gonna order baby stuff at least let me know, but I think you are being a bit premature".... I was in shock I didn't order any baby stuff, this is ridiculous... So I called him back to ask WTF. He said the parcel arrived and he opened it and there was a baby car chair in it. I said I didn't freaking order it and asked him to check what name was on the parcel. There was no name!! I said maybe mistake. Lol in the end it was our neibour who had a baby a year ago and she needed a bigger chair. My OH jug head didn't even look at the address label
I'd like to join too please (though I'm not on the boards too much as it can get a bit much to keep thinking about being pg and not able to get there as I am sure you all understand). I'm just about at 20 months ttc now, should be getting an HSG soon and FS has said if that's clear then there's no reason why I can't conceive so keep trying. Helpful :P Might be referred in July for IVF if I'm not pregnant by then.
I quite agree with an earlier sentiment on here - don't quite feel ready to move to ltttc but I can (and do have to bite my tongue) get frustrated by some of the posts on here. For some reason the 'Am I pregnant?' ones get on my nerves. Take a test ladies, that's what they're there for... (I'm just being a grump - I've been there and asked the same questions!)
I couldn't agree more about the "am I pregnant" question. I understand that its a bit confussing at time because you can have a sign of pregnancy but then you're not sure but as someone who is trying to get pregnant I know that if you are having signs of it then its best to just go a head and take a test if it comes up negative then wait a week or two and take another to be sure.
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