Im good lol i usually wait until 14dpo. Normally af comes so i dont bother testing but i do have tests in the house that i might use if i get to 14dpo without af. Last April i had lots of faint lines on tests and dont know if they were evaps or chemical so dont want to go through that again as hubby and i both got excited. We were talking about decorating a nursery and what push chair to get. Felt such a fool when af came and was totally gutted.
Do u test early? X

Maybe

Ha ha well when u start testing i will prob want to join in. Cant ever imagine getting a bfp tho. Do u have two children? Xxx

I have 3 children here and one in heaven My boys are 9 and 11, my daughter is 5 and my other daughter would have been 1.5 now.... which is why I am feeling so desperate for my bfp.... losing her has left a huge empty hole in our family, not that we can replace Hadlee but we need that joy that a baby brings

Is this your first you are trying for?

Yes it would be our first baby. Id love 4 children. Always wanted a big family but id be grateful if i can have one. Did u find it hard when ttc number 1? Like,i dont even know if my body is capable of carrying a baby. My pregnant best friend was round last night and now i feel all sad and down today. Xxx

With my first we had a 'scare' in march, and when it turned out I wasnt pg, it showed us we both wanted to start having children... and so from april on we didnt use protection. We were 18 and 19 years (totally crazy I know! haha) so we went like rabbits, some times 4 times a day lmao Still yet, I didnt conceive until mid january.... my cycle that started dec 26 2000. I conceived approximately Jan 13/14 IN MEXICO!! hahaha go figure... then my next lil guy... I was breastfeeding my first son from october until around july and didnt get my period back until september, when my first son was 11 months old. That was the only period I got because I was then pg again with my second son!! So he was quick lol Then with my daughter we got married (did everything backwards haha) in june and started trying after that and conceived her in october, again on my sept cycle, so their bdays are 9 days apart boooooo. Then with our angel girl... well, we had split up for nearly 2 years... we got back together towards the end of jan 2011 and well..... by mid feb I had conceived.... purely by surprise. Soooooo my first took awhile.... the next 3 were pretty quick, and now... well, May is 2 years since we lost her and it has been a year since we started trying again....

Hope that gives you some hope that even though #1 is being a little bugger already There is still hope for 2,3, and 4!!

Oh and I got my crosshairs today!! Making me 3dpo... and the crosshairs are on the day I felt serious ov pains... woot woot!

yipee for crosshairs. hopefully i will get mine tomorrow.

very sorry about your loss of Hadlee. how old are u now? im 28. Been with my husband for 8 years. Thanks for giving me hope about ttc number 1. hubby and i say that once we have 1 then there will be no stopping us......i hope so.

so now your 3dpo, what cd are u on? and how long is your LP usually?

xxx

I am now on cd19 and my usual LP is a good 15 days.... no problems in that area lol and I am 31 now.... and my deadline WAS 30... done having all my kids by 30. Well this has put a kink in that plan haha

Were your temps still high today though? I hope you get your crosshairs tomorrow.... can you link me to your chart?

Yeah temp was still high today so FX its still up tomorrow & cross hairs! Im cd21 now. Last cycle on clomid my LP was 12 days but naturally ive had it as long as 15 days before. I wanted my first child at about 26 but now my new plan is to have one by 30 which is next year.....fast running out of time to have a baby by then but hopefully will be pregnant!!
Do u work or are u a SAHM??
What post ov symptoms do u have? X