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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 06:03 AM   11
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its really a difficult process and even just trying is no longer fun its so technical. My poor DH is really sweet and always makes himself "available" to assist but I know its not a great process. His brother got married 1 December last year and his wife is now 5 weeks pregnant, my sister is 12 weeks and has a little girl as well. It was so difficult to pretend that it doesnt affect me but the good thing is no one knows that we trying, they just think we waiting until we ready. My mother knows I have PCOS but I told her in a way that its nearly impossible for me to fall pregnant. In a way it puts a lot less pressure on us. But I can see its taking toll especially since we were married first and we still dont have our baby. I dream of how I am going to tell everyone about my pregnancy but its just never becoming a reality. I try not to stress over it but its all I can think about...

I hope that with the HSG you get your bfp! Im sure you will though... I have a very positive vibe for others, never works for myself though.

Is it just me or my jealousy but I just hate it when someone gets their and gets so excited about how long they tried for and they like a mother of 4, I mean really... sorry I just had to vent...



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 08:25 AM   12
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*raises hand*

I've never had one. Not even a "pregnancy scare".

If I ever get one, I wonder how many tests I'll have to take in order for me to believe it. Maybe when I push a baby out, I'd finally believe it?



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 08:35 AM   13
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Is it just me or my jealousy but I just hate it when someone gets their and gets so excited about how long they tried for and they like a mother of 4, I mean really... sorry I just had to vent...

I get a bit jealous too. I'm like "At least you've have one and have gotten to go through it all!"



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 08:45 AM   14
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Just saying hello!

We're onto our 15th cycle of TTC now and I'm still a BFP virgin too. I hope we all see a BFP soon.



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 12:14 PM   15
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Jealousy has been a huge issue for me lately. Like since I've started tryin I can't tell you the number of my friends and family who have turned up pregnant. Most of them weren't even trying. Some of them think you can get preggo on your period... It's just so frustrating when you sit and do everything down to a science and nothing.

One of my friends is pregnant with her 4th and she's scared it will be another girl... She said shes "going to be devestates if her aon doesnt have a brother" She's got 2 girls and 1 boy. I was just like, I'm devestates I can't conceive 1! You should be happy with whatever gender you've been blessed with!



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 12:46 PM   16
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I'm a bfp virgin too, been trying for a good while.
What are you girls doing to track ovulation etc?



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 12:49 PM   17
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Ive been TTC 19 months, with absolutely NO BFP! Not even an evap line! Fingers crossed we all get our BFPs soon!



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 13:01 PM   18
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*raises hand*

I've never had one. Not even a "pregnancy scare".

If I ever get one, I wonder how many tests I'll have to take in order for me to believe it. Maybe when I push a baby out, I'd finally believe it?
Hear hear!

Never had one, but so looking forward to getting one.



 
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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 13:20 PM   19
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Jealousy has been a huge issue for me lately. Like since I've started tryin I can't tell you the number of my friends and family who have turned up pregnant. Most of them weren't even trying. Some of them think you can get preggo on your period... It's just so frustrating when you sit and do everything down to a science and nothing.

One of my friends is pregnant with her 4th and she's scared it will be another girl... She said shes "going to be devestates if her aon doesnt have a brother" She's got 2 girls and 1 boy. I was just like, I'm devestates I can't conceive 1! You should be happy with whatever gender you've been blessed with!
this is how i feel... how awful to want a certain gender... i would be happy with absulutly any heathy baby

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Old Jan 17th, 2013, 14:12 PM   20
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Is it just me or my jealousy but I just hate it when someone gets their and gets so excited about how long they tried for and they like a mother of 4, I mean really... sorry I just had to vent...

I get a bit jealous too. I'm like "At least you've have one and have gotten to go through it all!"
YES! It really irks me. "I've been trying for a year for baby #5 "

Like... seriously? You've done it a billion times... I'm sure you're fine!



 
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