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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 07:04 AM   41
reverie
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Mind if I join in?

We are hitting the big year mark this cycle and I've never even had a hint of a second line.

Murmurs, looks like we are very similar. I was on my first round of clomid last month and they believe I ovulated, but a BFN. They kept me on 50 mg this round and I had lots of positive signs of ovulation again so here's hoping. Now I'm just waiting.



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 07:30 AM   42
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Hi girls!
Obviously I'm not a BFP virgin and I hope you dont mine me posting but I just wanted to say, HANG IN THERE!!!

We were ttc for 2.5 years and nothing. We tried everything that we could and yet no joy.

Just as we began to give up I got my first ever BFP which ended in MC. I was distraught we couldn't believe this had happened to us. We so wanted it and yet there was nothing we could do. I found out I had one sided uterus which if I was lucky to get pregnant at all, I may not be able to carry.

I gave up, broke down, drank and smoked again for the first time in a long time. A then in April 2012 I felt odd..I hadnt even noticed my AF was late. I decided to test and there it was BFP!

I was so nervous, I knew things could go wrong. I fell in love with my baby but I worried constantly for 8 months! I ended up in hospital 3 times in first tri with hypermesis. I almost died at 16 weeks from lack of pottasium and my lung collapsing. But I can honestly say as I sit here writing this while all the while my lo is sitting in her bouncer looking at me, I would do it all again!
Just to have her....the 2.5 years of ttc and the rather hard and worrying pregnancy. I would do it all.
And one day when you lovely ladies get your BFP's and have your babies you will say the same thing.
Stay strong,have faith and don't obsess. You will drive yourselves mad, like I did! Lol

Again I hope you don't mind me writing here, just wanted to give some hope.
xxx



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 13:26 PM   43
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Hey ladies, welcome to our newbies, congrats to our first bfp and thanks to sbl for the encouragement. I have just started provera getting ready for clomid. So much is happening at the moment but hubby says to keep trying. Anyway it seems this thread could be very lucky, looking forward to the next bfp!




 
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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 15:16 PM   44
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Good luck Ibelieveitwil! Waiting to get going on the clomid was almost as awful as the TTW for me! Haha. I just wanted to get things moving!



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 16:03 PM   45
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Hi ladies, please can I join? 10 month TTC #1 and absolutely nothing - well, lots of BFNs;-) AF arrived bang on time yesterday so lots of tears (again). And to add insult to injury, it's the heaviest period I've had in ages!

I have no patience so I've already had all the tests done - me and DH are fine apparently. I'm having my AMH levels tested on Friday and a Hycosy next week just to get the final checks. In a way, I'm hoping they find I've got an easily reversible blocked tube so that there's a reason why it hasn't worked so far - does that make sense? I've started acupuncture, cut out caffeine, reduced alcohol, have sex to schedule, chart my bbt... and nothing. How do people end up 'accidentally' getting pregnant??

It's so, so, so hard, this journey of TTC! I don't know about you ladies, but I think I'm a different person to who I was last year. I used to be fun, care free and happy, but now, I never feel fully happy because if always feels like something's missing, like a constant sadness

Sorry for the essay! Good luck to you all x



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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 16:47 PM   46
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Hey Ladies!
Can I join? I'm a BFP virgin
I came off Cerazette (on for a year 1/2) back in mid October 2012 and had previously been on Microgynon 30 for 8 years. I had spotting after two weeks of stopping, followed by a very light period exactly 28 days after discontinuing.
The 3rd of November was my last AF
I was convinced that I was pregnant and that I would be one of those ladies who get a BFP a little later...months of BFNs and I decided to go to the doctors for a blood test. Sadly, my HCG level was 2 (not pregnant). I still do not have any sign of a period. The doctor said to come back once I reach the 6 months ttc mark. I've never been so desperate to get my period! I don't think I've ovulated since stopping BCP. A few days ago I finally experienced EWCM (however the OPK was negative). I'm really hoping that I O'd!



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 21:41 PM   47
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I have felt so alone in this process, so many woman I know have all managed to get pregnant without even trying. Even those that had problems managed to get pregnant before me. I still remember worrying about the worst case scenario after the first bfn, and my dh assuring me it was going to happen. Now here I am 12 cycles without a hint of bfp, living out my worst nightmare. Today I was so bored, I wrote out a detailed list of what I wanted for my baby shower. There's not a day that goes by where I don't see a pregnant woman and think why her and not me. I'm grateful this thread exists, I hope all of you get your bfp. When you do, please announce it, it will give me hope.



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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 21:50 PM   48
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I want to join please! SO and I have been TTC/NTNP for over 2 years now.. never had a BFP, a "scare", nothing. The witch always shows her ugly face every month.. it gets so frustrating sometimes.



 
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Old Jan 21st, 2013, 23:07 PM   49
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Hi ladies, please can I join? 10 month TTC #1 and absolutely nothing - well, lots of BFNs;-) AF arrived bang on time yesterday so lots of tears (again). And to add insult to injury, it's the heaviest period I've had in ages!

I have no patience so I've already had all the tests done - me and DH are fine apparently. I'm having my AMH levels tested on Friday and a Hycosy next week just to get the final checks. In a way, I'm hoping they find I've got an easily reversible blocked tube so that there's a reason why it hasn't worked so far - does that make sense? I've started acupuncture, cut out caffeine, reduced alcohol, have sex to schedule, chart my bbt... and nothing. How do people end up 'accidentally' getting pregnant??

It's so, so, so hard, this journey of TTC! I don't know about you ladies, but I think I'm a different person to who I was last year. I used to be fun, care free and happy, but now, I never feel fully happy because if always feels like something's missing, like a constant sadness

Sorry for the essay! Good luck to you all x
Sounds like we have a bit in common, over 10 months ttc, nothing close to a bfp and AF started today



 
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Old Jan 22nd, 2013, 14:15 PM   50
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Well I tested this morning and negative, as usual. Its gettng really hard to hold out hope for the next cycle. Oh well, on to cycle 15.



 
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