Can I have a mini rant here? I am so sick of girls on here being so sensitive!! They post a question that there really isn't a way for anyone to answer and then get pissy when they don't get replies. They keep bumping and writing things like "I guess you are don't fancy my post". Or complain that no one is following their journals, but all the do is whine in them. They expect us to be able to give them the answers that we couldn't possibly have.


Anyway, sorry for the rant.

I completely agree! I think there are a lot of women on here that are drama queens (not on our page) I had this one lady pretty much copy everything I have said and then it was apart of her story... she always changed her situation depending on who she was talking to... very sad that she has to go on here to get some attention....

Meli- what does grapefruit juice do?

Sorry lots of little posts in one area... I pretty much figured out a lot of the lingo... I just can't figure out FF???

FF-fertility friend, the site/app to chart your cycle.

I think I need to start coming on and responding every few hours, so much to catch up on already!

We were sitting on the couch and OH says "Where are our pillows?!" referring to the couch pillows we packed away I told him that would happen! I don't mind at all that you bought the book! I'm glad I was able to give you a gift idea I still have to fill most of it out and don't know when I'll find the time without OH around! I think the sexy outfits are fun! I also have a nurse one that I got for his bday last August that he loved.

Your weekend sounds like it was fun! I'm glad to here the stress with your uncle and the donation has been relieved. Any news from the u/s yesterday (or did I miss that)?

He did!

Outfits are just the start of it for me lol

I don't know about anyone else but I've found myself doing the same thing... just because I can and I'm impatient


My favorites are Merali Sophia and Merali Grace!

Angel & Vegas, no signs yet. OH swears I'm eating more as of yesterday but I think maybe that's wishful thinking. Although... there was this one thing that happened shortly before getting the BFPs the last times, and it only happened those two times, and yesterday. I got a sharp pain in my upper back between my shoulder blades when I breathed in. It lasts up to an hour. I'm not sure what causes it or if it's even related in any way at all, but it's just odd it's only ever happened shortly before a BFP.

I'm in a mood today. Our cat got outside again yesterday morning, still haven't found her. She has me worried because there was frost everywhere this morning. The window to the neighbor's dirt cellar that she was hiding in last time is blocked off now, so I have no idea where she is. Also, I had a job interview for today, after a phone interview that went very well. I would have swore that I had the job, but I got a call this morning around 9 from the guy saying he has to cancel our interview because he already hired someone else. Rude?!? How could he go hire someone without following through on interviews he had set up? How does he know I wouldn't have been better for the position after meeting me? I'm pissed

On the positive side, we are finally closing on the house, should be tomorrow. So Gracie (that's the kitty) needs to show up fast before we move and I need to find a new job fast or I'm going to be stuck with 2 hours of driving every day, which will significantly decrease my take home pay with gas costs.

I am sorry your kitty is missing and that interviewer was an asshole! That is very rude!
I hope Gracie comes back today and that the back pain is a sign for you!

Can I have one more mini rant here? Guess I am a little irritable. Before I start, if this applies to anyone here, I am very sorry. I mean no offense!!!
I hate it when I see a lady on here saying something like "we have been trying for two years with no luck!", but when asked if they are temping, checking cm, using preseed, doing all they can to ttc, they say the can't be arsed to temp! How can you complain that you aren't getting preg when you aren't doing all you can to make it happen. Now I completely understand that some people have other problems like pcos, but I can't understand why you wouldn't do eveything to help yourself. End rant! Sorry again!!

Jenkb,

I like your response to the ‘favorite store’ survey question:”I like finding new things I didn’t even know I needed”. That’s me too! Some people (DH) may call me a shopaholic, but I don’t agree. Just because I'm a bargain and sensible shopper, doesnt make me a shopaholic. Whatevs.

GL with the Clomid! YAY! I’m glad things and timing are finally moving in a positive direction for you.

You’re right…things DO have a way of working themselves out. All this stress I’ve put myself under for the last 2 months…life would have been so much easier had I not stressed myself out about it!

Vegas,

You make a good point about a name ending in “a” has a female connotation.. I never thought of it that way! I think I’ll let DH and SS pick boy names, and I’ll be in charge of the girl names lol!

I lol when you said that DH should be the one dressing up to get you in the mood! Trust me, I really don’t do anything but wear the costumes. I definitely don’t do anything more than that, and it helps so much, it's less work for me IYKWIM~I had a gf who used to dance for her dh. I can’t do that!! I am very shy with that kind of stuff (not to mention that I SUCK at dancing, have absolutely no rhythm so I am very self conscious). So, when I do wear a costume, I just wear it around the house and go about my business, and let him salivate lol! Obviously I can only do this on the weekends that SS is with his mom. Oh, and I would KILL dh if he laughed at me, I am so self conscious! And it would be the last time I wear a costume lol!

DH has been a good sport lately, my last luteal phase I told him we couldn’t DTD because I wanted to track the spotting, to make sure that it wasn’t due to BD or anything like that, so I basically cut him off from Jan 14-Jan 27 (when AF came) and then AF was here, so had to wait a couple days, then we BD’d a couple of times, then we went out of town so that was impossible, basically, we haven’t been on our regular routine of BD at least 3-4 times a week (which is FINE with me!) …and he hasn’t been grouchy or resentful for it, so I will reward him this weekend (and it’s O time, so it’s a win-win)!

FX that you figure out FF to track the O. Write all the stuff down until it’s working for you so that you can plug in the info eventually. Hoping the days pass by quickly for you so that DH will be back before you know it. Angel had some good ideas of passing the time with Charlotte until he’s back!

Angel,

WOW-sex 15 times this cycle! Lucky DH! Pretty darn sure you caught the egg-how could it be missed? No way those soldiers could have missed your egg lol!

I get what you say about some girls being so sensitive. I’ve seen some bump their question, when they only posted it a couple of hours before~ It’s like, people aren’t sitting around waiting to see what they can respond to. Be patient lol!


Stef,

Yes, I bought the book the other day and holy cow! There is so much info to fill out! I don’t think that I will be able to fill it out thoughtfully for Vday. I think I’ll start working on it and if I’m lucky, I’ll have it ready for part of his bday gift (June 3).

Nurse costume, huh? That’s one I def stay away from…his ex wife is a nurse, and I don’t want to go there lol! That’s ok, I have plenty already!

That's a good sign about the pain between your shoulder blades!! Sounds like your mom’s prediction is coming true!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!

I hope that Gracie is ok, and comes home soon. Rude for that man to hire someone else before finishing the interviews!! I’m sure something else will come up soon for you-either a WFH position or a position closer to your new house! When will you be moving?

Jasmine,

When are you going out of town for the hen's weekend? That should be lots of fun!

AFM,

I had blood drawn and an ultrasound done on Monday. I hope the ultrasound results are clear, the tech told me that she couldn’t ‘see’ that much, and asked if I had drank enough water?? I go back to my ob/gyn for the results on Friday afternoon. FX they tell me there’s nothing wrong, or that they can tell me what the issue is, and that whatever the problem is, it’s easily fixable. I’m starting to think that maybe the best thing for me after the mc would have been to have a d&c. We’ll see!!

So far, the name Ramelia Grace is winning..it seems to be the fav amongst our group!

It's for cervical mucus, I think it helps your body generate more cervical mucus, and to help thin it..FX!