Universa_2k - I think maybe its you're body getting back on track?! Who knows sorry it's being so crappy I had a mega heavy AF for a few days, and then BAM, gone, almost like someone turned the tap off lol!!
ThenewJZ - yippeeeeeeeeeee!!!! Hope you caught/catch that eggy!! Come on BFP!!! My AF has finished now, so we're gonna be BDing like bunnies hehehe!! I wanna be able to say at the end of this cycle 'I did all I could'.
How are feeling today love? Hoping your reiki is having a positive effect on you
I'm feeling much more positive today, think your right Kath, just my body adjusting. I feel much better today and 'think' the spotting has finally stopped I'm looking forward now. Only thing is dh just doesn't seem to be in to it atm. I'm wondering if its bcoz we are going on holiday in June and he's worried what the effect will be we were to get our bfp before? Although he wont admit it! I think maybe i'm just gonna plod along, just see what happens and maybe he'll be more into it again in a couple of months - I hope
Why do men have to be sooo confusing lol
Universa, sometimes I don´t get DH either.... I know he really wants to TTC but I get the feeling he doesn´t hear my biological clock ticking as loud as I do...I like that he is relaxed and calm (my total opposite!! LOL) but it drives me nuts!! .... anyways, I´m going to get my OPK´s soon and do all I can to get my BFP this month.
I am loving my reiki sessions!! It´s really helping me understand the big picture, you know, I´m realizing that my baby isn´t really MY baby, it´s a whole other human being that has to come on its own time...in the meantime I´m gonna be working my meditations to becomea being of peace and light (hehehe ) so my body and energy are ready to create life.... yikeees!!!!!
Kath I just waved goodbye to AF too.... time is getting closer to O, and hopefully we won´t see AF again for good nine months! yeea!!
I'm loving this positive energy ladies!! I've still had a wee bit of spotting today, so I'm thinking 2moro onwards we'll be getting down to business ;-)
My fiance really wants kids. He's decided all of a sudden that he wants a bunch lol eek!! But he's chilled. On occassions, he's like 'omg I don't get why it hasn't happened yet' then I do some explaining, and I think he gets confused. Then most of the time he's like 'we're only 24+25, we've got loads of time'. I think he thinks this will help calm me down. But I just think, 25, hmm, 5 years to 30, then 35, then 40 OMG!! And I know its dramatic and un-neccassary, but I can't help it :-/ a friend of mine spent 8yrs TTC, 3 rounds of IVF, and finally had her boy when she was 36. And I knowwww some have kids earlier, others later, but for me personally, I really feel the pressure. I think deep down, even though we weren't planning kids until about 6mths ago, I kinda assumed something would just happen. I always took the pill, I always said 'I want to plan my children, don't want accidents'. But I think deep down I'm like 'hmm, ok, I've got to 25 with no kids, we've been together 7 years, no kids...'
Ahhh I dunno, I just hope, fingers crossed that I (and yourselves) don't have to wait years for our little bundles of joy! I want us to get those BFPs, get the coming in thick and fast!! We can do it!!!!!
How you all doing? I'm good
DH seems a bit more into things again now. He said he was sorry and that he was being a grumpy git! Lol
Anyhow, i'm now on cd12 and started opking yesterday - although today, I feel like such a twit! Had held my wee for hours so I could test this afternoon, snuck a papercup up to the loo at work, and forgot to pee in it! What a wally! So who knows what will happen now, hopefully my surge hasn't happened yet if its the same as last month o'ing on cd19!
Do you ladies test at the same time each day? I find it really difficult to do that
Kath, I know what you mean of feeling the preasure of having a baby, and you are still so young!! the nice thing is that you´re already planning your family and you´ll make a wonderful young and energetic mom I am 32 and its quite uncomfortable when my MIL or my parents pop the "where are the grandkids???" comment, they have a cute intension but maaan!! when you´re trying and it just doesn´t happen is grrrr!!!! lol
Universa, I just got my OPKs, after asking everyone what brand to get I ended up getting whatever I could find in my city which were the Just Ask, I read terribe reviews though lol.... I´ll let you know if they´re any good. I´m only on CD8 but I did the test just to see what not being O looked like hehehe.... I´m going to do my best to test at the same hour next time but it is also complicated because of work... I certainly DO NOT wanto to have to pee on that little container at work!!!
I'm on cd13 and got my first solid smile on the cb digital opk. That means I'm at my peak time to conceive after prob 6 days of high. I'm trying to be optimistic but I've got this stupid cold and I think my DH thinks its more important to rest than to bd. I'm going to have to try to convince him otherwise later tonight lol. Last time we bd was cd 10 so I really want to try tonight. Wish me luck ladies. FX for you all as well!
Speaking of cold. Any thoughts on cold medicine when ttc?
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