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Old May 21st, 2013, 11:59 AM   81
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Well showed up for me this afternoon onto June and Possible Vday baby that would be neat looking forward to this cycle
Good luck ... Fingers crossed... Ive lost my positivity this week : ((
Hey Optimistic,

Chin-up darling, but I understand what you going through. Had a major break-down last night, cried and cried my heart out. I am loosing all my hope .

But somewhere deep, deep very deep inside, something tells be too look-up and keep-on, so my lovely lady, don't loose hope, its all we have and we should hold on to it.

Tears rolling down my eyes while I am writing this.

dear Ruskin, million thanks for sharing your positive attitude with us.

Long heard anything from Luvs, hope she is doing fine. Last I read she was like us bumped by the af arrival.

Take care my lovely friends, things will turn up bright for us too.

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Old May 25th, 2013, 06:20 AM   82
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Well showed up for me this afternoon onto June and Possible Vday baby that would be neat looking forward to this cycle
Good luck ... Fingers crossed... Ive lost my positivity this week : ((
Hey Optimistic,

Chin-up darling, but I understand what you going through. Had a major break-down last night, cried and cried my heart out. I am loosing all my hope .

But somewhere deep, deep very deep inside, something tells be too look-up and keep-on, so my lovely lady, don't loose hope, its all we have and we should hold on to it.

Tears rolling down my eyes while I am writing this.

dear Ruskin, million thanks for sharing your positive attitude with us.

Long heard anything from Luvs, hope she is doing fine. Last I read she was like us bumped by the af arrival.

Take care my lovely friends, things will turn up bright for us too.


Warm hugs,
Hey there sorry for late reply,not been able to get online...
Thanku for your kind words and support.
Took the period quite hard, we got our hopes up really high, so was a big fall..
I hope it'll happen soon, been a long time now ..
Live in hope....
Hope you are well, stay healthy , positive await ovulation : )))
Take care Xx



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Old May 25th, 2013, 10:13 AM   83
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Hey Optimistic,

Nice to see your reply. I have been so busy at work and the coming two weeks will also be hell busy, but whenever I get time I come to this site just for vent. I miss hearing any updates from you ladies.

Also, I got my first appointment from the fertility clinic, they will further examine me, its on 14 June.

What about you? Did you see the doc lately? how is life?

Hoping to hear from you soon and yes, keep the hope up.

take care



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Old May 25th, 2013, 11:02 AM   84
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Hey Optimistic,

Nice to see your reply. I have been so busy at work and the coming two weeks will also be hell busy, but whenever I get time I come to this site just for vent. I miss hearing any updates from you ladies.

Also, I got my first appointment from the fertility clinic, they will further examine me, its on 14 June.

What about you? Did you see the doc lately? how is life?

Hoping to hear from you soon and yes, keep the hope up.

take care
Hey there, glad to hear you are ok..
yeh getting the chance to do these things isn't it..
nothing new for me im afraid : //
fab news about your appointment, hopefully things can get moving forward for you..
are you in the uk?
Hubby and I are jut trying to get our weight down, we are under the nhs so we have to comply with the protocol with bmi etc to move on to the next stages.. : ((
I have to lose another stone, hubby got 3 st to loose before we can proceed to the next stage...
we think maybe a year before we both can realistically be at the appropriate weight unfortunately.
But in the mean time after the hsg and generally just letting nature take its course.. hey ho what can you do...
we live in hope



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For me Doc wants an SA for hubby which he agreed too if that comes out normal I will be starting clomid



 
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Hey Optimistic and Ruskin,

Nice to hear back from you ladies, hope Luvs is doing well, she hasn't been around.

Optimistic, just keep a positive attitude and things will work out naturally for you I so much hoped that after our HSG, things worked for us....but alas

I live in Sweden not UK. But I often travel to UK . In UK do they care what the man's BMI is? I mean if they do all the test and all is normal why do they bother huh? For women one can understand.

Ruskin, good luck for the test and the clomid, keep us posted. Considering that you have already been pregnant just a small medical nudge would do the trick most likely.

Will you ladies have any summer break from work? There has been so much work pressure this last month and the coming three week also looks crazy.

Take care pretty ladies and have a great sunday.
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Yeah that is what I am hoping , I am a stay at home mommy to my 13 year old who does online home school until High school our middle school here sucks and she is doing great with it . So i get to stay at home and enjoy not having to work but thats part of the reason I would like ot get pregnant and have a baby soon cause I have plans to go to school in 2015 and would like for baby to be about 1 year old so I don't miss out on all the fun stuff and i think it is important to spend the first year of a childs life at home



 
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Thats Fantastic Ruskin, you get to stay at home and take care of your teenager, it must be fun, seeing them develop into adult.

I hope things work for you as you have planned them and that you soon get to see the little one growing too in front of your eyes.

I love babies so much and I love to observe them their behaviour etc, its so fascinating and I so much want to have one of my own, but time will tell ---if I can take one home.

When is the test and the clomid starts when then?

Have a great sunday, take care



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For me Doc wants an SA for hubby which he agreed too if that comes out normal I will be starting clomid
wish you lots of luck with the clomid x x
sperm analysis is a simple thing your hubby can do with no troubles im sure.
maybe only a little assistance needed



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Hey Optimistic and Ruskin,

Nice to hear back from you ladies, hope Luvs is doing well, she hasn't been around.

Optimistic, just keep a positive attitude and things will work out naturally for you I so much hoped that after our HSG, things worked for us....but alas

I live in Sweden not UK. But I often travel to UK . In UK do they care what the man's BMI is? I mean if they do all the test and all is normal why do they bother huh? For women one can understand.

Ruskin, good luck for the test and the clomid, keep us posted. Considering that you have already been pregnant just a small medical nudge would do the trick most likely.

Will you ladies have any summer break from work? There has been so much work pressure this last month and the coming three week also looks crazy.

Take care pretty ladies and have a great sunday.
Hugs and love
Hey sunshine , hope you are well, what a beautiful part of the world you live in
Yeh its ridiculous isn't it, but im afraid that's how the protocol works with the nhs fertility, you are seen as one (you and partner), so have to both meet the guidelines they ask for you, which includes the healthy lifestyle, bmi of certain number for different intervention that's needed, for clomid it needs to be under 35, for iui and ivf needs to be under 29.
need to give up smoking and be 5 years free, tee total, and also if you have children with other people some councils will maybe give you less or nothing with iui, ivf.
guess money is tight with in the nhs, so they have to have these protocol for us to abide to with regards to fertility...
so understand your disbelief for its us both, yes unfortunately...
its a long journey ...
we plan to exhaust the treatment from nhs before going private , which ive heard many people do, as if you go private first or in between, the nhs can turn you away...
Hubby and I are off in two weeks for a week which will be a nice break, then a hard slog til oct for our florida holiday for a fortnight..
hope you are good..
back to work for me shortly .. have a good day



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