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Old Mar 19th, 2014, 18:08 PM   1111
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Yep, I'm still nursing and no plans to stop any time soon. All my blood tests came back normal. So we'll just keep on plodding on ttc not too worried about it! And would prefer not to get a bfp this month as baby would be due the same week as Christmas! X
Hi... I just tested with frer.....positive.... But im scared now. My period isnt due till saturday.... What its a chemical pg? I have NO CM. at all.... Wouldnt that mean im not producing progesterone? I dont even know what to think....except that i wish i never tested....



 
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Old Mar 20th, 2014, 17:51 PM   1112
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Hi... I just tested with frer.....positive.... But im scared now. My period isnt due till saturday.... What its a chemical pg? I have NO CM. at all.... Wouldnt that mean im not producing progesterone? I dont even know what to think....except that i wish i never tested....
Crossing my fingers that it sticks! Don't worry about the CM. Everyone is different! Some people have a ton of CM when they get pregnant, and some don't. I didn't have a whole lot right in the beginning. (it's ramped up a bit since then)

Congrats, and hang in there!



 
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Old Mar 23rd, 2014, 01:56 AM   1113
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How are you doing Layla? X congratulations!!



 
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Old Mar 23rd, 2014, 10:00 AM   1114
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Hi....still no af...but over our trip, my husband and broke up...he got his own room and everything...so now what so I do? We live in the same house but yet we have separate travel arrangements to get home...I really want thins baby...but I know I can't do it without him...I have no idea what I should do...



 
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Old Mar 23rd, 2014, 19:08 PM   1115
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Omg! What happened! Have things been rocky for a while? Or is this something you can fix?
If you asking what to do about the baby, you'll be just fine without hubby. X



 
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Old Mar 23rd, 2014, 23:59 PM   1116
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Sorry to just jump in, but as someone who has been there, done that, you can TOTALLY do it without your husband!! Good luck!



 
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Old Mar 24th, 2014, 11:08 AM   1117
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Noooooo....we always have a good time...things haven't been rocky, but he got mad at me and I snapped at him..he got embarrassed and walked away and I became more angry....and it went downhill from there...
We talked yesterday but he said the way things are, having another baby isn't a good idea...I'm trying to make an appointment with my obgyn, but I want to make sure I do whatever I can to avoid miscarriage...I had an ultrasound yesterday but they couldn't see anything...I hope I'm just too early. I'm 4 weeks and 2 days...he actually told me he wants a divorce..he said that he's a low maintenance guy and doesn't like drama or fighting and that he doesn't think we're right for each other anymore. He just doesn't want to live like that.
Maybe it's my fault...when we got married, he never bought me a ring..but he promised. I have never asked him for anything he hasn't promised me,...for my birthday he tried taking me on a hot air ballon ride back in October but they canceled cuz it was foggy, he promised to make it up to me, but never did. I told him that when he just forgets about those things it makes me feel like I'm not as important to him like he is to me. That it hurts. But he gets all mad and says that I should find someone who meets my expectations. He said he's tired if living that way...



 
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Old Mar 24th, 2014, 17:20 PM   1118
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It all sound like a bit of a mountain out of a molehill. Is he just freaking out about the baby? How long have you guys been together/married? Seems like a silly thing to divorce over?



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2014, 17:28 PM   1119
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How are you doing now sweet? X



 
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Old Mar 28th, 2014, 10:59 AM   1120
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I havent been here for a while. I hope youre well iow_bird. LaylaGirl congratulations, but I'm so sorry to hear what youre going through. Could you suggest counselling?



 
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