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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:15 PM   1661
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He's definitely withdrawling. He just blew up on me for nothing. Made my day so much worse. I hate it. I hate the stupid prescription pills his doctor decided to prescribe him. I hate that she decided to randomly take him off them. I hate all this medical BS we've been dealing with, with NO answers whatsoever.

Believe me ladies, I would not be here if he did not want a baby. We've had this conversation MULTIPLE times. Every time it goes the same way. "I really do want a baby. I just haven't been feeling good. Next time we'll try harder." etc, etc. I've told him many times that if he is not ready to just let me know. I wouldn't invest all this time and money into TTC if he didn't want it to. I think he wants to be a daddy, he just doesn't want it AS bad as I do (do they ever? I think the yearn for motherhood is so much stronger for women than men) or grasp the concept of how small of a window there is to actually create a baby.
Ugh I'm so sorry Cassidy I know how moody Kevin can get on a normal basis so I'm sure the withdrawal makes it much worse. If I were you I'd be livid at that doctor too.

I'm glad though that you at least know for sure that he really does want it. And I think you're right, they don't yearn for it the way we do and no matter how many times we explain it I don't think they'll realize how hard it is to actually get pregnant.

If you wanna get out of the house or go for a walk or something later to get your mind off of it I get off at 5 and would love to.
I agree, I don't think so either, i don't think men have that "need" that we do.

Also, totally bummed that all of us on this thread don't live closer to each other. How fun would it be to get every one together?
Would be super fun! Definitely entertaining I'm sure.



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:20 PM   1662
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Ooo on a totally and completely unrelated note, I found out yesterday that my wedding photography package also includes a free maternity or baby session! I know I work for them and I probably should have known that lol but it was an awesome surprise to me!



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:21 PM   1663
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He's definitely withdrawling. He just blew up on me for nothing. Made my day so much worse. I hate it. I hate the stupid prescription pills his doctor decided to prescribe him. I hate that she decided to randomly take him off them. I hate all this medical BS we've been dealing with, with NO answers whatsoever.

Believe me ladies, I would not be here if he did not want a baby. We've had this conversation MULTIPLE times. Every time it goes the same way. "I really do want a baby. I just haven't been feeling good. Next time we'll try harder." etc, etc. I've told him many times that if he is not ready to just let me know. I wouldn't invest all this time and money into TTC if he didn't want it to. I think he wants to be a daddy, he just doesn't want it AS bad as I do (do they ever? I think the yearn for motherhood is so much stronger for women than men) or grasp the concept of how small of a window there is to actually create a baby.
Ugh I'm so sorry Cassidy I know how moody Kevin can get on a normal basis so I'm sure the withdrawal makes it much worse. If I were you I'd be livid at that doctor too.

I'm glad though that you at least know for sure that he really does want it. And I think you're right, they don't yearn for it the way we do and no matter how many times we explain it I don't think they'll realize how hard it is to actually get pregnant.

If you wanna get out of the house or go for a walk or something later to get your mind off of it I get off at 5 and would love to.
I agree, I don't think so either, i don't think men have that "need" that we do.

Also, totally bummed that all of us on this thread don't live closer to each other. How fun would it be to get every one together?
Oh man Amanda...i so wish tht too...thts would defely b fun



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:23 PM   1664
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Ooo on a totally and completely unrelated note, I found out yesterday that my wedding photography package also includes a free maternity or baby session! I know I work for them and I probably should have known that lol but it was an awesome surprise to me!
Oooh how exciting!! I want to do both of those things next time around; wish I had before.. but hindsight is 20/20! Which are you going to do?



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:24 PM   1665
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yay ashlee! i cant WAIT to have mine done. OH is completely baffled as why people have any pictures done - engagement, maternity (i think he gets wedding pics) - but i'm like, "youll be there. the end". i want lots of naked-y ones.... *blushes*



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:24 PM   1666
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Ooo on a totally and completely unrelated note, I found out yesterday that my wedding photography package also includes a free maternity or baby session! I know I work for them and I probably should have known that lol but it was an awesome surprise to me!
whhaaattt! that's awesome!



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:26 PM   1667
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Ash- hmu when you get off work. I'd definitely like to get out of the house and away from the husband for a little while lol.

Thanks everyone for your support. I know it will happen and I know he's been feeling like crap lately which makes me feel like a bitch but I am SOOOO OVER him feeling like crap!! I just want him to be better so we can both REALLY try to make our baby Byrd.

If I want to look at any possible bright side of things (lol) we BD'd Sunday at like 1am. I'm pretty sure I've O'd already as my OPKs are already going back negative. They were very nearly positive last night around 11pm and this morning around 11am were still positive. So there's that... i've read forums of people getting BFPs after BD'ing 5 days before O.. mine is more close to 3/3.5 so here's hoping.



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:27 PM   1668
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Well, honestly I'll probably end up doing both lol. I wasn't sure about doing maternity ones before but I think I will probably want to once I'm preggo. Plus they do this really aweome reflection shot. Ill see if I can find one to link to.



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:30 PM   1669
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Ash- hmu when you get off work. I'd definitely like to get out of the house and away from the husband for a little while lol.

Thanks everyone for your support. I know it will happen and I know he's been feeling like crap lately which makes me feel like a bitch but I am SOOOO OVER him feeling like crap!! I just want him to be better so we can both REALLY try to make our baby Byrd.

If I want to look at any possible bright side of things (lol) we BD'd Sunday at like 1am. I'm pretty sure I've O'd already as my OPKs are already going back negative. They were very nearly positive last night around 11pm and this morning around 11am were still positive. So there's that... i've read forums of people getting BFPs after BD'ing 5 days before O.. mine is more close to 3/3.5 so here's hoping.
I definitely will. Also, that's not bad. At least you got one BD in the fertile window. You never know!

Here is the reflection shot I was talking about



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 16:34 PM   1670
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I want to do maternity and newborn shoots as well! I LOVE these:
http://kellyhicksdesign.com/2011/04/...rity-photos-2/



 
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