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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 07:51 AM   41
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Cookie: Yes i have been charting it on ff, pinkpad and womenlog. But i think you have to pay for vip status which i can not do until next friday. So will do it then.

Am quite worried atm hubby is doing his test as we speak. I hope he is doing well.



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 07:58 AM   42
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Fingers crossed for your hubby Mrscherbert, hope he passes (Im assuming when you say test you mean driving test, I think I remember you mentioning it before). x



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 08:57 AM   43
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I keep finding myself on websites looking at things we'd need to buy for a new baby, I have a list in my head of the things we'll need... I know I need to stop, I can't allow myself to get carried away because if it doesn't happen it will be so disappointing. Still I keep finding myself doing it without thinking. I guess could be worse, I could actually be writing lists, Im at least managing to stop myself from doing that. lol

When af arrived I felt quite relaxed and very patient...now I'm feeling impatient and want it to happen NOW!!!!!



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 10:12 AM   44
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I keep doing that cookie, i find myself on the mothercare website, i just had a cry now i literally don't think i will be able to be truly happy until i have a baby, i feel jealous of everyone who are having a baby and have had a baby, whats worse is my mam thinks i should wait until after the new year to have one, that isn't going to happen she just doesn't understand i fear i will become depressed soon, i feel all of a sudden very weak like i am not going to be able to control this need to be a mother, but i also feel selfish on her because i know i wont be able to be her carer and have a baby at the same time, i feel this is one of the factors why she wants me to wait, i just cant though x



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 10:28 AM   45
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It will happen Nat, and the good thing is you have plenty of time...there's no biological clock ticking or anything, you have time on your side. Stress will only make things worse so try and relax, I know its hard but stressing and worrying will only make ttc more difficult.

I on the other hand have a very big, very loud biological clock ticking in my ear!!!! I'm 34, even if I conceive in the next month or two I will be 35 when baby number 2 arrives, Addison will be getting on for 4 and the gap is ever increasing. And if I get to Jan and haven't conceived then I dont know if I will continue trying. I know I shouldn't put pressure on myself, but I can't help it.



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 10:44 AM   46
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But then I remember I have 1 perfect boy and I'm very very grateful, and if it turns out I'm only supposed to have 1 child then so be it, 1 is better than none.



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 12:55 PM   47
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Evening ladies,

today has been a tough day, hubby failed his driving test and then his instructor told me that he had told her he didnt want a baby. Which hurt me alot, not only because a baby is must for our marriage to survive but because it was his instructor that told me.
He says that she got the wrong end of the stick but i am not sure i believe him atm is tension is high here.

Might be out this month before its even started. I feel i need to focus on my marriage.



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 13:02 PM   48
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Oh no why would she even tell you this does she know you well enough to be talking about that? i dont think thats something he should be even talking about with her but then again i dont know the story so i shouldnt really say that.

I understand why you are hurt i would be too, i do hope your ok x



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 13:05 PM   49
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It will happen Nat, and the good thing is you have plenty of time...there's no biological clock ticking or anything, you have time on your side. Stress will only make things worse so try and relax, I know its hard but stressing and worrying will only make ttc more difficult.

I on the other hand have a very big, very loud biological clock ticking in my ear!!!! I'm 34, even if I conceive in the next month or two I will be 35 when baby number 2 arrives, Addison will be getting on for 4 and the gap is ever increasing. And if I get to Jan and haven't conceived then I dont know if I will continue trying. I know I shouldn't put pressure on myself, but I can't help it.
This is very true, why dont you want to continue trying after january, 35 is not to old to be ttc x



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 13:56 PM   50
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So i spoke to my mam i told her i am to jealous of other pregnant people and people with babys, and that when i think of having another chance soon i feel better but when i think of waiting it makes me feel really sad and that i wouldn't be happy now and with my cousin pregnant i will find that hard and she said well you might be pregnant by the time she has the baby and it wont be so hard for you, yey shes on board, i now have the problem of my CT scan the doctor cancelled it since i got my bfp and now i have to wait for another referral, hopefully this wont be to long as i really shouldn't ttc until i have had that done x



 
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