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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 15:10 PM   51
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Nat - it's natural to feel jealous etc. your lucky that you have OH and your mums support. It will definitely happen, hopefully soon, shouldn't take long with your love life ha ha!! Like cookie said your age is on your side, I'm the same at age as you and we both fell first month of trying.

Mrscherbert - I'm sorry about your OH failing. Loads of people fail on their first go. I'd be annoyed and upset and confused if I was you after what he's instructor said. It's none of her business even if he did say that. Men are so selfish at times , he knows how much you want this and what you're going through with fertility treatments etc! I hope you're ok! Have you asked him why he said that? X



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 15:12 PM   52
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Such an idiot managed to fall down stairs, tripped over one of Ellie's toys. Landed on my hands and knees but now worrying I've done some harm :/. X



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 15:22 PM   53
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You won't have done any harm, it's right in your pelvic area and well protected so don't worry about it.

Mrscherbert - why would your hubby tell his instructor that and then why would he tell you? I don't get it? Do you both know the instructor well. I don't know the situation but I imagine trying for so long is hard on both of you, perhaps it was taken out of context? X



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 16:20 PM   54
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Nat: At the end of the day i think you need to do what you think is best.

Cookie: Yes we know the instructor well, she is my father in laws best friend. Hubby says it was taken out of context. But it as been something i have had a sneaky suspicion about for a while so i am a little reluctant to believe him at the moment and there is a definate tension between us, he says that i don't believe him with words then actions will have to do but i can not even bring myself to kiss him let alone make love to him right now.

But i am sure we will get through this we have a strong marriage, surely this cant break it.

Flower: Are you ok? You really should be more careful in your delicate condition.



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 16:27 PM   55
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Such an idiot managed to fall down stairs, tripped over one of Ellie's toys. Landed on my hands and knees but now worrying I've done some harm :/. X
I hope you are ok, i dont think you will have done any damage though x



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2013, 17:00 PM   56
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Thanks everyone, im fine, just annoyed at myself, need to start slowing down I think!

Mrscherbert - sorry your going through this. I cant imagine him going through all these treatments etc if he didnt want one. He knows the joy yet challenges having a child brings as he already has one of his own, so Im sure he wouldnt agree if it wasnt what he wanted. I really feel that it wasnt the driving instuctors place to say, if he has got worries about TTC he should speak to you. How did OH respond to that conception reading? x



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 03:37 AM   57
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Flower: Hubby says we will be have to wait and see what happens, we actually dtd last night in a bid to bring the romance back and fight through the bad feeling but i still feel a bit disconnected.



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 04:27 AM   58
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Its natural to feel a bit disconnected after hearing that. Do you not think its because youve been trying for a while so he doesnt want to get his hopes up, so hes trying to take a laid back approach as though hes not fussed, just to avoid disappointment, but really he does really want one, if you get me! You never know with men, they do generally conceal their feelings more than women. Maybe you should do your romantic meal soon, maybe help get the connection/spark back. Just time for you both to enjoy each other. TTC does take the romance out of everything and can put a lot of strain on a relationship! x



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 04:32 AM   59
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I agree with Flowers previous comment, he wouldn't go through all this if he didn't want a baby. If he says he wants a baby and if after all this time is still trying I would take his word for it, and try and forget what his driving instructor said.

Well I wanted to start temping today but didn't happen because my son woke up at 4am screaming, so got up to see to him...by the time I got back to sleep it was gone 5am and I had to get up at 6am. So no temperature taking, I shall try again tomorrow.



 
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Old Aug 21st, 2013, 04:35 AM   60
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I can imagine how hard temping must be with a LO. Ellies an early riser, but it varies between 5am to 6.30am, depending on how tired she is the night before.

I know its early days to be thinking about prams, but trying to budget in advance, does Addison still use a pram Cookie. Ellie can walk, but she does nap every day so if we are out she is in her buggy. Do you reckon il need a double pram. She will be 2 years 4 months when the new baby arrives (all going well!)? x



 
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