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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 01:48 AM   21
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Hi ladies.

I'm having my first really bad day since we started TTC. I'm a pretty stoic person, so I've been handling everything fairly well so far. But I think a few things have built up on me today so I've been sitting at work all afternoon nearly in tears. And I never get teary.

It's looking like I'm just not going to ovulate this cycle, so there goes an opportunity following my HSG, and we're going back to the specialist next month. I guess the next step will be clomid, which will be a relief really, but I was hoping we wouldn't need it. We've just hit 12 months with absolutely nothing, and I just found out on the weekend that a close friend of mine is 9 weeks. I'm really happy for her of course, she'd been trying for 2.5 years and had 2 rounds of IVF, then got pregnant naturally, but it just adds up.

Anyway, pity party over



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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 05:23 AM   22
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Hi Ladies! BFP virgin here too. I'm 13dpo today , haven't been to sleep yet so I haven't tested yet today but BFN since 9dpo. My LP was 12 days last month so I figure AF should be showing her head today but really crossing my fingers that she stays away and I can finally see a BFP. Anyone else close to testing?



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 06:23 AM   23
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BFP virgin here, as well as a +OPK virgin! I haven't taken that many HPTs yet, but have done loads of OPKs now.

TTC n Hopeful- I'm testing tomorrow. I had two BFNs last week and two on this past Sunday. I'm not sure when/if I ovulated though.

MissyLissy- My OH was also adopted so completely understand! I think he's so broody (he's more broody than me) because of wanting that genetic link as well. I want us to have a baby so much because I know how amazing it will be to have this child that he loves that looks a bit like him.

Pirate-

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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 07:28 AM   24
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Hey Ladies!! BFP Virgin here as well.. TTC for a year about 4 years ago and never saw the double lines EVER! So here now I'm trying again. Lost 30lbs, got in a better and happier relationship actually, taking vitamins, gave up caffeine and have a donor thats willing to give up the baby batter more then once a month also started using OPK's. so hoping all the new positive changes will have a better impact.. This is my 2nd cycle trying and im CD8.. look forward to sharing the journey with you ladies



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 07:49 AM   25
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@Missy, I'm so sorry she got you. It just sucks. Sending massive hugs your way! I completely understand feeling like you are letting your other half down every month when AF comes.

@Palladium, sorry you're having a rough day. Massive hugs to you as well.

Welcome to Hopeful, AshNAmber, and Fezzle (are you stalking me? Wait, you are )

If you ladies don't already, I highly suggest starting a journal. It can be a good place to keep track of things and become friends with like minded people. Plus I like journal stalking. Feel free to stalk my journal (disclaimer: if you are offended by foul language and occasional crudeness, this probably isn't a journal you would be comfortable stalking).



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 07:56 AM   26
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I was your FIRST stalker. Don't you forget it!



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 08:00 AM   27
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I was your FIRST stalker. Don't you forget it!
Yes you were m'am! My first BnB friend. Awwwww!



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 08:19 AM   28
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@Missy, I'm so sorry she got you. It just sucks. Sending massive hugs your way! I completely understand feeling like you are letting your other half down every month when AF comes.

@Palladium, sorry you're having a rough day. Massive hugs to you as well.

Welcome to Hopeful, AshNAmber, and Fezzle (are you stalking me? Wait, you are )

If you ladies don't already, I highly suggest starting a journal. It can be a good place to keep track of things and become friends with like minded people. Plus I like journal stalking. Feel free to stalk my journal (disclaimer: if you are offended by foul language and occasional crudeness, this probably isn't a journal you would be comfortable stalking).
I thought about doing a journal. but when I write it would be more or less mini books and prob all off subject about whats going on with TTC lol it would start with that and end with all kind of other stuff thats going on in my life.. lol



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 08:25 AM   29
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I would say that probably 80% of my journal isn't directly related to ttc. I have revealed more on my journal than I ever thought I would.



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2013, 09:11 AM   30
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Hi *hugs* we all have days like that and they truly suck sending positive vibes your way and hoping you get your BFP soon ^_^ x

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Hi ladies.

I'm having my first really bad day since we started TTC. I'm a pretty stoic person, so I've been handling everything fairly well so far. But I think a few things have built up on me today so I've been sitting at work all afternoon nearly in tears. And I never get teary.

It's looking like I'm just not going to ovulate this cycle, so there goes an opportunity following my HSG, and we're going back to the specialist next month. I guess the next step will be clomid, which will be a relief really, but I was hoping we wouldn't need it. We've just hit 12 months with absolutely nothing, and I just found out on the weekend that a close friend of mine is 9 weeks. I'm really happy for her of course, she'd been trying for 2.5 years and had 2 rounds of IVF, then got pregnant naturally, but it just adds up.

Anyway, pity party over



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