Hi Ladies - I'm coming back to you all. I had my D&C last Friday, so it's been a week. I've been stalking the last few days, but certainly am not caught up on what's up for everyone. I haven't had my post op appointment yet. Hopefully that will be next week. I'll talk to my doctor then about when we can TTC again. We'll probably wait until after my first AF as DH is nervous about trying before leading to another miscarriage. I dare say this whole process was as hard (harder?) on him that it has been on me, despite it being pretty awful for me. Hoping to get back on the TTC train soon. I've felt a little lost lately, so I'm happy to have a place to come back to.
Most of all, Sis. Huge Such an awful thing. No words really. Re: the D&C cost, I looked into some ways to encourage a miscarriage as I was hoping to have it naturally. No luck for me (but I only tried for a week), but let me know if you're interested.
Thanks Radkat I think we will just move forward W the DC since its been 20 days or so since the baby stopped growing and I'm only getting mild cramping now and then Plus they will be doing a lot of testing!!
I spoke to the lady at he Hospital and she explained that my Dr ordered a Ton of test so that is why the cost is higher and DH is good w that as we BOTH want answers!!
Sis, i dont blame you for wanting all those tests, I would be the exact same way. I hope you get some answers. I know this is hard and you are hurting so much mentally and emotionally. My thoughts are with you, Hun. I'm glad you don't have to wait two weeks also. We'll all be with you in spirit.
Radkat, great to see you back! I wondered about starting to try again right after my CP, but since it was so early (not even five weeks), we went for it. At first my Dr said to wait a month, but then he said he didnt think it was that big of a deal to go ahead and start. But he wouldn't let me take the clomid for sure until after I had a real AF.
felcity, i know the feeling... my best friend where I grew up (she still lives there) has a ten-month old baby. She's my age and started trying a few months before me. She became prego in THREE months! And she just found out she's prego again, while breast feeding. I'm glad she had to tell me over the phone, because even though I'm super happy for her (I really do love her like a sister!), I did start crying, and i had to hide it from her.
Oh Moni, good luck, good luck!! Can't wait for an update!! Also, interesting to hear that you did the trigger the day after the Clomid... did you have your LH surge during that time? I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who seemed to jump start right after the clomid. I dont do the trigger, but O is the only way to explain the temps, as far as I know!
Hi to Katie, Fezzle, kfs, Wish, Vjean, Solstyce, Atty, Oldermom, Smiles, Garfie, Blueshoney, TERRI (thought maybe we'd hear from her today, hehe!), and if I missed anyone, it doesnt mean I've forgotten you... I'm just scatter-brained lately with the way my job is going. So, Hi to all!
I'm back from the beautiful Bahamas. I was only able to lay out on the beach/pool one day. I was feeling so sick from Tuesday on, and still don't feel 100%. I can't keep anything down. I even yakked on Tuesday evening. So disgusting. Today I ate the most I could-3 small pieces of calamari, two mini croissants, a bite of a plain hamburger, and a couple cranberry/sprites. I think I've lost a few pounds, and my stomach and colon are completely empty...TMI? HA!!HA!! Blah....I'll catch up now. Hubs and I still took advantage of my fertile window. I just need to get better fast!
SIS-NO!!!! Huge to you. I am so sorry. So you know I'm feeling sick, right? I wanted to run to the bathroom immediately when I read your news, but then I thought it wasn't true. I am now feeling sick to my stomach again. You've been through so much, you don't deserve this at all. I am glad that you can get your procedure done on Tuesday. That is a good thing. I can't imagine the pain of having to go through this without the smallest idea of anything going wrong. We you, and you and your family are all in our prayers. Oh, and there is nothing that you could have done differently. There's a reason for everything, it'll just take a few weeks/months to realize what your future blessing is all about.
I missed you guys too, big time. Glad to hear that everyone is doing fairly well...moni-Good luck to you tomorrow.
The March testing thread is not going well. I thought I'd have at least one BFP to come home to, so moni, I'll close my eyes until tomorrow morning. :wink wink: AF showed up for everyone so far. It's depressing.
Radkat-Welcome back. You were missed. I hope your doctor gives you the A-ok pretty soon too, but I'm sure it's all nerve wrecking.
I'm going to try to watch some basketball, and chill out. Hi and hugs to all. Oh and Roxy got adopted last Sunday to a family with another dog and some kids. I'm so happy for her. I miss her, though.
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