Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old May 5th, 2017, 23:56 PM   2531
drjo718
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Aug 2014
Location: Iowa, USA
Posts: 1,027
Iread, I empathize with you on the house! My husband just accepted a job 2.5 hours from where we live, and he starts may 23, so we have to move FAST. We found a house we liked and made an offer, but after negotiations, we learned today they're requiring our current house to be pending sale by may 20 for the contract to go thru. So, we have to scramble and we met with a realtor and our house is going on the market in the morning! We have soooooo much to do to make it show-ready, and it's extra challenging with a very active 1 year old.

Everyone keep everything crossed for me please! We really need our house to sell fast and to get this other house!!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 7th, 2017, 01:58 AM   2532
swimmyj1
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Michigan, USA
Posts: 1,658
All of these exciting house things going on!!!

Irym - your new house sounds beautiful I would really love for our next house to have 10+ acres on it. And a stream would be perfect! I'm sorry all the cleaning and having to get the house together so fast to sell is hurting you. I don't blame you for being totally beat!!!

Krissie - can't wait to see how this cycle goes after the ring comes out. Do you have a time line in mind for how long you want to try for a second before deciding to officially stop or is it kind of just see how it goes?

Drjo - good to hear from you! That will be a very fast move! Idk how you can even try and keep your house tidy with a ONE year old lol. My house is a reck and I just pick up all the toys at the end of the day haha. Hopefully it won't take long for your house to sell. I never realized how hard it is to get a mortgage on one house while selling your previous home.

Afm - I made an appointment with my doctor for June to talk about the fertility Meds. She called in a script for metformin but won't do the clomid/progesterone before talking with me first. Makes sense. I keep having doubts about trying so aggressively so fast but then will flip flop and justify it. Probably doesn't help I'm so sleep deprived. I worked 13 hours yesterday night came home took care of lizzy all day (she took about an hour nap) then back to work for another 13 hour. Thank goodness my dh doesn't work until 4pm today because I plan on sleeping like the dead. My temp was way up yesterday but I think it's because I didn't sleep very long. Do you think I should delete it? Also sorry if the spelling is bad on this entry I'm doing it on my phone while on break tonight lol.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 7th, 2017, 17:42 PM   2533
ireadyermind
Pregnant (Expecting)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Dec 2014
Location: California, USA
Posts: 1,176
DrJo - Good luck! I hope the house sells quickly!

We just accepted an offer on ours today, so here's hoping it all works out!

Swimmy - Holy moly, you ARE sleep deprived! I don't know how you do it, I'd be absolutely useless after a string of days like that.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 7th, 2017, 18:06 PM   2534
krissie328
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Idaho
Posts: 8,316
Swimmy- I hope you were able you get some sleep.

No, we don't have any timeline. We are back in ttc limbo. We've had some extensive conversations lately and I think we are leaning more to not ttc at all. There are so many reasons buy logically we both agree one is probably better for us at this point.

Irym- that is awesome you have an accepted offer. Fx everything works out smoothly.



 
Status: Online
 
Old May 7th, 2017, 21:06 PM   2535
swimmyj1
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Michigan, USA
Posts: 1,658
I slept like the dead hahaha it was soooo nice!!!

Irym - congrats on the offer!!! Hopefully it all goes smooth!!

krissie - It's good that you both seem to be on the same page with ttc. But I'm sure that wasn't an easy decision to come to.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 8th, 2017, 00:43 AM   2536
krissie328
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Idaho
Posts: 8,316
Swimmy- that's great. Sounds like you needed it.

It was a very difficult decision. We've been talking about it about 6 months now. But really seemed ask the important questions on Saturday. I think that it helped too that I called dh out on being so wishy washy about it. I think he just wants me to be happy and would do whatever that meant. However, he has now said he believes we'd be better off with one and I agree with the reasoning he has.



 
Status: Online
 
Old May 11th, 2017, 01:02 AM   2537
swimmyj1
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Michigan, USA
Posts: 1,658
It's nice that he was trying to be nice but you are right communication is key.

AFM - i started metformin today i forgot how much this stuff messed with my stomach yuck. I was hoping with decreasing nursing ovulation would come a little sooner but it doesn't look like that's gonna happen. maybe by next cycle it will.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 19th, 2017, 07:35 AM   2538
swimmyj1
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Michigan, USA
Posts: 1,658
Has anyone ever had + opks but no temp spike? I'm assuming this means I didn't really ovulate



 
Status: Offline
 
Old May 19th, 2017, 09:32 AM   2539
krissie328
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Idaho
Posts: 8,316
Quote:
Originally Posted by swimmyj1 View Post
Has anyone ever had + opks but no temp spike? I'm assuming this means I didn't really ovulate
I have on several occasions. With those I keep monitoring and I have found I ovulated later. One cycle I had three positive opks with the third time being the one with the temp shift.



 
Status: Online
 
Old May 20th, 2017, 03:20 AM   2540
swimmyj1
Mum (Mom)
Chat Happy BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Michigan, USA
Posts: 1,658
oh darn guess that means i have too keep peeing on a stick lol.

Today out of no where my DH told me that if we aren't pregnant with baby #2 by the time lizzy is 3 he doesn't want a second. Or if we have another mc again we didn't really get to talk about it before i had to leave for work but i was kind of shocked by the mc comment. I feel like now if i by some miracle i get pregnant again i wouldn't want to tell him encase it didn't go well ....



 
Status: Offline
 

SEO by vBSEO