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Old Aug 19th, 2015, 05:29 AM   1
blackclayrose
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(VENT) I didn't really need this not today :'( ...


My Partners Ex has asked for more money on top of child support.*
We usually just give in to keep the peace. But we have just gone through our first IVF cycle and money is tight till we can save again. So OH told her no.
She spat the dummy and told him that he shouldn't have any more children because he doesn't know how much they cost.

But the biggest kick in the teeth - After trying for 4 years, I had a D&C this morning to remove our dead 7week old baby (She knew we were having IVF but not the baby or D&C).

I have been so positive (yay! :-) we can get pregnant). I thought I was going really, but am typing this in tears and I am absolutely devastated.

I just don't understand why some people are so rude and cruel.

So we shouldn't have kids because we can't bend over backwards whenever she wants?!!

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Old Aug 19th, 2015, 11:21 AM   2
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So sorry about your loss, as well as the EX! Your right you don't need this right now! Hugs & prayers sent............



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2015, 06:42 AM   3
blackclayrose
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Thank you Cupcakestoy.

I am feeling better today. She just has great timing and pushed the right button.
It has only made us more determined to create our own perfect family. We will not give up :-)



 
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Old Aug 20th, 2015, 10:37 AM   4
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Good for you! Take time to love yourself & heal, then move on with your plan



 
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