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Old Jul 4th, 2017, 10:49 AM   21
lucy_smith
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Can I join you ladies ?
I've been ttc number 2 since Oct/Nov 2015 just a couple of months after dd was born. She took best part of 2 years to conceive .

And here I am ! Trying everything in the book!

I'm finding it harder this time round, I'm not just hoping for a baby of my own again, but a friend/ sibling for life for my dd! She loves baby's, she always wants cuddles and won't leave them alone! Which then brings tears in my eyes!

Dr told me I will fall pregnant and that I basically should appreciate what I had as she sees people all the time who are struggling and don't have any children!
I also feel people don't take me seriously as I'm 25 ! And that people have no issues on there 20's and I have loads of fertile years left!



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Old Sep 19th, 2017, 19:58 PM   22
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How are you ladies doing? I'm waiting on AF post miscarriage so we can try for our rainbow baby. Hope all is as well as can be!



 
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Old Sep 20th, 2017, 14:25 PM   23
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Hi amber, I'm so sorry for your loss. Really rooting for you and your rainbow baby.

Ive been having investigations done, turns out I have a bicornuate uterus and a hormone imbalance so waiting to hear how to get that under control.



 
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Old Sep 20th, 2017, 14:56 PM   24
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Hi amber, I'm so sorry for your loss. Really rooting for you and your rainbow baby.

Ive been having investigations done, turns out I have a bicornuate uterus and a hormone imbalance so waiting to hear how to get that under control.
Thank you!
Sorry to hear that but hope you will get some answers!
I don't know much about bicornuate uterus, it must be something that developed later as you didn't have it with your DS?



 
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Old Sep 20th, 2017, 17:09 PM   25
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No, apparently I would have been born with it but it wasn't picked up on with my ds. So strange they missed it!



 
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Old Sep 21st, 2017, 17:12 PM   26
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Wow, that is strange they didn't pick it up before. Hope you are able to get the hormone imbalance straightened out soon!



 
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Old Sep 21st, 2017, 19:12 PM   27
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I totally hear where you all are coming from.

I am 39 turning 40 in a couple months and I have two wonderful children from a previous marriage, but me and now husband wanted to bring the family together with a new little buddle of joy. We had been trying for 12 years, yes we did after the 1st year go and find out what the issue was since we new I could have children. I ended being fine but he wasn't, but we still had some hope. The DR. told us the chances were very low but not impossible it could happen we just had to keep trying.

We tried everything that we could think of aside from going to a fertility clinic. We said that we would keep trying until i turned 40.....well that is around the corner. We spoke about it just a few months back and decided that since it hasn't happened it probably won't so we stopped trying.

I have always been regular give or take a day or two at most. I have had my heart broken more times than I can count month after month. Well right now I am 21/dpo and 8 days late with every pregnancy symptom you can think of. Emotions have been totally crazy the last few days, good and bad. I finally broke down and got hpt last night and I took it this morning and it came out negative

I have been reading so many posts that do give me hope that maybe I still could be??? There are for sure no signs of AF at all. I will try and test again in a few days if AF has not shown her ugly face.

I just don't think I can handle it being negative again, and I have to say that i am very happy that i found this thread to know i am not alone in any of this.



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Old Sep 21st, 2017, 19:27 PM   28
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How are you ladies doing? I'm waiting on AF post miscarriage so we can try for our rainbow baby. Hope all is as well as can be!
Hi Amber, I am so sorry to hear, I have been there myself and its not easy.

Hugs,

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Old Sep 21st, 2017, 21:17 PM   29
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How are you ladies doing? I'm waiting on AF post miscarriage so we can try for our rainbow baby. Hope all is as well as can be!
Hi Amber, I am so sorry to hear, I have been there myself and its not easy.

Hugs,

Lennie
Thank you for your kind words. I sure hope you get a BFP soon!!



 
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Old Sep 22nd, 2017, 16:30 PM   30
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How are you ladies doing? I'm waiting on AF post miscarriage so we can try for our rainbow baby. Hope all is as well as can be!
Hi Amber, I am so sorry to hear, I have been there myself and its not easy.

Hugs,

Lennie
Thank you for your kind words. I sure hope you get a BFP soon!!

Thank You Amber



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