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Old Mar 2nd, 2013, 21:28 PM   4271
Bobby101
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Hi guys, I am new to this site. Well when I say new I have actually been stalking this thread since my partner had his VR in July 2012!

I am 30 & my partner is 45 he has 2 teenage children from previous relationship. About 12/13 years ago he has his V! We were full of disappointment to be told our chances are very slim but we had to go ahead with it anyway, as if u dont try u will never know!! I am please to say I have had 2 faint BFP in the last 2 days. 12DPO & 13DPO! I honestly can't believe it so keep wanting to POAS just to check!

I had hangover symptoms since 9DPO & yesterday I was so poorly I knew something was up so I did a test & it was BFP! My partner is still convinced I just have a virus but that's 2 test & 2 BFP!



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Old Mar 3rd, 2013, 04:08 AM   4272
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Hi I'm new and would love to join you girls, I'm 32 hubby is 32 and we have been together 17 years, we have 4 beautiful children together.
When I was pregnant with my last hubby had a vasectomy, but soon after we regretted it.
We always said we would get it reversed if we had the money.
Anyway that time came and hubby had a VR Wednesday just gone, by Duncan Harris at BMI Nottingham.
The op went ok and Dr Harris was happy with how it went and said after 2 weeks "to just get on it" lol.
Hubby is still swollen and bruised but it is reducing day by day.



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Old Mar 3rd, 2013, 11:19 AM   4273
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Hi ladies Some may remember my journey others may be new.. Just wanted to give all you lovely ladies hope and say my DH had the vas rev 3/4 yrs after original snip (just before we met) i had 2 children from previous and he had 3 from previous but i longed for us to have a child together,
Any way Oct 2010 he had his op at the Spire in worcester uk and 9 weeks later i was pregnant with Our Son Ashton who is now 17mth (almost 18mths)

Never give up hope!!

One day it will happen.



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Old Mar 8th, 2013, 14:43 PM   4274
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I was wondering what the recovery was like after VR?
My hubby is at 9 days after VR, he still has a little pain (not much mostly when getting up from sitting) and most of the brusing has gone, but his right side is still swollen and quite high up, his left is back to normol.
Just wondering what other hubby's/partners experience if recovery was?



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Old Mar 10th, 2013, 06:07 AM   4275
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update!


Hello ladies,
It has been a while since I posted and thought I would give any update. For those of you that don't know my story, here is a brief summary. Hubby had 2 kids with ex and decided he would have a V. 4 years later, I came in the picture, never being a Mommy before, I wanted to have that experience. So, 6 years post V... he had the reversal.. without anesthesia at a cheap doc in the box in Oklahoma for $1500... who was INCREDIBLE (Dr. WIlson)! That was March 7th of 2011. Sept 2012 I was diagnosed with Non-hodgkins lymphoma. dec 2011 began treatments. Jan 2013 BFP, miscarried at 6 weeks. Told in March I needed different cancer treatments that would be harmful to my fertility. oncologist set up an appt for IVF consult the following week. that Thursday morning, I took a test at about 4 am, (gotta have that first morning urine! :P) and it was negative. well, so I thought... I looked really hard at that test a couple of hours later and saw what almost looked like a line, with one eye squinted in the sunlight. stared at that test, all the way to to the infertility specialists office. made arrangements to begin IVF that month. got home, took another test, just to see if anything would show up. IT DID! March 2013, another BFP!!! i took tests everyday for 19 days straight to watch that line get darker and darker. (thanks to early-pregnancy-test.net for the cheap tests that worked great) I waited for treatments. Had my baby girl 4 weeks early (she was absolutely PERFECT), to test for growth of cancer, and luckily my immune system suppressed growth during my entire pregnancy. I got to breast fed for 4 months, stored up as much milk as I could, and started treatments last Monday. Kizely Eleizabeth Jo is my little inspiration and such a miracle baby. God is so good! I will have treatments through June and we will start trying again for another baby at the beginning of next year!



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Old Mar 15th, 2013, 18:23 PM   4276
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New here! Would love to support others and be supported!


Hello everyone! I am new to this board but happy to have found you all. I am 32 and DH is 41. He has two children from a previous marriage, and we have two children together. We've been together for 11 yrs, married for 7 1/2. He had a V after our daughter was born in August 2009 but we decided we were not done with our family yet and he had it reversed February 25. His doctor asked us to wait 3 wks to BD but we waited 2 wks and 2 days since I knew I was about to ovulate (I get mittelschmiertz pain both before and after I ovulate and lots of EWCM and confirmed with OPKs). I'm only 1 DPO but wondering if it's possible to get a BFP on the first cycle of trying. I would love to read others' stories and get more insight into the TTC after VR adventure!! BTW the doctor said after the surgery that he saw a lot of sperm on the left side but fewer on the right, and that the fluid was mostly clear but slightly cloudy.



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Old Mar 22nd, 2013, 13:59 PM   4277
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Abby. It is absolutely possible... if I we're you (if you live in usa) visit early-pregnancy-tests.net and order a crap ton of cheap pregnancy tests. It is worth it! You can start testing at 9 dpo and not feel guilty cuz u are spending a ton of money (they are only like $.20 a test if I remember right) THEN after you get your bfp you can test daily and watch line get darker with remaining tests! I did this with all of my remaining tests (19 days worth!) You can also order a home semen analysis kit here. Took some convincing for my husband... but it is one of the best memories we have... focusing that tiny microscope it comes with and seeing all of that life and that the VR worked!) His lab semen analysis were spot on with my home results a month later! We were too anxious to wait and it was more than worth the cost! Also, buy hpt's in bulk! If you end up not needing them all... a ttc friend will crap herself with a gift like that... everyone loves my ttc kits with cheap opt and hpts!!!! hang in there. Try not to get discouraged! (We could only wait 2 weeks too!)



 
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Old Mar 28th, 2013, 15:05 PM   4278
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Ttcpostvr, I can't believe you had your baby she's beautiful. It feels like it was just yesterday when you got pregnant. Congratulations!

I wish you the best ladies. I found a lot of support from this thread.



 
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Old Mar 29th, 2013, 07:02 AM   4279
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Congrats on the birth of your baby girl TTC!! She is gorgeous!! I am so glad to hear that you and your baby girl are doing so well!!








 
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Old Mar 30th, 2013, 10:20 AM   4280
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Im back!!! TTC No. 2 after VR! :-)


Hello lovely ladies!!

How are you all doing?

For those who dont know me, i started this group a few years ago when I was TTC my 1st. my hubby had his vasectomy reversal 8 years after his original vasectomy. the. Went well but the 3m SA test wasn't good news. He only had 1million/per ml and only 4% of that 1million were swimming. I refused to let it get us down and kelt telling myself that 4% of 1million was LOADS considering that it only takes one...what I didn't know was that I was already pregnant when i got those results so it had taken us less than 3months!

My beautiful Emily is 18months now (where has that gone!?) and i am off my pill. We are NTNP but because I got so tuned into my body with knowing what Ov signs to look for etc, i know exactly when im ovulating etc so there'll be no surprise if i was to fall pregnant again. So this is officially my 1st month trying and i am somewhere in the 2WW, about 5dpo but cant be too sure as i didnt temp, went solely off my CM and Ov pains.

Im so pleased to see so many of you still using this thread, im so pleased its continued to provide help and support to many others! :flowers: xxxxxx



 
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