The Vasectomy Reversal Wives & Girlfriends Club. aka (VR WAGs) - Page 6

mrsessex · Nov 15th, 2010, 10:27 AM

lmao @ dew drops

ohhh awful that you couldnt get your freak on

Well im 6DPO so no point even

at the moment as they'd be no eggy

how bad is that??!!! I'd rather hide under the duvet later and sleep than

Yes 24 hr thing but been like it since Yesterday morning!! eeeeek! wish it'd go!!!! BOOOO HISSSS

Yes good morning this morning

live_in_hope · Nov 15th, 2010, 10:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrsessex

lmao @ dew drops

ohhh awful that you couldnt get your freak on

Well im 6DPO so no point even

at the moment as they'd be no eggy

how bad is that??!!! I'd rather hide under the duvet later and sleep than

Yes 24 hr thing but been like it since Yesterday morning!! eeeeek! wish it'd go!!!! BOOOO HISSSS

Yes good morning this morning

awww, not it's not awful at all, especially if you're feeling rough!! I think I actually scared my DH off abit as I am really wanting you know

like constantly everyday and he's like 'woah' lol and I dont want him to feel pressured as it may not work properly if I do lol xx

MRSRICHRS2K · Nov 15th, 2010, 14:08 PM

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Originally Posted by live_in_hope

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrsessex

lmao @ dew drops

ohhh awful that you couldnt get your freak on

Well im 6DPO so no point even

at the moment as they'd be no eggy

how bad is that??!!! I'd rather hide under the duvet later and sleep than

Yes 24 hr thing but been like it since Yesterday morning!! eeeeek! wish it'd go!!!! BOOOO HISSSS

Yes good morning this morning

awww, not it's not awful at all, especially if you're feeling rough!! I think I actually scared my DH off abit as I am really wanting you know

like constantly everyday and he's like 'woah' lol and I dont want him to feel pressured as it may not work properly if I do lol xx

lol @ V thats me atm in the red too

!! he calls it practise lmao x

dew drop nose is also here

* cough splutter* im taking multi vits and feeling worse than i ever have done before

hopefully be gone soon, kids have caught it now too

x

SeeJay · Nov 15th, 2010, 14:56 PM

sorry to hear about your BFN, i can understand your frustration, but I admire you strength in all of this, it seems we can all learn something from you as because most of us on here are new TTCers after VR and we haven't experienced the things you have, so please do stay with us on here, we would all like to share your journey and we will all keep everything crossed for you in hope that you get your BFP pretty soon!!

Thanks! If anyone should have some trouble after reversal (they say give it a year or so), you should ask your doc about those pesky antibodies. The urologist that did the reversal never mentioned this could happen. The doc said that having antibodies was like "trying to walk through a door with your arms outstretched" he also said it's actually fairly common after reversal, though I actually think it happens when they do the actual vasectomy. It can happen to guys who have had injury down there too. Any time their blood comes in contact with their sperm.

I'm feeling less pessimistic today, as soon as AF arrives (grrrr), I'll get to start over again!! At least this time I know what to expect with the IUI and won't be so nervous!

seoj · Nov 15th, 2010, 15:14 PM

My hubby had his first VR back in Oct 2009... then a second one June of this year. The first didn't work- so we gave it another try! And yay he has super swimmers this time! lol. Such a relief

His VR was after almost 12 yrs!!!! So very long compared to some of you ladies... I'm 36 (almost 37) and my hubby just turned 37. This will be his 2nd child (we have his daughter full time from previous marriage and she's 13)... but our first together and I'm SO SO super excited to start that journey together! He's just the best!!!

Luck and baby dust to you all!

MRSRICHRS2K · Nov 15th, 2010, 15:45 PM

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Originally Posted by SeeJay

sorry to hear about your BFN, i can understand your frustration, but I admire you strength in all of this, it seems we can all learn something from you as because most of us on here are new TTCers after VR and we haven't experienced the things you have, so please do stay with us on here, we would all like to share your journey and we will all keep everything crossed for you in hope that you get your BFP pretty soon!!

Thanks! If anyone should have some trouble after reversal (they say give it a year or so), you should ask your doc about those pesky antibodies. The urologist that did the reversal never mentioned this could happen. The doc said that having antibodies was like "trying to walk through a door with your arms outstretched" he also said it's actually fairly common after reversal, though I actually think it happens when they do the actual vasectomy. It can happen to guys who have had injury down there too. Any time their blood comes in contact with their sperm.

I'm feeling less pessimistic today, as soon as AF arrives (grrrr), I'll get to start over again!! At least this time I know what to expect with the IUI and won't be so nervous!

Is there nothing they can do for anti bodies then ?

mrsessex · Nov 15th, 2010, 15:57 PM

There is no cure for antibodies as from what I've read

Not fair is it

SeeJay · Nov 15th, 2010, 17:52 PM

Nope, no cure from my understanding. Not all of them (the spermies) are affected. About 40% of his are and his count when we did IUI was 81 million. They took them and spun them down so that the ones without impairment (antibodies) were what was left and they put them in. I figure there was at least 20 mil good little swimmers in there. My DH started taking L Carnatine and grape seed extract to increase his count a few weeks before the IUI. We really think those vitamins helped, his last count was 41 million, both tests were done with 4 days of abstaining. He had also been exercising some. If IUI doesn't work, they can take one of his healthy ones and inject it into my egg (IVF ICSI) and place them in there, but we are already so many $$$ in now, I hate to spend 15 grand a pop on IVF, with no guarantee. He seemed to think we should be able to conceive with IUI.

MRSRICHRS2K · Nov 15th, 2010, 18:04 PM

your right it is not fair

wishing you loads of luck &

xx

MRSRICHRS2K · Nov 16th, 2010, 11:38 AM

Hey ladies...

How is everyone today? I still have this blumming cold!

Nov 15th, 2010, 10:27 AM	#51
mrsessex On a break (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 2,215	lmao @ dew drops ohhh awful that you couldnt get your freak on Well im 6DPO so no point even at the moment as they'd be no eggy how bad is that??!!! I'd rather hide under the duvet later and sleep than Yes 24 hr thing but been like it since Yesterday morning!! eeeeek! wish it'd go!!!! BOOOO HISSSS Yes good morning this morning

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Nov 15th, 2010, 14:56 PM	#54
SeeJay Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: US Posts: 38	sorry to hear about your BFN, i can understand your frustration, but I admire you strength in all of this, it seems we can all learn something from you as because most of us on here are new TTCers after VR and we haven't experienced the things you have, so please do stay with us on here, we would all like to share your journey and we will all keep everything crossed for you in hope that you get your BFP pretty soon!! Thanks! If anyone should have some trouble after reversal (they say give it a year or so), you should ask your doc about those pesky antibodies. The urologist that did the reversal never mentioned this could happen. The doc said that having antibodies was like "trying to walk through a door with your arms outstretched" he also said it's actually fairly common after reversal, though I actually think it happens when they do the actual vasectomy. It can happen to guys who have had injury down there too. Any time their blood comes in contact with their sperm. I'm feeling less pessimistic today, as soon as AF arrives (grrrr), I'll get to start over again!! At least this time I know what to expect with the IUI and won't be so nervous!

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Nov 15th, 2010, 15:14 PM	#55
seoj Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 8,679	My hubby had his first VR back in Oct 2009... then a second one June of this year. The first didn't work- so we gave it another try! And yay he has super swimmers this time! lol. Such a relief His VR was after almost 12 yrs!!!! So very long compared to some of you ladies... I'm 36 (almost 37) and my hubby just turned 37. This will be his 2nd child (we have his daughter full time from previous marriage and she's 13)... but our first together and I'm SO SO super excited to start that journey together! He's just the best!!! Luck and baby dust to you all!

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Nov 15th, 2010, 15:57 PM	#57
mrsessex On a break (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 2,215	There is no cure for antibodies as from what I've read Not fair is it

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Nov 15th, 2010, 17:52 PM	#58
SeeJay Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: US Posts: 38	Nope, no cure from my understanding. Not all of them (the spermies) are affected. About 40% of his are and his count when we did IUI was 81 million. They took them and spun them down so that the ones without impairment (antibodies) were what was left and they put them in. I figure there was at least 20 mil good little swimmers in there. My DH started taking L Carnatine and grape seed extract to increase his count a few weeks before the IUI. We really think those vitamins helped, his last count was 41 million, both tests were done with 4 days of abstaining. He had also been exercising some. If IUI doesn't work, they can take one of his healthy ones and inject it into my egg (IVF ICSI) and place them in there, but we are already so many $$$ in now, I hate to spend 15 grand a pop on IVF, with no guarantee. He seemed to think we should be able to conceive with IUI.

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Nov 15th, 2010, 18:04 PM	#59
MRSRICHRS2K Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: MIDLANDS Posts: 1,751	your right it is not fair wishing you loads of luck & xx

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Nov 16th, 2010, 11:38 AM	#60
MRSRICHRS2K Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: MIDLANDS Posts: 1,751	Hey ladies... How is everyone today? I still have this blumming cold!

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