Anyone TTC#2 and wanting to chat - Page 4

ncmommy · Nov 30th, 2010, 10:21 AM

Well, I am sure people assume we are....most people know about our first loss but not about the others. Since my trouble I have learned to NEVER ask people with none or one child if they are TTC. I know how much it hurts everytime I am at the park or at DD's preschool and others mom say...you only have one.....do you want more....are you trying.

tinkerbelle2 · Nov 30th, 2010, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Sambles

The only person I have told is my best friend because I don't want people to keep asking if I've had any luck yet. I know they will mean well but I think it would just add more pressure and get on my nerves

Yes, I can understand this! We have been asked but we just shy away from the question and change the subject! I feel like I would be letting parents down, if say 6 or 7 months down the line nothing had happened!!

doctordeesmrs · Nov 30th, 2010, 11:07 AM

No we haven't told anybody yet. They'll know when something happens. Don't think i could cope with the questions every month if things didn't go to plan.

x-TyMa-x · Nov 30th, 2010, 11:10 AM

This is how i feel too, people asking questions etc would do my head in too, so for now i think it will be kept between Me, OH & The Lovely ppl on bnb

doctordeesmrs · Nov 30th, 2010, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Mummy2Tylerxx

This is how i feel too, people asking questions etc would do my head in too, so for now i think it will be kept between Me, OH & The Lovely ppl on bnb

Yes i don't mind the ones here asking me questions

they are the ones that keep me sane.

x-TyMa-x · Nov 30th, 2010, 11:21 AM

HaHa Same!! Thankgod For bnb Or The World Would Be Full Of Loopy Ladies!!

lol

sjbno1 · Nov 30th, 2010, 12:59 PM

evening ladies - omg what a day I have had! got well and truly stuck today! a 20min journey took 4hrs!! but i'm pleased to say Izzie was fab

and didnt cry once

good 'ol snow!

Anyway this thread has been busy whilst i've been gone

glad to see theres some more girls ttc #2

nc mommy - what symtoms have you got

I have no idea what CD I am - must chart it when i next get AF

lol

The only people who know we're ttc are my buddy Jo who was my TTC buddy & bump buddy (crazily our babies are aged 4 weeks apart) from when I had Izzie - we're used to talking to each other about this stuff

so its quite nice

to be able to talk to someone - I've mentioned to my mum about another but just a mention lol not told her we're ttc

I'm quite excited about getting pregnant this time

as last time we was so excited we told as soon as we know (silly but after 11months ttc we had to tell someone lol) but Sams mum told everyone so this time i'm not telling anyone till we've had the 12week scan

a real surprise

haha just gabbling on - i'll shut up now

welcome to the thread everyone

x-TyMa-x · Nov 30th, 2010, 13:16 PM

I was the exact same, with my 1st pregnancy i told alot of people as soon as i found out.....(5weeks!!) ....This time round if i get my i will also be waiting till after the scan.....if i can! lol
Its really hard to keep quiet tho, when your soo excited you just want everyone else to know your great news!!!

Sambles · Nov 30th, 2010, 13:20 PM

With my first I only told family and close friends and will probably do the same next time because I'm just rubbish at keeping secrets lol

sjbno1 · Nov 30th, 2010, 13:40 PM

lol MTT

I was the same just so over excited LOL Although I did refrain from telling anyone at work LOL

Sambles - my MIL is the one who cant keep a secret LOL

Well OH is home - took him 3hrs in this snow! DOH!!

Hows the snow where you all are?

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doctordeesmrs BnB Elite Mummy to a Beautiful Boy Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: N.Ireland Country: Posts: 11,201 Thanked others: 1,125 Thanked 3,814 times in 3,763 posts Currently Feeling:	No we haven't told anybody yet. They'll know when something happens. Don't think i could cope with the questions every month if things didn't go to plan. __________________
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sjbno1 BnB Addict Sarah - mummy & TTC#2 Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Orpington, Kent Country: Posts: 6,046 Thanked others: 544 Thanked 1,620 times in 1,563 posts Currently Feeling:	evening ladies - omg what a day I have had! got well and truly stuck today! a 20min journey took 4hrs!! but i'm pleased to say Izzie was fab and didnt cry once good 'ol snow! Anyway this thread has been busy whilst i've been gone glad to see theres some more girls ttc #2 nc mommy - what symtoms have you got I have no idea what CD I am - must chart it when i next get AF lol The only people who know we're ttc are my buddy Jo who was my TTC buddy & bump buddy (crazily our babies are aged 4 weeks apart) from when I had Izzie - we're used to talking to each other about this stuff so its quite nice to be able to talk to someone - I've mentioned to my mum about another but just a mention lol not told her we're ttc I'm quite excited about getting pregnant this time as last time we was so excited we told as soon as we know (silly but after 11months ttc we had to tell someone lol) but Sams mum told everyone so this time i'm not telling anyone till we've had the 12week scan a real surprise haha just gabbling on - i'll shut up now welcome to the thread everyone __________________
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x-TyMa-x BnB Elite Proud Mummy Of 2 xx Join Date: Oct 2010 Country: Posts: 11,902 Thanked others: 2,350 Thanked 2,576 times in 2,358 posts Currently Feeling:	I was the exact same, with my 1st pregnancy i told alot of people as soon as i found out.....(5weeks!!) ....This time round if i get my i will also be waiting till after the scan.....if i can! lol Its really hard to keep quiet tho, when your soo excited you just want everyone else to know your great news!!!
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sjbno1 BnB Addict Sarah - mummy & TTC#2 Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Orpington, Kent Country: Posts: 6,046 Thanked others: 544 Thanked 1,620 times in 1,563 posts Currently Feeling:	lol MTT I was the same just so over excited LOL Although I did refrain from telling anyone at work LOL Sambles - my MIL is the one who cant keep a secret LOL Well OH is home - took him 3hrs in this snow! DOH!! Hows the snow where you all are?
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