Long cycles support thread :) the yelping vaginas club! (closed group)

Raven

Why are they talking about IVF already before you have been properly checked out? Has you DH done an SA?

Good work on the positive OPK Katya!!

Oh Raven, how disappointing. I agree with Bex, why are they jumping right to IVF? Has your DH had an SA? I know the clinic is an hour away but could you maybe call them and see if they try any other treatments before IVF like Clomid and IUI? I just can't believe they'd jump right to IVF without doing any testing or trying something else first. I'm so sorry, I know how frustrated and upset you must be. I'm thinking about you.

Congrats Katya on the OPK! Get busy!

I don't know why she told me about IVF, and I think if I do make an appointment with this new doctor then I would get more info...I think she was just letting me know how much this could cost basically. My hubby has not ever had a SA, he has an appointment to get one done so I guess we'll see what that says...I just can't wrap my head around all of this -- but thanks for the support ladies as always!!

I was wondering the same as the other ladies. It seems too quick to even discuss Ivf...but maybe your dr just wanted to give you the info so you have it if it came to that. I know you just had a bfn but your chart looks really good so I hope it was just too early!

Yay for +opk Katya!!

I can't view your opk pic on my phone Katya and my Internet is down, been 3 days so far.. It sounds like its positive though!
Raven I hope you can get more answers and are offered some alternatives to Ivf.

Raven hopefully you are right and she was just preparing you cost wise for IVF and you can discuss other options at your appointment? Raven what's your temp like today? Your chart looks like it might go triphasic if your temp is up again today?

AFM I think I just ovulated on my own. No soy or anything - could it have been the pregnacare conception multivits??. I had a huge temp spike this morning, which is if stays as it is means I ovulated on cd19 giving me a 31/32 day cycle just like before I went on bcp!!!! So happy. Hope my temp stays up over the next few days so so so happy. We didn't bd as much as I would have liked and poor hubby was exhausted. We will again tonight for good measure. Fingers crossed its enough. Having a progesterone test done again, although so slots until 8dpo so I have a feeling it will be low. I'm not going to use progesterone cream or anything. I really want to see what a natural cycle looks like. Was so shocked when I saw my temp this morning, really thought it would have been low as our room was a little cold lol!!! Graciously accepting all positive vibes lol.

Congrats Katya, your hard work exercising is really paying off. So close to your BFP now, I am sure!

Thanks was very happy as I wasn't even sure my positive opk was positive. The photo i posted here was as positive as it got and then in the evening it was negative again so i didn't even surge for 12 hours. Glad I caught it but think to cover bases I will bd every other day once I get watery cm in future!

Diddums- glad to hear your getting back to pre bcp...and that your cycles are evening out!!

Well late last night i could tell my spotting was going to get heavier, and this am when i woke up its def af that showed up!! and you know the strangest part is that i am passing large skin looking stuff...its all dark red but i could actually hear one plunk into the toilet...it is worring me but could it be that i had a cyst or something and it popped and that is why i had so much spotting this month...and that skin stuff is the cyst?? I don't know and I do know that if i google stuff i am going to be on here all day hooked and still wondering.