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Old Nov 21st, 2011, 15:43 PM   41
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my friend found out she was pregnant last week . . . shes 22 weeks!!! how she didn't know I will never understand!! lol and @CMARIE33 we deffo should!! us big mouthed ladies . . . imagine what we will be like when we get BFP's waiting out the 12 week period!!! HARD TIMES AHEAD!! haha
I doubt I'd be able to wait 12 weeks. Maybe 2 days if I'm lucky!



 
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Old Nov 21st, 2011, 15:46 PM   42
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haha I know . . . me and the fella have already discussed who we will tell and who we won't!! haha or who we will try not to tell anyway . . . I say me, of course I mean, ME!! haha



 
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Old Nov 21st, 2011, 15:49 PM   43
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It's hard not to worry about it all. I almost wish I was less informed so it would be easier to believe that it could just happen whenever. And it's especially hard when people ask you about getting pregnant a lot, which happens to me b/c I couldn't keep it to myself and told some friends when we started "trying" because I was so excited about it. And whenever they ask me about it and I say I haven't got AF yet they say "test, test, you must be pregnant!". But I've done enough research to know that's most likely not the case. I don't feel pregnant or anything like that and I've taken bcp for so long that I'm sure my body is just messed up. But I won't upset myself by testing and am putting off the stress of temping and all that till I absolutely can't take it anymore.

One of my husbands coworkers asked me at a gathering a couple of weeks ago if we would be expecting a baby soon, and I said hopefully if we're lucky. Seems like it's not that easy. And he said Of course it's easy, just do it a lot. Really??!! People have no idea. He and his wife were a couple of hippies who probably never used bcp and got pregnant when they were 20. They have no idea the challenges of long term bcp use. I just wanted to slap him upside the head! lol

Sorry, I have no idea where that rant came from...
Ugh Im so sorry. I had a similar experience coming off of bc and now it seems like it may be happening again. I'm 9 days late again. I also have some goofy friends who continually ask me if I'm preg yet...like I wouldn't tell them or something. And how is it that all of these people who have never ttc are popping out these accidental babies and here we are busting our butts to get preg. It is a really stressful time and a lot of women here understand how you feel. But you might have ovulated or are about to anyday so if you consistantly bd you might just get you bfp yet!



 
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Old Nov 21st, 2011, 15:50 PM   44
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my friend found out she was pregnant last week . . . shes 22 weeks!!! how she didn't know I will never understand!! lol and @CMARIE33 we deffo should!! us big mouthed ladies . . . imagine what we will be like when we get BFP's waiting out the 12 week period!!! HARD TIMES AHEAD!! haha
hahaha That's too funny! You are so right!!



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[QUOTE= But you might have ovulated or are about to anyday so if you consistantly bd you might just get you bfp yet![/QUOTE]

My thoughts exactly! I'm just using it to get as much action from my man as a can! Makes it really hot too when you think you might be actually making a baby when your doing it. My hubby doesn't really understand the process that much anyways, lol, so he is clueless about when it can and can't happen and I'm using that to my advantage

Thanks for the support! That's why I love BnB! Good luck to you, maybe the lateness is a BFP. So is this your first you're trying for?



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Old Nov 21st, 2011, 16:24 PM   47
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This would be my 1st baby! It's funny you should say that about your husband because mine is the same way! He doesn't know what I even do on this forum. I tell him "It's girl stuff" lol. I'm gonna test tomorrow it's been over a week since I last tested so I've got my fx!



 
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Old Nov 21st, 2011, 16:27 PM   48
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This would be my 1st baby! It's funny you should say that about your husband because mine is the same way! He doesn't know what I even do on this forum. I tell him "It's girl stuff" lol. I'm gonna test tomorrow it's been over a week since I last tested so I've got my fx!
lol my fella knows everything . . . which can make the bedroom a bit military!! lol!!
do you mean OPK testing? aren't you doing it everyday?



 
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This would be my 1st baby! It's funny you should say that about your husband because mine is the same way! He doesn't know what I even do on this forum. I tell him "It's girl stuff" lol. I'm gonna test tomorrow it's been over a week since I last tested so I've got my fx!
lol my fella knows everything . . . which can make the bedroom a bit military!! lol!!
do you mean OPK testing? aren't you doing it everyday?
Nope I mean hpt. I haven't started using opks yet I just purchased them and they have yet to arrive. Since I stopped spotting I think I'm gonna take a test in the morning because I was gonna do it today until I spotted very VERY lightly last night, but today there was nothing so....I really have my doubts but I guess there is always a chance I could be pg.



 
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Old Nov 21st, 2011, 16:39 PM   50
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ohh yeh sorry you said this earlier . . . I'm uber tired today, so finding it hard to keep track of convos so much! haha you'll have to forgive me!!

make sure you let us know how the HPT goes tomorrow



 
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