Totally Talkative, Crazy 1st-timers (NTNP/TTC #1!) - [22+ BFP's & 18 babies born!] - Page 1235

Aurora CHK · Feb 6th, 2013, 06:42 AM

And on page 1234 too! Not so much 'totally talkative, crazy' as 'totally tired of chatting' - maybe because most of us either have babies now that take up all our time/energy, or we're too depressed about our now long-term unpregnant status!

xopiinkiieox · Feb 6th, 2013, 07:54 AM

I agree with the second part...! Definitely exhausted with the LTTTC!!! Never thought it would be me. But, hey, no one does right?

I'm too lazy to even call the doc to see what's broken because I'm going to have to switch OB/GYNs...my pregnancy confirmation/48 hour count/miscarriage confirmation blood tests cost over $500 out of pocket due to the way my doc's billing works, and his inability to work with any independent labs for testing! So, knowing what lies ahead for me - testing city! - I can't even justify making the appointment. Just stinks knowing I have to go somewhere else! It's already a frustrating, completely heartbreaking thing I feel like I'm dealing with. Having to explain it all again to someone else, including my MC and the lack of getting PG again doesn't sound fun!

Aaaagh!!!

Why is being a grown up so difficult? And why can horrible people who don't want kids seem to have babies when I really want one and can't? I am SO on another "pity party/woe is me" tip today!

joo · Feb 6th, 2013, 07:55 AM

I'm lurking... Reading journals but I'm nesting big time so I'm putting off posting in favour of housework, decluttering & organising, rather than the other way around Hehehe

mrsswaffer · Feb 6th, 2013, 07:59 AM

Ditto, joo! Except I'm back in bed right now, because today is a tired day.

JJsmom · Feb 6th, 2013, 09:14 AM

We just had s few pics taken as I was supposed to have our anatomy scan but it's too early they say. But we got a between the legs shot and it's a boy!!!!

Aurora CHK · Feb 6th, 2013, 09:57 AM

Ooh, congratulations on your blue bundle!! HAve you rescheduled the anatomy scan?

Annie, that sounds soooooooooooooooooooooooo rubbish. I'm really grateful for our health service. (I know its a bit of a controversial/political topic over there so I hope I don't offend any one from the US with this, but from my point of view, I'm really happy to lose a tiny amount of my pay each month whilst I am working and to have free healthcare all my life from 'birth to earth'! Not that we don't have some problems with the service.)

Yes I forgot the other category of all the lovely preggo ladies who are too exhausted to post - or busy nesting and preparing!

JJsmom · Feb 6th, 2013, 13:28 PM

We go back on Wed the 20th for the full anatomy scan.

xopiinkiieox · Feb 6th, 2013, 18:35 PM

I pay LOTS out of my paycheck...!! Haha. I even have secondary, military grade insurance through DH! I'm not political at all, so ya won't offend me!

It just irritates me that my doctor would expect me to pay $300+ for bloodwork to confirm PG...?! Seems a bit ridiculous to me!

In better news, last month's cycle was 27 days. This month was 28. Maybe my cycles are straightening out?? Hope so!! Still doesn't explain why I can't get knocked up again! So afraid my MC messed up my hormones. I get positive OPKs, but I'm afraid the egg isn't actually being released! Stupid traitor body!

JJsmom · Feb 6th, 2013, 19:23 PM

Annie, that is ridiculous that your doc makes you pay that much!!!! It sounds like your insurance isn't covering anything! I'm sorry you have to go through as much as you are! Praying it gets better for you!

xopiinkiieox · Feb 6th, 2013, 21:17 PM

Thanks JJs! My insurance is actually not bad...it's just the way the doctor does business. He won't use an independent lab, which means when I need bloodwork, I have to go to the actual hospital lab. So, I'm billed for an "outpatient hospital procedure," when it's literally a quick stick of a need in my arm! Sooo ridiculous! After talking with my insurance company, I will either have to convince my doctor to use a private lab (yeah, right!), go somewhere else, or pay out of pocket until my $1,000 deductible and $1,500 out of pocket cap are met every year.

Feb 6th, 2013, 06:42 AM	#12341
Aurora CHK Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: England Posts: 1,532	And on page 1234 too! Not so much 'totally talkative, crazy' as 'totally tired of chatting' - maybe because most of us either have babies now that take up all our time/energy, or we're too depressed about our now long-term unpregnant status!

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Feb 6th, 2013, 07:54 AM	#12342
xopiinkiieox Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: IL, USA Posts: 1,503	I agree with the second part...! Definitely exhausted with the LTTTC!!! Never thought it would be me. But, hey, no one does right? I'm too lazy to even call the doc to see what's broken because I'm going to have to switch OB/GYNs...my pregnancy confirmation/48 hour count/miscarriage confirmation blood tests cost over $500 out of pocket due to the way my doc's billing works, and his inability to work with any independent labs for testing! So, knowing what lies ahead for me - testing city! - I can't even justify making the appointment. Just stinks knowing I have to go somewhere else! It's already a frustrating, completely heartbreaking thing I feel like I'm dealing with. Having to explain it all again to someone else, including my MC and the lack of getting PG again doesn't sound fun! Aaaagh!!! Why is being a grown up so difficult? And why can horrible people who don't want kids seem to have babies when I really want one and can't? I am SO on another "pity party/woe is me" tip today!

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Feb 6th, 2013, 07:55 AM	#12343
joo Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: UK Posts: 1,593	I'm lurking... Reading journals but I'm nesting big time so I'm putting off posting in favour of housework, decluttering & organising, rather than the other way around Hehehe

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Feb 6th, 2013, 07:59 AM	#12344
mrsswaffer Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Canterbury, UK Posts: 3,582	Ditto, joo! Except I'm back in bed right now, because today is a tired day.

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Feb 6th, 2013, 09:14 AM	#12345
JJsmom Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2012 Location: New Albany, IN Posts: 2,664	We just had s few pics taken as I was supposed to have our anatomy scan but it's too early they say. But we got a between the legs shot and it's a boy!!!!

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Feb 6th, 2013, 09:57 AM	#12346
Aurora CHK Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: England Posts: 1,532	Ooh, congratulations on your blue bundle!! HAve you rescheduled the anatomy scan? Annie, that sounds soooooooooooooooooooooooo rubbish. I'm really grateful for our health service. (I know its a bit of a controversial/political topic over there so I hope I don't offend any one from the US with this, but from my point of view, I'm really happy to lose a tiny amount of my pay each month whilst I am working and to have free healthcare all my life from 'birth to earth'! Not that we don't have some problems with the service.) Yes I forgot the other category of all the lovely preggo ladies who are too exhausted to post - or busy nesting and preparing!

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Feb 6th, 2013, 13:28 PM	#12347
JJsmom Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2012 Location: New Albany, IN Posts: 2,664	We go back on Wed the 20th for the full anatomy scan.

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Feb 6th, 2013, 18:35 PM	#12348
xopiinkiieox Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: IL, USA Posts: 1,503	I pay LOTS out of my paycheck...!! Haha. I even have secondary, military grade insurance through DH! I'm not political at all, so ya won't offend me! It just irritates me that my doctor would expect me to pay $300+ for bloodwork to confirm PG...?! Seems a bit ridiculous to me! In better news, last month's cycle was 27 days. This month was 28. Maybe my cycles are straightening out?? Hope so!! Still doesn't explain why I can't get knocked up again! So afraid my MC messed up my hormones. I get positive OPKs, but I'm afraid the egg isn't actually being released! Stupid traitor body!

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Feb 6th, 2013, 19:23 PM	#12349
JJsmom Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2012 Location: New Albany, IN Posts: 2,664	Annie, that is ridiculous that your doc makes you pay that much!!!! It sounds like your insurance isn't covering anything! I'm sorry you have to go through as much as you are! Praying it gets better for you!

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Feb 6th, 2013, 21:17 PM	#12350
xopiinkiieox Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: IL, USA Posts: 1,503	Thanks JJs! My insurance is actually not bad...it's just the way the doctor does business. He won't use an independent lab, which means when I need bloodwork, I have to go to the actual hospital lab. So, I'm billed for an "outpatient hospital procedure," when it's literally a quick stick of a need in my arm! Sooo ridiculous! After talking with my insurance company, I will either have to convince my doctor to use a private lab (yeah, right!), go somewhere else, or pay out of pocket until my $1,000 deductible and $1,500 out of pocket cap are met every year.

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