Georgina, 20 from cheshire. Just moved here to calm down the TTC!
I've had one failed pregnancy in august so far and had the implant removed in december 2010. I'm looking at getting married next year
I'm midway between TTC and NTNP, I.e I still use OPK's (just not so obsessively) and FF and concieve +. Aurora, your not old yet, not until your 65! Should be getting a one bedroom flat private rent next month or so
Above: yep ya would, cause I don't get it! Never seen the film
Hello everyone Aurora CHK, your first few posts are funny. Age is only a number chicky lol I'd love to get to know all of you! I'm not working at the moment andhave all the time I'm the world to chat away. Its hard when all I do is Is think about babies, NTNP, pregnancy, symptom spotting it goes on.. And I can't talk to anyone about it as only OH and I know we are NTNP. You ladies will be life savers xxx
I shouldn't be on here at all - I work full time, but I can't help it! But I know what you mean about the privacy/secrecy thing. Even my OH doesn't know we're trying
Oh I'm too bad. But if he was that bothered he would wear condoms.
For me, time is a'wastin!
Having said that, last night my BF who knows how I feel was trying to warn me not to rush in. She has a particular perspective, as she had terrible post-natal depression after having her son six years ago and she actually walked out on her boyfriend (the baby's father) and at first left the baby with him. They hadn't been together long, she was only 18 and she feels that he kind of pressured her into having a baby quickly and didn't really care about her.
When she tried to take the baby later, the courts awarded him with the Dad as he still had the family home, a job, better seeming emotional stability etc, and she was basically homeless and jobless. So now the kid is six, and she has him weekends only, and she is forever racked with guilt and regret.
So from her point of view, you want to be VERY SETTLED at home and with a rock-tight relationship where you both feel the same way about wanting children first so that netiher your hearts or your children's get broken down the line.
But if I waited until DH is chomping at the bit for a baby, I'll probably be all dried up by then, and then we'll both be forever miserable... but I just don't know...
Just to clarify though, I'm not doing anything behind my hubby's back! Its just that I know he'd rather not fall pregnant yet which is a great shame for me... but like I say, he'd use condoms or not have sex with me if he was dead against it.
I'm just a bit hyper today because I feel I am perhaps perhaps perhaps pregnant.
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