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Old Mar 20th, 2017, 16:23 PM   10431
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Im not interested in telling anyone this time because I dont want people to be all in my face. I am a grouch this time around lol. I've been suffering from constant back pain and on top of that I have 2 monkeys running around so I really dont want to deal with anyone's comments. On my stepdad's side, everyone has 2 kids, so they will think I am crazy for having a 3rd. They will also fuss about the gender, that I know for sure. I told my husband in a dead serious tone that if he doesnt respect me and went ahead to tell my mom, I wont be talking to him lol. I told my mom I lost 20 lbs and she ended up telling my other relatives and I've gotten phone calls from my grandma and my aunt fussing about my weight loss "did you take any diet pills? Dont get fat again!" I seriously wanted to scream at them, chill ladies lol, give me some freaking personal space. Thats why my mom is not in on this pregnancy either. She loves telling other people.

Claire - it is going fast. I will be 12 weeks next Monday! 1 week closer to feeling those baby kicks. I am not enjoying the back pain though. A week ago it was on my left, now its on my right...and tmi but my belly button hurts. I've noticed that each consecutive pregnancy is harder on my body. 1st was a breeze no problems at all, even after delivery I was skip hopping lol. My pregnancy with Jayden was a bit worse although the horrible pain didnt start til 3rd tri, post delivery was more painful too...I really cant imagine whats gonna take place with this one. I admire you so much for doing it 6 times! My mom has 6 kids as well, I have total respect for her and all the other ladies who have more than 2 kids lol.



 
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Old Mar 21st, 2017, 07:41 AM   10432
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it does get harder with each! I remember with my last pregnancy thinking I cant do this again lol but here I am again! but im just going to take it easy this time round try not to over stretch myself.
why is your mum funny about you having more babies if she has 6 herself? x



 
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Old Mar 21st, 2017, 08:57 AM   10433
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Claire - I have two moms haha. My biological mom has 6 kids, my other mom who raised me adopted me when I was a baby. She adopted me and my sister, so she has no biological kids herself. She also said that in this day and age, its not the norm to have more than 2 kids. I've been so stressed out lately about what others will say and this is only our third baby lol. Maybe I shouldnt even think about having a 4th?

So I drove myself to the ER, turns out my back pain is due to a UTI. I was given first dose of antibiotics and need to come back later to the pharmacy to pick up the rest.



 
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Old Mar 21st, 2017, 14:08 PM   10434
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Never run your life by what other people think!! I was nervous what people would say with baby no4 but now I couldn't careless!! It's our life our family sod em I say!!! X



 
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Old Mar 21st, 2017, 16:33 PM   10435
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I think its more normal now to have more than 2 kids. Everyone seems to have a lot more now than they did when i was young. What i also notice is people havibg 2 'rounds' of kids lol. Like some of the mums at school with kids in georgias class have older ones at high school from a previous relationship



 
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Old Mar 23rd, 2017, 10:32 AM   10436
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Woohoo got my appointments through!! Booking in appointment is Wednesday 😆 And our 1st scan is the 3rd may!!! 😆😆



 
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Old Mar 23rd, 2017, 17:57 PM   10437
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Great news rics i love all that stuff! Aww u guys make me so broody dammit!!



 
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Old Mar 23rd, 2017, 23:54 PM   10438
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That is awesome Claire! My 12 week scan is exactly a week from today! I am soo excited, Its been 3 long weeks already! Hopefully I would get an idea of baby's gender at the scan based off the nub.



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2017, 12:22 PM   10439
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Getting my 12 week scan today vs thursday because dh gets the afternoon off, so he asked me to call to see if they have any openings since he wants to go. So lucky they had a spot open at 2:45!



 
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Old Mar 27th, 2017, 17:18 PM   10440
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Yay! Hope it all went well! You'll hafta post a piccy so we can gender guess



 
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