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Old Jan 5th, 2018, 05:24 AM   10771
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Thats what i was gonna say rics, they must have talked about it?!

Ok so i can take it no more!! I was worried about posting incase the ex saw it but i think hed hafta try pretty hard to stumble accross our private thread so here goes... i said i had a new man.. well we have been dtd using withdrawal (probably stupidly) and now im freaking out. It would be a terrible time to get preg obviously. So im due af tomorrow.. and i got this with fmu. Im not sure it was there in timeframe tho. I tested before the school run and studied it harder when i got back. I took it out the case to see this... the pic with the darker line is the same test left out for about an hour!!!



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Old Jan 6th, 2018, 11:24 AM   10772
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That looks quite convincing jo!! 😱😱 have you tested anymore? Xx



 
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Old Jan 7th, 2018, 06:17 AM   10773
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Yeah but they look bfn.. but af is a no show...



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2018, 07:54 AM   10774
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No we have awful communication problems, we have from even before we got married. I just assumed we'd be able to talk once we got married.

So no nothing is ever discussed, even when we went a year and a half without sex once i got pregnant with Cassidy it wasn't discussed.... I mean I'd try to initiate sex then only he never wanted it, he only once wanted it and that's when I got pregnant with Rose.

I'm not sure why everything has to be so AWKWARD between us, like I dread hearing him say "Lets talk" because it basically means to grill me over and over. He still thinks I am cheating on him

Sometimes I really do wish someone better would come along. But I know that'll never happen


Jo, I'm happy for you!!! But eekkk that's scary about the pregnancy scare.... do you think it'll mess everything up?



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2018, 08:01 AM   10775
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It would certainly make things more difficult! My other tests are bfn or so faint im calling bfn but af is still a no show!! Was due sat and its tues today...



 
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Old Feb 12th, 2018, 14:14 PM   10776
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I haven't posted in a while! I hope you ladies are doing well! I'm getting ready to go visit family again up north. I'll be going there for the month of March. It'll be nice to get away!



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2018, 16:00 PM   10777
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Hey me neither! Enjoy your trip ashley i hope the oh makes it enjoyable for you.
So im feeling confused. Things with the new man are great but the ex is trying everything to get me back and i am starting to wonder if I'm doing the righr thing. I still feel such a strong emotional connection to him despite everything. Its so hard thinking of us not being a family and him maybe having another woman round the kids its a lot to take in.



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2018, 19:50 PM   10778
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Awww Jo, that's hard!! But yeah I think that would be inevitable, if you move on, I'm sure he will too...

I know some people can make stuff like that work, I just don't know if I could or not. Like yes I dream about getting away, but then when I think about it, it kinda scares me!

But it'll be nice to have some space in March! I'm just going up alone with my kids.



 
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Old Feb 18th, 2018, 06:27 AM   10779
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I hope you have a nice break Ashley hopefully the time apart will be a good thing.

Jo do you want to be with him? Is he willing to change his ways? He will move on eventually but donít be with him just because you donít want him with someone else. X



 
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Old Feb 20th, 2018, 20:09 PM   10780
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Hi ladies. Sorry I haven't been posting but I'm lurking lol. Sorry about the issues that you're ashley, sometimes I feel the same about my dh but I'm happy to say we do have better moments so that's what holding me back.

Jo- I hope things get better for you!

Claire- can't believe you're already 27 wks!

Afm, I'm soo busy with these 3. Theo is so cute but he can be clingy at times. People are already asking if I want another and I just gave them a blank look, seriously not the time to ask lol.



 
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