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Old Apr 24th, 2018, 11:35 AM   10781
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How is everyone?? I haven't been here in a while! I had a great visit up in Canada! I brought my mom down with me, then in two months I'll drive her back up.

I cleaned out the shed with my DH, and he kinda hinted to me to get rid of all the baby stuff



 
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Old Apr 27th, 2018, 07:05 AM   10782
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Glad you had a good trip!! And lovely that your mum has come to stay!! How are things now with dh?

Jo hows things with you and your new relationship?

Kitty hows baby getting on?

Im full term tomorrow 37 weeks!! And Im exhausted!!!



 
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Old May 18th, 2018, 07:35 AM   10783
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Things aren't good, hes moved out of our room and into the spare room. I don't know why... he still doesn't want to talk. Anytime he mentions talking it means he is yelling at me saying I need to tell him something but doesn't tell me what it is he wants to hear, and anytime I ask him what is it he wants to hear he just repeats the question.

My girls have started asking me why he doesn't sleep in our room anymore and I don't know what to say.

It is so hard... I don't know what to do.. like I really have no place to go if he tells me to leave.



 
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Old May 21st, 2018, 13:47 PM   10784
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Oh no Im sorry that must be hard on you and the girls!! Has he told you what he wants? Xx



 
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Old May 26th, 2018, 19:09 PM   10785
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I’m so sorry you’re having a rough time.
Do you think you can take him somewhere away from home, just you and him to talk things through?

Things here are good, Darcy is doing so well at school. Arthur is now 10 months!!! Can you believe it?!? We think he will be crawling in the next few days. We think he is teething but still no sign of any teeth cutting at all!!



 
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Old May 28th, 2018, 09:23 AM   10786
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He doesn't want to talk. He won't tell me what he wants...

I can barely even get him to talk to me about day to day things.

My mom has been staying with me these past few weeks... but she refuses to believe we have marriage problems. Like I have tried in the past to tell her how it is. She is even here to witness it...

On a side note its my 7 year anniversary. He wants to do nothing... which I get. I got him a card, not a mushy one, but he didn't get me anything. I understand though. It is hard to pretend you love someone when you don't.

Sorry I'm so mopey!!


ANd aww wow 10 months already?! Everyones babies are growing up!



 
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Old May 29th, 2018, 18:37 PM   10787
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Hey everyone! Sorry its been so long! Life kinda took over!
Cant believe you're full term already rics thats so exciting! Will be expecting an announcement next time i check in
Ashley i do worry about you! Honestly i never thought i could be one of those people either, but impossible as it is and as difficult as it still is now with my ex, my life is still much easier and im much happier!
The ex is s full on nightmare, hasnt seen the kids for months then txts out the blue and has had them to stay over tonight! Thinks he can do as he pleases its a joke! But other than him things are going great with the new man!! Xx



 
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Old Jun 12th, 2018, 15:37 PM   10788
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Jo, that's hard! how are your kids taking it? Do they miss their dad? Or are they closer to you?

So my DH flipped out over the anniversary card, he got so offended by it then just stormed out of the room.

We spent the night at my in laws the one weekend, and he slept in the living room, he wouldn't come to bed. It is almost like he really wants to separate but doesn't want to be the bad guy.



 
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Old Jun 14th, 2018, 05:00 AM   10789
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Hello if anyone remembers me.

I can't remember when I was in last time or what I put but I now have a 4 year old!!! Now that is scary. I've done a better update on my journal here.

But I hope everyone is doing OK x



 
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Old Jun 17th, 2018, 06:40 AM   10790
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Heeyy I remember you! Hope all is well! Hard to believe your baby is 4 now! All our kids growing up so fast it seems!



AFM... now DH has decided to move back into the bedroom, I am unsure why, its not like we talked or anything.
That said in a week we leave for Canada, I'm bringing my mom back north then will have a visit before coming back down.



 
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