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Old Feb 5th, 2013, 08:47 AM   7771
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It got worse yesterday, she screamed the whole way home from the doctors, and then was just AWFUL for me at home, and my dh is like "Well I need to go into my office" and just goes up leaving me with her to try and calm down. Then hes just like "I have no problems with sticking her in her room and leaving her to cry" I just feel horrible about doing that

And again today I woke her up an hour earlier then her normal waking time in hopes that she'd nap for her usual two hours again nope she slept MAYBE an hour then crying and screaming so I've got her up now. And the pediatrician said its fine giving her baby tylonal only I feel bad about like medicating her when to me it doesnt seem like she needs it.



 
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Old Feb 5th, 2013, 10:22 AM   7772
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Ashley-Hope everything gets better with you.

AFM, im cd23 today and im pretty much spending my day sleeping. I am completely exhausted and i think its because of the BCPs. I will try and get some laundry done and also start sorting through my clothes etc so i can start packing even though I wont be moving until 2-3 months time. Since I wont be here for the 18th, I rescheduled my doc appt for the 25th @ 10:45. Its a doc appt with my primary care doctor. Its just a follow up appt so nothing will really happen there. My hematologist and ob/gyn appt is in March though so we shall see how that goes. Next Friday, I will be on the road. Cant wait.



 
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Old Feb 5th, 2013, 14:54 PM   7773
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Ashley, sorry you've been having a hard time. How has she been today?
Patrice, hope you get some energy soon! Darcy has been giving me lovely smiles all day. Last night we had such a horrible storm, the wind and rain were battering the window which woke us all up.



 
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Old Feb 7th, 2013, 15:29 PM   7774
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Happy belated birthday Ashley, I know its a little late. I have been so busy with the little one lately..he is super clingy!

Its been awhile since I am able to go anywhere by myself for more than an hour. Last time I went to the mall to look at some clothes, husband called me one hour later and started yelling at me for taking too long and that Zachary is crying. This morning he was perfectly happy and doing some coos when I was sitting next to him and then the minute I got up, went to the bathroom, put my butt on the toilet, he started screaming..which got my dh screaming for me to hurry up.

I feel so fed up sometimes because most of the time, I am the only one who takes care of him. My husband only changes a diaper here and there. I feel like I dont have a social life anymore. A lot has changed for me but it seems like my husband is still his same old self; going to work, school, doing homework the whole day, playing video games, and getting his sleep. He complains that he is sleep deprived but that is not from having a baby. He is deprived of sleep because he stays up to play video games, go on the internet, or does his homework. I am the one who is sleep deprived from Zachary keeping me up and wont go to bed until sunset.

That is my vent for the day. Had to let it out!



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Old Feb 7th, 2013, 16:34 PM   7775
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Being a mum sure can be exhausting and we need all the help we can get! Are you able to talk to him at all about it?



 
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Old Feb 7th, 2013, 17:56 PM   7776
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Being a mum sure can be exhausting and we need all the help we can get! Are you able to talk to him at all about it?
He wants it the easy way saying just let mimicry it out



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Old Feb 10th, 2013, 16:48 PM   7777
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I took this a few days ado when I was 33 weeks and 3 days ill be 34 weeks tomorrow, I would like this wee man to be here like now lol

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Old Feb 11th, 2013, 10:18 AM   7778
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boxxey-lovely belly shot!

AFM, im on cd29. My cycle is reallyfling by. So far, I have no bleeding whatsoever and I am on week 3 of the BCPs Its another milestone for me because usually I tend to go through the long bleeds during week 2 of the BCPs. So atleast the BCPs are doing something. Hopefully, it makes my body have AF on the last week o the BC but we shall see. I will be leaving to see DH on friday Im excited and cant wait to see him. We already have a few things planned while im up there. As far as me and the MIL goes..we dont really talk. We talk from time to time and thats about it. We really dont get along which I already figured but she knows I am Alpha female in the house so she has to respect me either way it goes. Cant believe in 2 months..I will be done with the BC and also will finally be in the arms of my DH inside our new home at his permanent duty station I cant wait! Hopefully, the reunion brings forth a bfp but we shall wait and see whats in store for us.



 
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Old Feb 11th, 2013, 11:10 AM   7779
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Thats for sure being a mom is exhausted, especially with clueless dads I think I've had the wrong impressions on how dads are, my dad was always really involved so have all my parents friends so I thought all dads did half the work in raising babies and kids.
I can't leave my LO with my dh for longer then 10 mins before shes crying. And he'll be outta the room, and then if I complain about how hes not watching her he'll snap at me that he is so And then hes got crazy ideas of how babies should be. Like he wants me to just leave her to cry and not make her stop telling me I'm spoiling her, but I just can't stand to hear her cry and cry. Or he does annoying things like if she fusses a bit at night, he'll turn on the light in her room and pick her up start talking to her so she wakes up fully GAH! Then tells me he doesnt know why she wont sleep.

I don't see myself leaving Cassidy alone with my DH not until shes a toddler at least but even then, he has crazy ideas like let her fall she'll learn or let her hurt herself and she'll learn.. uhh I dont want her sticking her finger into a socket thank you very much.

Theres my vent



 
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Old Feb 11th, 2013, 13:37 PM   7780
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Patrice, you must be so excited about seeing you dh, only a few more days!

I'm really lucky with my oh, as soon as he gets homes from work i hand Darcy over to him to have daddy/daughter time and to have a bit of me time.

I had Darcy weighed today, she is now 11 pounds at 10 weeks old and is in the 25th percentile. So she is on the up, so happy!!
My oh's dad has paid for us to fly over to Ireland to see his family at the end of next March. We are so excited, Darcy will get to meet her cousin for the first time. We are going for a week so we can fit in seeing friends too.



 
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