haribo- thank you for the advice I will deffinately have a look into those books! I think with trying to buy our first place/working 7 days a week I have lost sight of TTC a little, although when we are settled and ready I will begin processes with the doctors to see if there is anything they can do I am also not dealing with the constant press about Kate and Wills! I was literally reading in the news that she may be suffering from infertility, and the next thing you know shes pregnant. Although its been 15 months since the royal wedding so depending on when they started trying she may have been going through the same hell we are!

not long till christmas!! hope all is well! x

Hi ladies! So I am 3 days late if I am counting the days from a 28 day cycle? No idea when I o'd but if it was CD16 then im over my luteal phase bu atleast 2 daus. Litearly no symptoms or signs so if im not pregnant which I doubt I am I have no idea what is going on with these bloody cycles!! Might buy a cheap test tomorow if I have time but I just cant even be botherd with a negative

Just a question for the pregnant ladies, did you ever have vaginal swelling in the early stages during sex? It's probably just randomly happened to me but ive never has it before haha sonthing new to stress over!! Xxxxxx

treasured - Fx for you!!!! Did you test? I did not, but I wasn't having too much sex since I was still really fresh from surgery and had gotten scared by the IB. Can't wait to hear!!!

Hey everyone!! I am CD 58 with lots of BFN's my Dr appt is not until Tuesday, so I have to wait impatiently.... My breasts are a bit sore for about 2 days now, it's been a while since they got sore maybe 4 or 5 cycles. Hopefully this means AF, but my nipples are kind of sore and sensitive, which is new to me. On top of everything I am having trouble sleeping, not for the normal reason of thinking to much, but because I can't comfortable.

On another note I was at my aunt's for a couple of days to dog sit and keep and eye on the kids.... Well she has a puppy that is almost a year old. While I was there she ate and drank but not much and I figured it was cause they were gone.... Well it turns out that she has parvo, and I feel like shit cause I didn't see it

SIL comes on Friday, so it will be a LONG day as we are going to Nogales....

Hope everyone is having fun getting ready for the holidays!!!

Treasured--- TEST!!!!!!

treasure - did you test??????????????

pino - is it monday yet????

Treasured's AF came

I WISH it was Monday LMAO but on the other hand we get paid Friday, so I don't want to skip it LOL

damn AF

treasure~~

Is it Friday yet then?

Eek... I have to make some fondant this weekend! And prep some buttercream too~~~ Making my niece's bday cake! (her party is on the 22nd ... her actual birthday is dec 30th though).

Sorry I've been MIA ladies.

Haribo - only go where you feel comfortable. You have been through and are going through a lot and my heart goes out to you. You have great strength and restraint with your diet! Have you 'cheated' at all?

treasured - I'm so sorry AF got you. I had one cycle that was my longest to date and I was totally symptom spotting so when AF came I was crushed. It may be irrelevant now (but may be relevant later) but I don't recall swelling during sex but it did go kinda purpley/bluey down there about 10 days after conception (before I found out).

Pino - 58 days is ridiculous. Do you think you've O'd? I'm hoping it's positive news at your doctor's appointment. What is Nogales?

lxb - Ooh how do you make fondant? With marshmallows? How are you designing her cake?

I hope the Christmas/holiday season is finding everyone in bright spirits. We all have to be thankful we found each other this year and we all have a great round of partners. I have faith we will all end up with our goal though the journey to get there will be different for all of us and more difficult for some. I'm getting ready to pack it up at work, my maternity leave starts January 4! We had our baby shower a few weeks ago and are busy preparing for the baby. Oh and Christmas! I have been totally preoccupied this year and need to do some serious shopping! Hope you are all more prepared than I am!

Nogales is Arizona's border town to Mexico. There is a Nogales, Arizona, and Mexico, I am going to both LOL. It is now 60 days. a whole month late...

I have been reading a lot on google about woman who don't get positive HPT's until 9 weeks, and some never get them.

The longer my cycle goes on the more my hopes go up. I mean I am a month late, it's supposed to be a good thing right??