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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 15:28 PM   21
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Oh no can you turn it into make up sex? Or maybe walk down the stairs in something ridiculously sexy to just make him get over what ever it is?



 
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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 15:43 PM   22
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I dunno, he is pretty stubborn and i'm still annoyed. I was just feeling like i'm doing this all on my own cos he is supposed to be quitting smoking and he always seems to say 'after this weekend', 'after my friends stag do' etc etc. I know he has cut down but he just doesn't seem to want to do that extra bit, i've even bought him the quit smoking inhalator thing he said he wanted to use. I just feel like its all on me cos i'm the one trying to track ovulation, i'm the one taking vitamins and i'm the one tracking everything. Thats what our fight was about x



 
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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 16:10 PM   23
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Oh bless. I've totally been there. Exactly there. The more we try and force them, the harder they push back.

Does he read books? I used the Allen Carr easy way book and it really worked for me xx



 
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No he doesn't really read unfortunately, I'm lucky he's read the conception section of my pregnacy book.



 
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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 20:21 PM   25
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Thaaaankkssss Jo Bean!!!! Good job with the new thread. Looks like it is moving faster than the old one! Yay for new faces. Welcome, welcome, welcome. And how is everyone doing today?

StefanieC- I feel you pain and your DH's. I quit smoking a couple years ago and is was so, so, so hard. But I tell ya, I wouldn't have done it without my DH pushing me to. The best thing you can do is not take it personally that he hasn't quit yet. Quitting is so, so hard. And VERY scary (even just thinking about right now gives me the chills, and I've already quit)! The first month was the hardesst thing I've ever done in my life. Just remind him occasionally how much you dislike it and how bad it is for him, but try not to fight or be angry. He has to make the decision for himself- people that quit just because someone tells them to are almost 100% going to end up picking it back up again later. Cutting back is often the first step a smoker makes when they want to quit, and it sounds like he's got that part down. That's a BIG step to some smokers. (I know it was for me.) Maaybe take the time out to tell him how proud you are of him for giving up some of his smokes and offer to help him put together a quitting smoking plan. The best advice I could give him is pick a "Quit Day" far enough out in the future (say a month) that it doesn't seem scary yet and then everyday work on the "Quitting Plan". For me that was getting carrots, lolli's, crosswords, new video games, etc- anything that I could occupy myself with when the urge to smoke happened. It's important to be prepared for all environments, too. When he finally does quit, he'll have built up to it. And people who plan it out have a much, much higher chance of staying quit. And when he does quit (because with you there to support him I know he will!) just remind him that when the nic-fit does hit, must cravings only ast 5 minutes and then go away for however long he usually waits between cigs. Occupying those 5 minutes in ANY way that keeps him from smoking is what you have to focus on. Sorry for the hugs paragraph, but I know how hard this struggle can be. You two can do it!!!

UPDATE: CD33 and STILL no positive OPK. Oh mah gawwwwwd I'm gonna lose my mind! Come on second line! You can doooo iiiiitttt!!!!



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I wanna be apart of Team Curvy Bumps??!!!!



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Old Apr 5th, 2012, 01:07 AM   27
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I wanna be apart of Team Curvy Bumps??!!!!
then, you shall! Tell us a bit about you!



 
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Old Apr 5th, 2012, 01:11 AM   28
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I wanted to join your little team, but felt a little out my depth as trying to get through soooo many posts was a little overwhelming!

I'm 34 and TTC #1 for 11 years (7 years if take out the 4 year break after separation from my EX)

I'm back TTC with my partner/soul mate of 4 years with renewed optimism

Hope to be able to add a BFP to your list one day!

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Welcome aboard Shells xxxxx



 
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Can I be in?

I haven't got these curves for nothing!!!...:-)
Hey Wilmu your gunna be so happy here



 
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Welcome to the official

thread!


Team Curvy Bumps began when a group of ladies met each other on a thread about plus sized women trying to conceive. You can visit that thread here
We soon all became firm friends and have been there for eachother in many ways.
Sometimes just having someone to listen to your inner most thoughts and reassure you that you aren't crazy or alone is all you need to get by in this sometimes long but usually painful journey of trying to make that baby.

Don't be intimidated by the fact that some people already know each other here, you are very welcome to come and join our crazy curvy bump team.

If you need support, a shoulder to cry on, or just a sounding board to shout and rant at, that's what we are here for.




Here you will find a group of wonderful ladies of all different shapes and sizes from all over the world.
They all have one thing in common....

Each of them has a massive


Meet the Curvys

Jo_Bean
magic_angel
josephine75
bbbunny
Melly Belly
PandaMao
CdnEquestrian
pinksprinkles
Magan85
Mandapanda27
dontworry
ghinspire22
Sombra
MeMeBrown
saffiya
PurpleRose25
Bubble89
Hawaiilover
kcsandoval
holdinghope99
ICJames
Maureen1222
LoveBeingMrsF
NewMrs2011
Baby_Dreams
RainAngel
hopobopo
wantabubba
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DueSeptember
jaymichelle
blueeyedauby
mzportuguese
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lynn1216
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youngmommie
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enj
Mel Mel
Miaw
Amadora
Mrslandry
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Nysz
piya
littlepeterso
Mazzy17
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MrsC_Est1127
felecia
jojo87
BrandyRelax
Squarepants
EmilyDB1993
chelsea52011
YHadam
dbluett
Lawyer chick
hello_kitty
jessandaj
horseypants
Wilmu89
xxshellsxx
LadyGriz11
StefanieC
Petesgirl20


I've basically been through our old thread and written down every name of everyone that ever posted there. There were a lot of you!!! Now as I did this manually, please forgive me if I missed anyone!
Also, if you wish to be removed, or if I've put something incorrect on the list, let me know too!

If you want to join us, just say so and bam - you're in!


If you want to add the TCB flashing text to your sig just paste the following and remove the ***
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Yo Jo .... You are amazing, totes loving this new thread and look at our team Woooo even more to catch up on phew !!!!



 
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