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Old Apr 23rd, 2012, 06:56 AM   31
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Hi ladies,
Im 33 and ttc my first child My mom tells me I am too old I hope she is wrong
I'm 31 and my mom still tells me I'm too young!



 
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Old Apr 23rd, 2012, 07:56 AM   32
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Several reasons why I waited.
First of all I just didn´t feel ready to be a mom,
second was my carreer, I´m only just getting secure in my position these days,
and third was my fiancee´s studies. He finished last spring, and finally has a steady job these days.

So, now things are stable (mostly), we feel we´re finally ready to bring a little individual into this world



 
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Old Apr 23rd, 2012, 08:25 AM   33
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We have been married for 5, but together for 10 years! My DH is also a bit younger, I am 33, and he is 30. So that was part of the reason - he just wasn't ready. I have been ready for awhile, but have been enjoying have a life together going traveling, and fixing up our house. But now- we are both ready, and thought it would have happened fast - and a year later we are still waiting. Moving on to assisted conception next month when I get AF (hopefully I will not get AF). Wishing everyone luck!



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Old Apr 23rd, 2012, 09:40 AM   34
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Good morning, ladies! Happy Monday. Hope this week goes by quickly.

My husband (30) and I (32) just got married a year and a half ago and we just started living together about six months ago. We wanted to be married and be together just the two of us a little while before starting to try and we wanted to travel. We did start playing it less safe a little while ago, but with no luck. So, we started trying trying in December.

I don't feel like we are starting too late. I feel like I am just now ready to start a family and feel like this is the perfect timing for us. Fingers crossed our bodies feel the same way. I am in the same boat that most of my friends are also just starting their families and a few of my friends the same age aren't married yet but have all intentions of having a family one day. None of us feel too old or feel pressure yet. So, I guess it just depends on where you live and your social circle, but Nicki, I definitely do not think you are too old! And, my mom had my younger siblings when she was 38 and 39 - both surprises.

Happy BD'ing this month! Enjoy!

p.s. I know I've already said it, but I am very happy to have this group. I don't mean to, but I talk about the baby thing too much with my husband. He wants us not to get too stressed about it and enjoy our last months without a baby and I definitely agree, but still can't help talking about it. So, I think this will be a great outlet for me and I am looking forward to having TTC buddies and friends!



 
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Old Apr 23rd, 2012, 09:43 AM   35
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Hi ladies!

I'm 34, OH is 42 and we've been TTC for 4 months now. Came off BCP in Dec. Have been mostly using a calendar app to predict O and BDing every other day within my predicted fertile period. AF is due in 2 days according to my calendar but I didn't use OPKs to know when exactly I ovulated. I plan to test on Wed AM before I fly out to visit my best friend for 4 days. FXed!

Great thread! Thanks for starting it Smimms!!

Baby dust and best of luck to everyone here!



 
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im 39 and still single .kept thinking id find someone.. finally realized it was do it alone or not at all.. so.. here i am. going for cd 3 us today before starting injections againe



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Hi ladies,
Im 33 and ttc my first child My mom tells me I am too old I hope she is wrong
I'm 31 and my mom still tells me I'm too young!
Lol Well then lets agree with what your mom said lol



 
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Crap crap crap. 2.3cm cyst on one side and a small one on the other. So no stims for me. I am going to Philly at the end of may so I'd have to miss 2 cycles which I don't want to do. New plan, us Monday to see if I'm growing a follicle despite the cysts then do an unmedicated cycle. If that doesn't work I'd have to skip a cycle anyway for ivf so... Now if I don't grow a follicle... And I have to skip this cycle entirely.. I'm pondering skipping the trip home. Tickets were pretty cheap and al though I know my parents would be sad, I think id just stress the whole time about how I should be cycling etc. I'm 39, I don't have time to step back and just take months off.



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Hi Ladies, what a nice thread. I am 32 and DH is 40. We have been TTC for 7 months. Unfortunately, I suffered an early MC in January and it's been an emotional rollercoaster ever since. Praying this will be our cycle. Best of luck to all and sending



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Crap crap crap. 2.3cm cyst on one side and a small one on the other. So no stims for me. I am going to Philly at the end of may so I'd have to miss 2 cycles which I don't want to do. New plan, us Monday to see if I'm growing a follicle despite the cysts then do an unmedicated cycle. If that doesn't work I'd have to skip a cycle anyway for ivf so... Now if I don't grow a follicle... And I have to skip this cycle entirely.. I'm pondering skipping the trip home. Tickets were pretty cheap and al though I know my parents would be sad, I think id just stress the whole time about how I should be cycling etc. I'm 39, I don't have time to step back and just take months off.
I'm sure your parents will understand! I bet they want a grandkid too Sorry to hear about the cyst - FX that the follicle will grow! And good luck with it all!



 
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