Anyone ttc or ntnp before there child is a year old? - Page 2

CharlieKeys · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:06 AM

Second was a complete accident - we didn't think we could get pregnant that quick but I can give you advice on close age gaps lol! It is lovely and I wouldn't want it any other way!

I don't think you are irresponsible as long as you feel like your body can handle it and you have support from your Drs after having a c-section then go ttc!

Third we were ntnp but again we weren't expecting it to happen so quick and we actually then decided against it but two weeks later found out we were pregnant.

Tink81 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:07 AM

Good luck to you!

we are still undecided if we want a second, but we arn't taking any precautions so who knows! The only thing that I worry about is that bean is so good, we may have been spoiled, and a second may not be as good! Hehe

Belle25 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:11 AM

Not personally, but good luck hun. Sending you baby dust!

Will be nice for your lo to have siblings close in age.

I also want to have all my babies before I am in my early 30s, so I understand you there
xx

jem77 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:17 AM

We are ntnp. I had my 6 week pp visit last week and my Dr was all for us trying for another. We want our children close in age, and I'm 35 so we don't have time to wait too long. Good luck!

nugget80 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:18 AM

my 2 dds are a year apart and dd1 was emcs while dd2 was a vbac. love the age gap and though they bicker alot now they older they are still very close and are good friends! lo is now 10 months and we are ttc again! good luck to you...

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:45 AM

Mummytosummerandskye- snap about being done with kids by 30 lol i hope i achieve tht! And aww sounds like ur little family is just perfect as it is .. on here i keep hearing ppl say tht u wont give all the attention to the other kid etc... But i think i will i- any tips on how u made it work ? Alsso i thort being pregnant again will make the time go so fast next thing u know shel be a toddler! But its all gona be worth it xx

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:47 AM

Charlie- wow 3 so clothss! My maths is crap how many months pregant were ur babys whe u got pregnant! and i accept all the advice i can get!! Thnk u x

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:48 AM

Tinks - thank u! And i think the same lol shes so perfect! I wonder if wel be this lucky and blessed next time round lol x

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:49 AM

Belle- thanks hun! Whats ur babys age gaps? And i see ur wtt how long r u waiting xx

MummytoSummer · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:52 AM

I'm not really sure how I make it works, it is tough and I guess at the moment im just taking each day as it comes.

It is difficult splitting my time between them, some days it seems that one of them has had a lot more of my attention. Obviously Summer being a toddler she wants my attention a lot, she wants me to play and do stuff which I can't always do because I'm feeding Skye. Skye does take up a lot of my attention at the moment as we're trying to get her reflux under control.

I just try to include Summer in as much as I can with Skye, like when I need to change her I'll ask Summer to get me the wipes and nappy etc. then when I'm feeding she'll sit next to me and we read a book together. Plus we bought her a doll so that she has a baby of her own to look after.

It is horrible when I have a day when it's been all about Skye or all about Summer and then I feel really guilty for not paying enough attention to the other one. But for the most part it's not a problem!

X

Apr 24th, 2012, 07:06 AM	#11
CharlieKeys Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Essex Posts: 5,249	Second was a complete accident - we didn't think we could get pregnant that quick but I can give you advice on close age gaps lol! It is lovely and I wouldn't want it any other way! I don't think you are irresponsible as long as you feel like your body can handle it and you have support from your Drs after having a c-section then go ttc! Third we were ntnp but again we weren't expecting it to happen so quick and we actually then decided against it but two weeks later found out we were pregnant.

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:07 AM	#12
Tink81 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 464	Good luck to you! we are still undecided if we want a second, but we arn't taking any precautions so who knows! The only thing that I worry about is that bean is so good, we may have been spoiled, and a second may not be as good! Hehe

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:11 AM	#13
Belle25 Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Yorkshire, England Posts: 2,931	Not personally, but good luck hun. Sending you baby dust! Will be nice for your lo to have siblings close in age. I also want to have all my babies before I am in my early 30s, so I understand you there xx

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:17 AM	#14
jem77 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: USA Posts: 569	We are ntnp. I had my 6 week pp visit last week and my Dr was all for us trying for another. We want our children close in age, and I'm 35 so we don't have time to wait too long. Good luck!

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:18 AM	#15
nugget80 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: hertfordshire Posts: 1,801	my 2 dds are a year apart and dd1 was emcs while dd2 was a vbac. love the age gap and though they bicker alot now they older they are still very close and are good friends! lo is now 10 months and we are ttc again! good luck to you...

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:45 AM	#16
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Mummytosummerandskye- snap about being done with kids by 30 lol i hope i achieve tht! And aww sounds like ur little family is just perfect as it is .. on here i keep hearing ppl say tht u wont give all the attention to the other kid etc... But i think i will i- any tips on how u made it work ? Alsso i thort being pregnant again will make the time go so fast next thing u know shel be a toddler! But its all gona be worth it xx

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:47 AM	#17
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Charlie- wow 3 so clothss! My maths is crap how many months pregant were ur babys whe u got pregnant! and i accept all the advice i can get!! Thnk u x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:48 AM	#18
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Tinks - thank u! And i think the same lol shes so perfect! I wonder if wel be this lucky and blessed next time round lol x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:49 AM	#19
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Belle- thanks hun! Whats ur babys age gaps? And i see ur wtt how long r u waiting xx

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Apr 24th, 2012, 07:52 AM	#20
MummytoSummer Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Gloucestershire, uk Posts: 2,785	I'm not really sure how I make it works, it is tough and I guess at the moment im just taking each day as it comes. It is difficult splitting my time between them, some days it seems that one of them has had a lot more of my attention. Obviously Summer being a toddler she wants my attention a lot, she wants me to play and do stuff which I can't always do because I'm feeding Skye. Skye does take up a lot of my attention at the moment as we're trying to get her reflux under control. I just try to include Summer in as much as I can with Skye, like when I need to change her I'll ask Summer to get me the wipes and nappy etc. then when I'm feeding she'll sit next to me and we read a book together. Plus we bought her a doll so that she has a baby of her own to look after. It is horrible when I have a day when it's been all about Skye or all about Summer and then I feel really guilty for not paying enough attention to the other one. But for the most part it's not a problem! X

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