Second was a complete accident - we didn't think we could get pregnant that quick but I can give you advice on close age gaps lol! It is lovely and I wouldn't want it any other way! I don't think you are irresponsible as long as you feel like your body can handle it and you have support from your Drs after having a c-section then go ttc!
Third we were ntnp but again we weren't expecting it to happen so quick and we actually then decided against it but two weeks later found out we were pregnant.
Good luck to you! we are still undecided if we want a second, but we arn't taking any precautions so who knows! The only thing that I worry about is that bean is so good, we may have been spoiled, and a second may not be as good! Hehe
my 2 dds are a year apart and dd1 was emcs while dd2 was a vbac. love the age gap and though they bicker alot now they older they are still very close and are good friends! lo is now 10 months and we are ttc again! good luck to you...
Mummytosummerandskye- snap about being done with kids by 30 lol i hope i achieve tht! And aww sounds like ur little family is just perfect as it is .. on here i keep hearing ppl say tht u wont give all the attention to the other kid etc... But i think i will i- any tips on how u made it work ? Alsso i thort being pregnant again will make the time go so fast next thing u know shel be a toddler! But its all gona be worth it xx
I'm not really sure how I make it works, it is tough and I guess at the moment im just taking each day as it comes.
It is difficult splitting my time between them, some days it seems that one of them has had a lot more of my attention. Obviously Summer being a toddler she wants my attention a lot, she wants me to play and do stuff which I can't always do because I'm feeding Skye. Skye does take up a lot of my attention at the moment as we're trying to get her reflux under control.
I just try to include Summer in as much as I can with Skye, like when I need to change her I'll ask Summer to get me the wipes and nappy etc. then when I'm feeding she'll sit next to me and we read a book together. Plus we bought her a doll so that she has a baby of her own to look after.
It is horrible when I have a day when it's been all about Skye or all about Summer and then I feel really guilty for not paying enough attention to the other one. But for the most part it's not a problem!
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