Anyone ttc or ntnp before there child is a year old? - Page 5

jenniferttc1 · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:25 AM

I can't seem to work up the balls to TTC! lol
I would love them to be close in age and my husband is ready to go anytime I am.
Maybe after the summer is done and out of the way we will TTC. Last summer I didnt get to do anything. No jumping off clifts, rollercoasters, laying out and having a nice drink. Plus I want to give myself a few months to work on my ab muscles so I don't get so huge! lol
But I guess you could say NTNP? we use pull out method only (also breastfeeding though)

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:26 AM

Mamoosca- thank u! I remember u too! And i just realised if we conicve may or june they will have the same birthday month! Oops lol x and tht age gap ur plannin is stil super close hope it does go to plan for u hun x

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:27 AM

Nugget thanks for saying tht i think the age ur had ur babys is perfect! And i know what u mean by 6 LONG months it feels like forever when ur ttc doesnt it lol every month feels like a lifetime! Hoepfuly this tme round wil be more laid back and relaxed about the whole thing x x

leahsbabybump · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:41 AM

i ntnp'd for a few months had sex twice and got caugth wasnt expecting it to happen so soon infact we had decided just before i got bfp that perhaps we should sort some contraception out as we wasnt ready yet so we decided i got for a coil i was waiting for period so i could go get it fitted but my period never came grrr lol oh well my family got complete a bit sooner than we anticipated lol
i think if you are going to ntnp you need to make sure your fully aware it could happen the first time you dtd or the second like with me lol

Chellxx · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:42 AM

Good for you Hun, I wanted to ttc when lo was 6 weeks but everyone told me it was hormones and I'd change my mind, when he was 3 months we had an "accident" and when af showed 2 weeks later I was so upset so we decided to ttc. I fell when lo was 5 months old so there will be 14 months between them and we are super excited about that. People tell me all the time that I'm crazy but I turned 30 this year and dont want to wait any longer, and we never thought we'd have 1 baby so 2 is such a huge blessing for us.

Good luck ttc huni, I hope you get your bfp soon

nugget80 · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:55 AM

i was ff as dd was in special care for 4 weeks and ff was quickest way to get her home! periods came back pretty quick! was very lucky it was so quick and think consultant was surprised as well! forceps were a little scary but tbh by then i was too tired to care! im only 5ft 1 but seem to have big babies... ds was 8lb 3 and 2 weeks early!

DianaB · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:55 AM

We're planning on 3 or four children. Right now she just a little over half on breastmilk but hopefully it will soon be more. I had the opposite problem with breastfeeding she'd constantly be on but no milk lol. I had a normal perfect delivery but my recovery was hell, my stiches got infected and about 5 different antibiotics and 2 months later I was finally back to normal.

CazM 2011 · Apr 24th, 2012, 09:57 AM

We hope to start NTNP (we did this with emma and was only 4 months till we were pregnant so hope for around he same) when LO is around 18 weeks old, so here will be 18 months ish hopefully!! It would be sooner but I've had to have my rubella injections again so have to wait 12 weeks after my second one next week but I will be checking with the doctor if thats right or we can earlier, I'm so excited again lol!
We decided we wanted our kids close in age for a few different reasons, my OH being 44 wants to have all our kids sooner, me having a younger sister who is 8 years younger I personally hated such a big gap, me being a SAHM till all kids Are in school, if we finish having our family in the next 3-4 years they will all be in school when I am 30 and it is ideal for me finding a career still.

Belle25 · Apr 24th, 2012, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by youngwife20

Belle- thanks hun! Whats ur babys age gaps? And i see ur wtt how long r u waiting xx

My first 'baby' is 6

so 6 year age gap. We plan on waiting 3 years or so. Its circumstances that dictate the gaps for us, such as bigger house etc
xx

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 10:53 AM

Jenn- lol me and hubby cudnt ever be bothered trying to pull out method lol and i know what u mean about wanting to do a few things b4 gettin pregnant agan theres so much u cnt do when u pregntn when i had her i felt free again lol to eat and drink what i want lol but i must say im alot healthier pregnant than not lol as i eat super healthy etc and u got plenty of time to "get some balls to ttc " lol x

Apr 24th, 2012, 09:25 AM	#41
jenniferttc1 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: US Posts: 10,830	I can't seem to work up the balls to TTC! lol I would love them to be close in age and my husband is ready to go anytime I am. Maybe after the summer is done and out of the way we will TTC. Last summer I didnt get to do anything. No jumping off clifts, rollercoasters, laying out and having a nice drink. Plus I want to give myself a few months to work on my ab muscles so I don't get so huge! lol But I guess you could say NTNP? we use pull out method only (also breastfeeding though)

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Apr 24th, 2012, 09:26 AM	#42
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Mamoosca- thank u! I remember u too! And i just realised if we conicve may or june they will have the same birthday month! Oops lol x and tht age gap ur plannin is stil super close hope it does go to plan for u hun x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 09:27 AM	#43
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Nugget thanks for saying tht i think the age ur had ur babys is perfect! And i know what u mean by 6 LONG months it feels like forever when ur ttc doesnt it lol every month feels like a lifetime! Hoepfuly this tme round wil be more laid back and relaxed about the whole thing x x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 09:41 AM	#44
leahsbabybump Other BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: South Yorkshire - UK Posts: 9,760	i ntnp'd for a few months had sex twice and got caugth wasnt expecting it to happen so soon infact we had decided just before i got bfp that perhaps we should sort some contraception out as we wasnt ready yet so we decided i got for a coil i was waiting for period so i could go get it fitted but my period never came grrr lol oh well my family got complete a bit sooner than we anticipated lol i think if you are going to ntnp you need to make sure your fully aware it could happen the first time you dtd or the second like with me lol

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Apr 24th, 2012, 09:42 AM	#45
Chellxx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: County Durham Posts: 1,098	Good for you Hun, I wanted to ttc when lo was 6 weeks but everyone told me it was hormones and I'd change my mind, when he was 3 months we had an "accident" and when af showed 2 weeks later I was so upset so we decided to ttc. I fell when lo was 5 months old so there will be 14 months between them and we are super excited about that. People tell me all the time that I'm crazy but I turned 30 this year and dont want to wait any longer, and we never thought we'd have 1 baby so 2 is such a huge blessing for us. Good luck ttc huni, I hope you get your bfp soon

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Apr 24th, 2012, 09:55 AM	#46
nugget80 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: hertfordshire Posts: 1,801	i was ff as dd was in special care for 4 weeks and ff was quickest way to get her home! periods came back pretty quick! was very lucky it was so quick and think consultant was surprised as well! forceps were a little scary but tbh by then i was too tired to care! im only 5ft 1 but seem to have big babies... ds was 8lb 3 and 2 weeks early!

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Apr 24th, 2012, 09:55 AM	#47
DianaB Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Newfoundland, Canada Posts: 353	We're planning on 3 or four children. Right now she just a little over half on breastmilk but hopefully it will soon be more. I had the opposite problem with breastfeeding she'd constantly be on but no milk lol. I had a normal perfect delivery but my recovery was hell, my stiches got infected and about 5 different antibiotics and 2 months later I was finally back to normal.

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Apr 24th, 2012, 09:57 AM	#48
CazM 2011 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: West Midlands, UK Posts: 392	We hope to start NTNP (we did this with emma and was only 4 months till we were pregnant so hope for around he same) when LO is around 18 weeks old, so here will be 18 months ish hopefully!! It would be sooner but I've had to have my rubella injections again so have to wait 12 weeks after my second one next week but I will be checking with the doctor if thats right or we can earlier, I'm so excited again lol! We decided we wanted our kids close in age for a few different reasons, my OH being 44 wants to have all our kids sooner, me having a younger sister who is 8 years younger I personally hated such a big gap, me being a SAHM till all kids Are in school, if we finish having our family in the next 3-4 years they will all be in school when I am 30 and it is ideal for me finding a career still.

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Apr 24th, 2012, 10:53 AM	#50
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Jenn- lol me and hubby cudnt ever be bothered trying to pull out method lol and i know what u mean about wanting to do a few things b4 gettin pregnant agan theres so much u cnt do when u pregntn when i had her i felt free again lol to eat and drink what i want lol but i must say im alot healthier pregnant than not lol as i eat super healthy etc and u got plenty of time to "get some balls to ttc " lol x

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