anyone ttc or ntnp before there child is a year old?

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:36 AM

Hey ladies i know some of you orr most will think im crazy lol but my baby is 8 weeks old and we have started ntnp and ttc allit lol (not propper ttc like first time round jsst seeing what happens and hoping for the best)

I had a c section so im fully aware of risks before having a birth before a year pp but my deoctor has told me its fine depends on the individual.

Theres a few reasons why we want to have all the babys so soon but i wont go into that lol
But were so happy to have them close in age.
Im 21 oh 25 and would like to have all babys before 30.. (4 in total) lol

If i didnt have a c section i would be pregnant by now..

(And i dont need anyone saying im iresponsible. Our personal reasons are enough for us to know this is whats best!)

So anyway i was looking for ladies who are also ttc or ntnp or had a baby before baby was 12months so we can chat and share experiances of how were getting on! And how old baby was when u started trying or ntnp xx

Thanks! Xx

_jellybean_ · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:42 AM

excuse writing...holding lo...

we r trying. i also had a section. doctor approved ttc. nervous a bit lol. you r completely right...every woman is different. fx for u

MummytoSummer · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:43 AM

Aw really pleased for you hun!

It's nobodies business but yours and oh's when you decide to try so good luck to you!

As you know I've decided no more babies but we did start ttc Skye when Summer was only 10 months old so we hadn't waited the full 12 months recommended after a c section. I know you're only 2 months pp but so what, you'll be fine and as you said everyone is different!

If I did want another baby I'd happily start trying now at nearly 3 months pp!

X

MumToEva · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:46 AM

Not trying yet, but dying to. Have to wait a while unfortunately due to financial reasons, but hoping to get pregnant when little one is 7 months old. Fingers crossed anyway!

Good luck

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:49 AM

Jelly- thank you hun i remember u in third tri- how r u feeling? Its exciting trying again.. first time round i was so axouis and realy didnt enjoy ttc i just wanted a baby so much! Some part of it i found excitring lol ( i like orgonising so plannin a calnder of when to dtd was fine) but now its more laid back because we have one baby so im like desperate the way i was! I was so obbsessed lol xx have u told any ur ttc ? Wev only told my mum x

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:51 AM

Mummytosummer and skye! - thanks hun! Its so exciting ur babys are so close too and i think thts so great there lucky to have each other! Do u thinnk u will still say u dnt want no babys after a few yrs? And was ur first baby a section? How was the second? Which one was better? Were they both planned sections x

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:53 AM

Thank you mumtoeva! Goodluck when u start trying hope it happens instantly for u!! Xx did u think ud be broody so soon after having ur baby? I knew i wud even during my emergancy section while they were pullin her out we were discusing havin number 2 lol

youngwife20 · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:55 AM

Im curious those ttc so soon do u have siblings; what about ur oh? I had one sibling but he passed away when i was 8 he was 9 n my hubby has 3half siblings who didnt grow up with him so hes pracitcly an only child i think that contributes to us wanting a big family with them close togetther me n my brother was a year apart mum also had an emc with first and planned section with second x

MummytoSummer · Apr 24th, 2012, 06:59 AM

I wouldn't change the age gap between them for anything, they love each other so much. Summer adores her baby sister.

Yes both my births were c sections. The first was an emergency c section though then the second was planned. My emergency section wasn't a horrible experience but the planned c section was an amazing experience and I'd happily do it again! It was so exciting knowing exactly when she would arrive. Recovery both times was fantastic but after the planned one was even easier.

Maybe in a few years I'll have a different opinion but I really feel like my family is complete. I know I said after Summer that I couldn't see how I could give enough love to another child, and obviously I have because I love Skye just the same but I really feel as though I don't want to add anymore into the mix because I just love them both so much. Plus I wanted to be done with it by the time I'm 30 and I turn 30 in July!

X

MissMummy2Be · Apr 24th, 2012, 07:03 AM

Hey who cares what others think lol we waited a bit longer then you to start NTNP (Our son is 8 months old now) but we started NTNP at the start of this month

Apr 24th, 2012, 06:36 AM	#1
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	anyone ttc or ntnp before there child is a year old? Hey ladies i know some of you orr most will think im crazy lol but my baby is 8 weeks old and we have started ntnp and ttc allit lol (not propper ttc like first time round jsst seeing what happens and hoping for the best) I had a c section so im fully aware of risks before having a birth before a year pp but my deoctor has told me its fine depends on the individual. Theres a few reasons why we want to have all the babys so soon but i wont go into that lol But were so happy to have them close in age. Im 21 oh 25 and would like to have all babys before 30.. (4 in total) lol If i didnt have a c section i would be pregnant by now.. (And i dont need anyone saying im iresponsible. Our personal reasons are enough for us to know this is whats best!) So anyway i was looking for ladies who are also ttc or ntnp or had a baby before baby was 12months so we can chat and share experiances of how were getting on! And how old baby was when u started trying or ntnp xx Thanks! Xx

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:42 AM	#2
_jellybean_ AutoSignup (SAAB) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2011 Posts: 7,805	excuse writing...holding lo... we r trying. i also had a section. doctor approved ttc. nervous a bit lol. you r completely right...every woman is different. fx for u

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:43 AM	#3
MummytoSummer Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Gloucestershire, uk Posts: 2,785	Aw really pleased for you hun! It's nobodies business but yours and oh's when you decide to try so good luck to you! As you know I've decided no more babies but we did start ttc Skye when Summer was only 10 months old so we hadn't waited the full 12 months recommended after a c section. I know you're only 2 months pp but so what, you'll be fine and as you said everyone is different! If I did want another baby I'd happily start trying now at nearly 3 months pp! X

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:46 AM	#4
MumToEva Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 1,552	Not trying yet, but dying to. Have to wait a while unfortunately due to financial reasons, but hoping to get pregnant when little one is 7 months old. Fingers crossed anyway! Good luck

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:49 AM	#5
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Jelly- thank you hun i remember u in third tri- how r u feeling? Its exciting trying again.. first time round i was so axouis and realy didnt enjoy ttc i just wanted a baby so much! Some part of it i found excitring lol ( i like orgonising so plannin a calnder of when to dtd was fine) but now its more laid back because we have one baby so im like desperate the way i was! I was so obbsessed lol xx have u told any ur ttc ? Wev only told my mum x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:51 AM	#6
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Mummytosummer and skye! - thanks hun! Its so exciting ur babys are so close too and i think thts so great there lucky to have each other! Do u thinnk u will still say u dnt want no babys after a few yrs? And was ur first baby a section? How was the second? Which one was better? Were they both planned sections x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:53 AM	#7
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Thank you mumtoeva! Goodluck when u start trying hope it happens instantly for u!! Xx did u think ud be broody so soon after having ur baby? I knew i wud even during my emergancy section while they were pullin her out we were discusing havin number 2 lol

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:55 AM	#8
youngwife20 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,042	Im curious those ttc so soon do u have siblings; what about ur oh? I had one sibling but he passed away when i was 8 he was 9 n my hubby has 3half siblings who didnt grow up with him so hes pracitcly an only child i think that contributes to us wanting a big family with them close togetther me n my brother was a year apart mum also had an emc with first and planned section with second x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 06:59 AM	#9
MummytoSummer Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Gloucestershire, uk Posts: 2,785	I wouldn't change the age gap between them for anything, they love each other so much. Summer adores her baby sister. Yes both my births were c sections. The first was an emergency c section though then the second was planned. My emergency section wasn't a horrible experience but the planned c section was an amazing experience and I'd happily do it again! It was so exciting knowing exactly when she would arrive. Recovery both times was fantastic but after the planned one was even easier. Maybe in a few years I'll have a different opinion but I really feel like my family is complete. I know I said after Summer that I couldn't see how I could give enough love to another child, and obviously I have because I love Skye just the same but I really feel as though I don't want to add anymore into the mix because I just love them both so much. Plus I wanted to be done with it by the time I'm 30 and I turn 30 in July! X

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MissMummy2Be Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Vic Aus Posts: 1,336	Hey who cares what others think lol we waited a bit longer then you to start NTNP (Our son is 8 months old now) but we started NTNP at the start of this month

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